if you are going about it the traditional way then there isn't anything you can do to guarantee a particular gender. But you might be able to influence it by eating a specific diet and having sex at specific times in your ovulation days. The book ''How to choose the sex of your baby'' can explain that further, but its not terribly complicated. Its also not a guarantee. http://www.amazon.com/mn/search/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creat