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快有小孩和已经有小孩的哥们# Family - 我爱我家

w*g2009-11-20 08:11

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即使到了万不得已,也别让自己父母过来帮忙.
也许不是百分之一百对,99.99%还是有的.
看到周围的,还有现在自己,快崩溃了.
还没回家,老婆的倾诉让我想跟父母断绝关系.
回到家,父母的倾诉让我想离婚.
另外,我现在倾向父母多一点.
没法说道理

g*92009-11-20 08:11

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to 说道理 with one woman is already difficult, to 说道理 with two woman?
hehe, good luck.
tell your wife that you are on her side and ask her to soften a bit, tell
your mom to stop trying to run your family, little by little, you may turn
this thing around.

【在 w********g 的大作中提到】

: 即使到了万不得已,也别让自己父母过来帮忙.
: 也许不是百分之一百对,99.99%还是有的.
: 看到周围的,还有现在自己,快崩溃了.
: 还没回家,老婆的倾诉让我想跟父母断绝关系.
: 回到家,父母的倾诉让我想离婚.
: 另外,我现在倾向父母多一点.
: 没法说道理

q*32009-11-20 08:11

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pat pat 楼主！
看到小孩就把烦恼抛掉了！

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G*G2009-11-20 08:11

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you are right. don't listen to the wives.
they are more selfish than your parents.

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s*d2009-11-20 08:11

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做双面胶嘛，两面一起贴，告诉你老婆你爸爸妈妈私下怎么关心她，告诉你爸爸妈妈你
老婆怎么私下照顾他们，人是emotional的动物，别人对自己好就会对别人好。千万别
反着来，跟这边抱怨那边，跟那边抱怨这边，或是两边一起指责，那就彻底完了。

a*u2009-11-20 08:11

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我操，这才是考研你的时候到了，站直了别怕下。

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C*22009-11-20 08:11

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You are right. If they do not get along, do not let the parents come to live
for longer period of time. If the parents come for a short visit, the wife
should be tolerant and polite to your parents, just like treating any guests
to your house.

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e*e2009-11-20 08:11

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threat them you'll become a monk

e*e2009-11-20 08:11

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god... these old folks are so stupid, unless they really make the son
divorce, otherwise, they're chasing away the son and his wife at the same
time

m*n2009-11-20 08:11

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不能同意更多

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: 做双面胶嘛，两面一起贴，告诉你老婆你爸爸妈妈私下怎么关心她，告诉你爸爸妈妈你
: 老婆怎么私下照顾他们，人是emotional的动物，别人对自己好就会对别人好。千万别
: 反着来，跟这边抱怨那边，跟那边抱怨这边，或是两边一起指责，那就彻底完了。

g*92009-11-20 08:11

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have to agree woman is truly creative in solving problems through lying

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g*92009-11-20 08:11

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Dont worry, he had three legs.

【在 a**********u 的大作中提到】

: 我操，这才是考研你的时候到了，站直了别怕下。

s*d2009-11-20 08:11

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lying is not always negative, as long as you do it with a good intension and
it does solve the problem. Plus you don't have make up the lie entirely,
you can magnify the truth in a good way. Do you have better ways to solve lz
's problem? divorce?

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: have to agree woman is truly creative in solving problems through lying