===bully,aggressiveness and parenting=== parenting 101: KNOW yourself, KNOW your kiddo, KNOW what's going on in your kiddo's life,especially when kiddo is not around 先说百花齐放才是春,人性软硬件各有千秋,没有好坏只有不同 人的很多特性当中,有一点就是 这个人天生的 攻击性强弱,好胜心强弱, 主动性强弱 如果这些方面强的小朋友,硬件也上乘, 就很有可能在为自己争利益或是获取快感的过成中,变成bully 这种”强“kiddo的父母,一定要在人人平等,live and let live, 包容别人不如自己 人无完人 这些方面做足功课; 帮助娃用别的方式获取自信,而非单单依靠打赢一场架,踢赢跑赢一场竞赛 同时,因为娃能量大,一定要引导娃把能量用在对自己 对他人 对环境 做positive的 事情上来;用自己的长处来帮助在这些方面是短处的人 乜是leadership? ......
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】 : ===bully,aggressiveness and parenting=== : parenting 101: : KNOW yourself, KNOW your kiddo, : KNOW what's going on in your kiddo's life,especially when kiddo is not : around : 先说百花齐放才是春,人性软硬件各有千秋,没有好坏只有不同 : 人的很多特性当中,有一点就是 : 这个人天生的 攻击性强弱,好胜心强弱, 主动性强弱 : 如果这些方面强的小朋友,硬件也上乘, : 就很有可能在为自己争利益或是获取快感的过成中,变成bully
给Parenting101加2条: Know yourself includes knowing your own parents, and/or grandparents, and whoever raised you, and trying to understand the environment you were raised . Try to understand the environment your kid is raised. Make informed and conscious decision on what kind of parent (person) you want to be, and what kind of child (person) you want to raise.
【在 c******f 的大作中提到】 : : 使用 Mobile 上 MitBBS 的毕竟还是少数
m*k
42 楼
老大。我们只是想养个孩子玩玩。 你们搞得这认真复杂。。神马 火箭科技都是浮云。:)
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【在 T******t 的大作中提到】 : 给Parenting101加2条: : Know yourself includes knowing your own parents, and/or grandparents, and : whoever raised you, and trying to understand the environment you were raised : . : Try to understand the environment your kid is raised. : Make informed and conscious decision on what kind of parent (person) you : want to be, and what kind of child (person) you want to raise.
F*3
43 楼
APP名字叫什么??
r*d
44 楼
果然是学术帖,学习中。
c*f
45 楼
这个 App 已经正式提交给了 Apple App Store 审核,审核之后大家可以免费下载. App 名为: MITBBS - 未名空间
l*e
46 楼
沙发
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】 : ===bully,aggressiveness and parenting=== : parenting 101: : KNOW yourself, KNOW your kiddo, : KNOW what's going on in your kiddo's life,especially when kiddo is not : around : 先说百花齐放才是春,人性软硬件各有千秋,没有好坏只有不同 : 人的很多特性当中,有一点就是 : 这个人天生的 攻击性强弱,好胜心强弱, 主动性强弱 : 如果这些方面强的小朋友,硬件也上乘, : 就很有可能在为自己争利益或是获取快感的过成中,变成bully
话说 everyone is talented, everyone is gifted just in different ways 所以 please teach your kiddo to use his/her talents WISELY 说穿了,就是要有一颗感恩的心 孩子要慢慢学习,自己的才华天赋都是given 别人如果不如我们,不是他们的错,只不过我们更走运21 有这样的感悟,就不会因别人不如自己而去嘲笑讽刺捉弄甚至欺负别人了
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】 : 话说 : everyone is talented, everyone is gifted : just in different ways : 所以 : please teach your kiddo to use his/her talents WISELY : 说穿了,就是要有一颗感恩的心 : 孩子要慢慢学习,自己的才华天赋都是given : 别人如果不如我们,不是他们的错,只不过我们更走运21 : 有这样的感悟,就不会因别人不如自己而去嘲笑讽刺捉弄甚至欺负别人了
P*L
51 楼
赞!实在不想越狱,期待能早日用上。
【在 c******f 的大作中提到】 : 这个 App 已经正式提交给了 Apple App Store 审核,审核之后大家可以免费下载. : App 名为: MITBBS - 未名空间
I have been writing open-source projects for years. And there are always people who are bullshitting your work with different kinds of intentions. But please remember, you shouldn't blame people who are contributing to this society for FREE ...
===受欺负的娃=== kiddo 在学校受欺负,回家来讲,父母一定要尽量冷静, collect facts, 重申欺负别人是可耻的行为,是bully的错,受欺负的人没有错 一定要让孩子感觉到父母站在TA这一边,给TA撑腰 帮助孩子分析 让kiddo comes up with ways to stand up for him/herself 自然是先文后武,一定要让孩子学会正当防卫 如果bully者屡教不改,我会支持孩子打回去 孩子之间干仗,气场强(比胜,不怕死)者胜 打赢了,娘俩喝一杯,啊,不,咱吃冰激凌去:) 胜1,2次之后,没有人再来无事生非 那就要在孩子跟同学正常交友上下功夫了 有勇之后,要学习有谋,才能更上一层楼
I have high respect for people who do good to this community, not to mention doing it for free. I'm not criticizing the work coolwulf has done. I'm sure it's something good . What I'm questioning is whether coolwulf has respect for others, owner of MITBBS in this case. Just because you did something good, doesn't give you the right to imply you 're better than those who are probably making a living (a good one perhaps) off what you are giving away for free. You should also ask this question -- without the contents on this site, what would the application be presenting?
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【在 c******f 的大作中提到】 : : I have been writing open-source projects for years. And there are always : people who are bullshitting your work with different kinds of intentions. : But please remember, you shouldn't blame people who are contributing to this : society for FREE ...
coolwulf, I apologize for going a little too far criticizing you. If I knew you've been doing open source projects for years, I would have thought of what you said differently (like, a veteran open source developer cracking some jokes, but didn't really mean to be "SOUR"), and gone with a softer tone, if I did ever speak out. Also, it was late at night, and I don't really post a lot online. So I just found out I was replying to you while thinking I was replying to somebody else. I want to say again I do have high respect for people do good things for the community, FREE OR NOT. On this note, I think MITBBS deserve more respect than some people give it. It started as a free for all place many years ago, and evolved into what it is today, providing a good cyberspace for overseas Chinese community while not aggressively annoying users just for profit (IMHO, just standard practice to make some money, nothing wrong with that). I would rather believe you were just making a little fun of the incident, instead of truly being against what I see as standard practice of MITBBS. Thanks, for doing good and being humble!
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【在 c******f 的大作中提到】 : : I have been writing open-source projects for years. And there are always : people who are bullshitting your work with different kinds of intentions. : But please remember, you shouldn't blame people who are contributing to this : society for FREE ...
h*s
70 楼
Remember Google has been bullshit by some people on this board because they think Google provided "evil free" service..even if the service itself would be free for ever for the individual users.
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【在 c******f 的大作中提到】 : : I have been writing open-source projects for years. And there are always : people who are bullshitting your work with different kinds of intentions. : But please remember, you shouldn't blame people who are contributing to this : society for FREE ...
c*f
71 楼
they would Well... I 'm getting used to it now.
【在 h*******s 的大作中提到】 : Remember Google has been bullshit by some people on this board because they : think Google provided "evil free" service..even if the service itself would : be free for ever for the individual users. : : this
c*f
72 楼
knew just the Thanks for your note.
【在 i******n 的大作中提到】 : coolwulf, I apologize for going a little too far criticizing you. If I knew : you've been doing open source projects for years, I would have thought of : what you said differently (like, a veteran open source developer cracking : some jokes, but didn't really mean to be "SOUR"), and gone with a softer : tone, if I did ever speak out. : Also, it was late at night, and I don't really post a lot online. So I just : found out I was replying to you while thinking I was replying to somebody : else. : I want to say again I do have high respect for people do good things for the : community, FREE OR NOT.