2.
I was raised by my grandmother. Only lived with my parents on and off for
about 7 years total. I was the only child. My mother is the queen of the
house. She always get the best of everything including food. She picks first
, then the remaining belongs to me and my father. She thinks I got spoiled
by grandma and she wanted to correct that.
As a mother, I still think my mother put herself first before everything
else. I tried not to ask her for help because I will get rejected. I got a
nanny to take care of the baby. My mother belives money is everything, so
she has a total control of money in her household. She also belives that she
don't need me when she get old because she has money. So she let me hanndle
everything on my own. My kid, my responsibility. She refused to learn to
take care her grandkid, that way nobody can ask her for favor. Instead she
use her money and time to enjoy her life by traveling.
Anyway, after 30+ years of struggle, I finally know that my mother do love
me. When there is urgency, she will help, just don't expect too much.