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【 原文由 achuang 所发表 】
We are always right in our own story. Because we only see the effort
we pay and the hurt we get. Truth is that because we are selfish human
beings, and only our own emotion seems to be important.
But if you can judge things from the other's view point, things will
be much different. He paid his effort, and made his plan. If you don't
follow, he believes it is because you don't love him.
Just like you believe if he have not detect your emotional frustration
【 原文由 achuang 所发表 】
We are always right in our own story. Because we only see the effort
we pay and the hurt we get. Truth is that because we are selfish human
beings, and only our own emotion seems to be important.
But if you can judge things from the other's view point, things will
be much different. He paid his effort, and made his plan. If you don't
follow, he believes it is because you don't love him.
Just like you believe if he have not detect your emotional frustration