我联系推荐人的第一封信压根没提推荐信多夸张,只是说推荐信对我很重要所以请求帮 忙。 等把草稿发过去时,怕推荐人觉得太夸张,于是就写了下面这段: This letter will be used solely for my green card application. And this letter is confidential - it will not be released to anyone except U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) and my lawyer who represents me to submit my green card application. If you have previously signed such a letter for other green card applicants, you may understand that all the compliments in this letter are commonly used in all reference letters to USCIS. My lawyer had reviewed the entire letter and ensured the content of the letter will cause no inconvenience. The letter is not for academic usage (such as university application or job seeking) and will not be disclosed to anyone else. 这样如果推荐人加上了敏感词、publication number之类的,我都可以说USCIS要求很 严格所以请他改一下。这样很有礼貌也能使推荐人信服。