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APAD:Never reveal a man's wage and woman's age

移花接木
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Never reveal a man's wage, and woman's age

This was even legit in times where women were judged by the age because of fertility. And men were judged by salary because he was the breadwinner!

But in today's society, these are nothing but taboos! yes, in the concepts like arrange marriages age and salary are two main features that are showcased!


Why do they say never ask a man his salary?
The common consensus is that questions about a person's salary are “rude” and therefore off-limits. Divulging your salary can make you feel self-conscious because you're afraid that people will either pity or envy you, and neither of those are comfortable positions.

Why is it taboo to ask a woman her age?

Well, why, indeed? A society that extols youth and degrades age has poisoned the pleasure of having a long life, but people have curiously adopted this attitude. Often, even employers (illegally) value youth over experience.

In social circumstances, it has thought ridiculous to consider one’s age an embarrassment. Nevertheless, it is — to many gentlemen, as well as ladies — and therefore, that question should not be asked of anyone except children.

 

 

 

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最西边的岛上
2 楼
true in the west. but might be different in other culture ;)
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最西边的岛上
3 楼
trueStory: when myDad came 2CanadaVisiting & met a neighbour

man who is father of a Chinese couple. After their first meetup, my dad knew (thus I knew) the ages of the man and the other couple & their wages, and I bet they knew mine too (but I didn't dare to check). 

Note: I was working in the same company as the couple. 

 

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移花接木
4 楼
哈哈 I didn't know my neighbor's name tho we greet each day
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7grizzly
5 楼
The grapevine is more powerful than the press :-)
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7grizzly
6 楼
In the west, men seem also more insecure about age.
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最西边的岛上
7 楼
unfortunately I know most my neighbours ages (they told;-))
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最西边的岛上
8 楼
hate gossiping but couldn't stop old men talking ;-)
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最西边的岛上
9 楼
but age discrimination is illegal in NA?
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7grizzly
10 楼
No need to. You'd kill 90% of the fun.
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7grizzly
11 楼
That's good. But law and life are not always the same.
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天边一片白云
12 楼
Haha。like your story.
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天边一片白云
13 楼
True. Don't ask wage or age of anybody.
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最西边的岛上
14 楼
wished myDad would have had checked withMe 1st b4 meetup ;((
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