【 以下文字转载自 Girl 讨论区 】 发信人: skyblue0 (跳), 信区: Girl 标 题: 推荐女生们必看《He is just not that into you》 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Sep 23 12:46:30 2010, 美东) 还有张 blockbuster 的GF卡没用完, 周末借了两张碟回家 推荐女生们必看《He is just not that into you》 (2009) 剖析男生女生的心理差异,以及对朋友,恋人,夫妻关系的不同方式 。。。 http://www.douban.com/minisite/9yuanmovie/discussion/23450632/ 在自作多情上面,东西方文化是有共通之处的。 他没有给你打电话,可能是他在忙,可能是他不小心遗失了你的电话,又可能是他在等你打来。你唯一不会去想也不愿意想的那个可能就是,他根本不想打来。 你的朋友也会这样安慰你,或者说,你愿意这样被他们安慰,你们习惯互相间的自我欺骗,或者她们觉得这是善意的谎言。 GIGI(Ginnifer Goodwin)天真率直,毫不掩饰自己等待
I think Gigi in this movie did. She called the guy she liked several times. But if he didn't respond, then - that means he's not that into you. You can only control what you can control. You cannot control others' emotions. If he doesn't have chemistry with you, you cannot push him even you like him that much.