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d*i2011-06-05 07:06

1 楼

一个彻底的悲剧。
04年当陈丹雷杀他老公的时候，她趁偶午睡时用带钉的木板击打偶得脑袋。此后一直
对偶暴力，对老大也一直暴力，害得小孩经常旷课。
今天把小孩们得护照回国证给了她们，交代偶走了后她们应该怎么做。
很后悔04年没叫警察把她关到监狱去。

s*e2011-06-05 07:06

2 楼

别忘了带着孩子一起走。

d*i2011-06-05 07:06

3 楼

已经把偶得几个箱子装好车。
几年间跟社会工作者警察打交道都腻了。
有些女人以为有个B就能通吃世界了。
希望小孩们能有个稍好的新家新爸爸妈妈。

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 一个彻底的悲剧。
: 04年当陈丹雷杀他老公的时候，她趁偶午睡时用带钉的木板击打偶得脑袋。此后一直
: 对偶暴力，对老大也一直暴力，害得小孩经常旷课。
: 今天把小孩们得护照回国证给了她们，交代偶走了后她们应该怎么做。
: 很后悔04年没叫警察把她关到监狱去。

s*e2011-06-05 07:06

4 楼

别一竿子打到一片，家版女同胞骂死你
带着孩子走，要不然留着吃亏
你老婆得看心理医生

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 已经把偶得几个箱子装好车。
: 几年间跟社会工作者警察打交道都腻了。
: 有些女人以为有个B就能通吃世界了。
: 希望小孩们能有个稍好的新家新爸爸妈妈。

w*g2011-06-05 07:06

5 楼

Good luck. You should have taken your kids with you if possible.

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 已经把偶得几个箱子装好车。
: 几年间跟社会工作者警察打交道都腻了。
: 有些女人以为有个B就能通吃世界了。
: 希望小孩们能有个稍好的新家新爸爸妈妈。

i*e2011-06-05 07:06

6 楼

你把你干的事情说一说

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 一个彻底的悲剧。
: 04年当陈丹雷杀他老公的时候，她趁偶午睡时用带钉的木板击打偶得脑袋。此后一直
: 对偶暴力，对老大也一直暴力，害得小孩经常旷课。
: 今天把小孩们得护照回国证给了她们，交代偶走了后她们应该怎么做。
: 很后悔04年没叫警察把她关到监狱去。

d*i2011-06-05 07:06

7 楼

I will try to take the eldest one when I leave this country back to China.
Now,I can not take care of them.
The kids called 911 before I left the apartment. The police came and I asked
about social worker. it seems they know nothing about it.
Anybody here know how to get the children custody? Their mom won't let me
take the other two. But she had gone to E.R. and hospitals for so often
since she was and is crazy in her mind. I have to dump her here in this
country and will not take her back to China.
I do not care about my job.I have to punish her this time. Also I do not
want her to split even a penny from my pocket. she has wasted a lot of my
money in the hospital and E.R.
Thanks!

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】

: Good luck. You should have taken your kids with you if possible.

d*i2011-06-05 07:06

8 楼

Every time, the police came to my apartments. They never arested me instead
they took her away.You know if I did anything, the police would not let me
go.

【在 i*****e 的大作中提到】

: 你把你干的事情说一说

l*a2011-06-05 07:06

9 楼

我就不明白了，为什么要生3？

asked

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: I will try to take the eldest one when I leave this country back to China.
: Now,I can not take care of them.
: The kids called 911 before I left the apartment. The police came and I asked
: about social worker. it seems they know nothing about it.
: Anybody here know how to get the children custody? Their mom won't let me
: take the other two. But she had gone to E.R. and hospitals for so often
: since she was and is crazy in her mind. I have to dump her here in this
: country and will not take her back to China.
: I do not care about my job.I have to punish her this time. Also I do not
: want her to split even a penny from my pocket. she has wasted a lot of my

w*g2011-06-05 07:06

10 楼

you really need to take your children away then. Abandoning them is not a
good
idea. If you hate your wife so much and she is so dangerous. you could file
petition of divorce and take custody of your children.

instead

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: Every time, the police came to my apartments. They never arested me instead
: they took her away.You know if I did anything, the police would not let me
: go.

w*g2011-06-05 07:06

11 楼

maybe it is the reason his wife went crazy -- especially living in an
apartment.

【在 l******a 的大作中提到】

: 我就不明白了，为什么要生3？
:
: asked

l*a2011-06-05 07:06

12 楼

反正我觉得这个爸爸没担当的，日子过不下去就想拍拍屁股走了，丢3个娃给crazy的老
婆和社会？自己的娃都不要了，想让人领养，呸，我b4!养不起就不要生！都什么人啊！

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】

: maybe it is the reason his wife went crazy -- especially living in an
: apartment.

d*i2011-06-05 07:06

13 楼

When she tried to kill me in 04, the only kid was in China with my parents.
Later when my mom was here with me last year. She vebally abused my mom from
the second month till my mom left. Then my mom told me she only washed
three bowls per day when she lived with my parents. I could not imagine that
a woman could do things like that.

【在 w*******g 的大作中提到】

: maybe it is the reason his wife went crazy -- especially living in an
: apartment.

w*g2011-06-05 07:06

14 楼

I feel you. Crazy bitch like that.
Still, you may want to make sure your children are safe and sound.
You may find another place but still need to keep an eye on your children if
at all possible.

.
from
that

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: When she tried to kill me in 04, the only kid was in China with my parents.
: Later when my mom was here with me last year. She vebally abused my mom from
: the second month till my mom left. Then my mom told me she only washed
: three bowls per day when she lived with my parents. I could not imagine that
: a woman could do things like that.

d*i2011-06-05 07:06

15 楼

If the crazy woman let me take the kids, I will take the kids back to China.
But I will not do anything for her anymore. She has to stay or even die here
by herself. I have no responsibility to take care of her.
Every time, she got those police involved and then stayed in the hospital
for days and weeks.

啊！

【在 l******a 的大作中提到】

: 反正我觉得这个爸爸没担当的，日子过不下去就想拍拍屁股走了，丢3个娃给crazy的老
: 婆和社会？自己的娃都不要了，想让人领养，呸，我b4!养不起就不要生！都什么人啊！

l*a2011-06-05 07:06

16 楼

这种人要不你就早离婚或者分居，04年的时候你们应该还只有1个小孩把，处理起来也
方便，我真的是不明白为什么能拖这么久，还又搞出2个娃来。。。anyway,只是可怜了
孩子

China.
here

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: If the crazy woman let me take the kids, I will take the kids back to China.
: But I will not do anything for her anymore. She has to stay or even die here
: by herself. I have no responsibility to take care of her.
: Every time, she got those police involved and then stayed in the hospital
: for days and weeks.
:
: 啊！

a*n2011-06-05 07:06

17 楼

re
让我想起国内前几年那个植物人生女的新闻，那可怜女人都长褥疮了还生了个娃，大家
都想不通她丈夫怎么能。。。

【在 l******a 的大作中提到】

: 这种人要不你就早离婚或者分居，04年的时候你们应该还只有1个小孩把，处理起来也
: 方便，我真的是不明白为什么能拖这么久，还又搞出2个娃来。。。anyway,只是可怜了
: 孩子
:
: China.
: here

s*e2011-06-05 07:06

18 楼

三个孩子？你老婆是不是太累了产后抑郁了？抓紧看心理医生啊，留在家里大人小孩都
不安全。知道你受苦了，可是老婆还是早点送医院接受专业治疗。

asked

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: I will try to take the eldest one when I leave this country back to China.
: Now,I can not take care of them.
: The kids called 911 before I left the apartment. The police came and I asked
: about social worker. it seems they know nothing about it.
: Anybody here know how to get the children custody? Their mom won't let me
: take the other two. But she had gone to E.R. and hospitals for so often
: since she was and is crazy in her mind. I have to dump her here in this
: country and will not take her back to China.
: I do not care about my job.I have to punish her this time. Also I do not
: want her to split even a penny from my pocket. she has wasted a lot of my

s*e2011-06-05 07:06

19 楼

如果你老婆精神不正产，离婚了法院也不会吧赡养权判给她的。
怎么04年就要谋害你，你们还又生了2个小孩。苍天啊，人生活闹剧，真希望是个坑。

China.
here

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: If the crazy woman let me take the kids, I will take the kids back to China.
: But I will not do anything for her anymore. She has to stay or even die here
: by herself. I have no responsibility to take care of her.
: Every time, she got those police involved and then stayed in the hospital
: for days and weeks.
:
: 啊！

R*r2011-06-05 07:06

20 楼

唉，这整的。在美国都整出神经病了。

l*d2011-06-05 07:06

21 楼

How ridiculous. Why on earth a guy would bother to create 3 innocent kids
when the wife is claimed to be crazy? Everything happens for a reason. When
you leave for China without taking your kids, you're literally abandoning
your kids by leaving them behind. Be a man.

g*e2011-06-05 07:06

22 楼

天生一对啊，should stick together 别去害别人了。

【在 s*********e 的大作中提到】

: 如果你老婆精神不正产，离婚了法院也不会吧赡养权判给她的。
: 怎么04年就要谋害你，你们还又生了2个小孩。苍天啊，人生活闹剧，真希望是个坑。
:
: China.
: here

Y*i2011-06-05 07:06

23 楼

Did you make your wife crazy? I think she was not crazy when she met you.
Why did your wife verbally abuse your mom? Your mom did not do anything bad
to her? Your mom did not verbally abuse her? Don't just listen to one side
story.

.
from
that

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: When she tried to kill me in 04, the only kid was in China with my parents.
: Later when my mom was here with me last year. She vebally abused my mom from
: the second month till my mom left. Then my mom told me she only washed
: three bowls per day when she lived with my parents. I could not imagine that
: a woman could do things like that.

d*i2011-06-05 07:06

24 楼

I do not know if she was crazy at that time not, but surely none of her
family members liked or loved her. And she never cared about anybody. Her
brother had several diseases and her bother-in-law died from caner. She even
never talked with them, when I called them. She never did anything when I
has kidney stones for several times.
She vebally abused my mom in front of him.
People knowing her never thought she should marry me including her father.

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 一个彻底的悲剧。
: 04年当陈丹雷杀他老公的时候，她趁偶午睡时用带钉的木板击打偶得脑袋。此后一直
: 对偶暴力，对老大也一直暴力，害得小孩经常旷课。
: 今天把小孩们得护照回国证给了她们，交代偶走了后她们应该怎么做。
: 很后悔04年没叫警察把她关到监狱去。

M*N2011-06-05 07:06

25 楼

悲剧
或
坑
不管那样，我都要顶一下！

even

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: I do not know if she was crazy at that time not, but surely none of her
: family members liked or loved her. And she never cared about anybody. Her
: brother had several diseases and her bother-in-law died from caner. She even
: never talked with them, when I called them. She never did anything when I
: has kidney stones for several times.
: She vebally abused my mom in front of him.
: People knowing her never thought she should marry me including her father.

s*l2011-06-05 07:06

26 楼

这英语。。。差点以为她也嫁给了她父亲。

even

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: I do not know if she was crazy at that time not, but surely none of her
: family members liked or loved her. And she never cared about anybody. Her
: brother had several diseases and her bother-in-law died from caner. She even
: never talked with them, when I called them. She never did anything when I
: has kidney stones for several times.
: She vebally abused my mom in front of him.
: People knowing her never thought she should marry me including her father.

c*r2011-06-05 07:06

27 楼

she wanted to kill you, why?

When she tried to kill me in 04, the only kid was in China with my parents.
Later when my mom was here with me last year. She vebally abused my mom from
the second month till my mom left. Then my mom told me she only washed
three bowls per day when she lived with my parents. I could not imagine that
a woman could do things like that.

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: When she tried to kill me in 04, the only kid was in China with my parents.
: Later when my mom was here with me last year. She vebally abused my mom from
: the second month till my mom left. Then my mom told me she only washed
: three bowls per day when she lived with my parents. I could not imagine that
: a woman could do things like that.

T*y2011-06-05 07:06

28 楼

挖坑还用破英语.

c*r2011-06-05 07:06

29 楼

奇怪，为什么你能走，就不能带着自己的孩子一起走

China.
here

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: If the crazy woman let me take the kids, I will take the kids back to China.
: But I will not do anything for her anymore. She has to stay or even die here
: by herself. I have no responsibility to take care of her.
: Every time, she got those police involved and then stayed in the hospital
: for days and weeks.
:
: 啊！

f*r2011-06-05 07:06

30 楼

re

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 一个彻底的悲剧。
: 04年当陈丹雷杀他老公的时候，她趁偶午睡时用带钉的木板击打偶得脑袋。此后一直
: 对偶暴力，对老大也一直暴力，害得小孩经常旷课。
: 今天把小孩们得护照回国证给了她们，交代偶走了后她们应该怎么做。
: 很后悔04年没叫警察把她关到监狱去。

d*i2011-06-05 07:06

31 楼

Police just got her out of my house.I can take my kids back to China now.
Most of the women are stupid enough.

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 一个彻底的悲剧。
: 04年当陈丹雷杀他老公的时候，她趁偶午睡时用带钉的木板击打偶得脑袋。此后一直
: 对偶暴力，对老大也一直暴力，害得小孩经常旷课。
: 今天把小孩们得护照回国证给了她们，交代偶走了后她们应该怎么做。
: 很后悔04年没叫警察把她关到监狱去。

s*t2011-06-05 07:06

32 楼

从你的行文感觉你也有精神病.

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: Police just got her out of my house.I can take my kids back to China now.
: Most of the women are stupid enough.

c*y2011-06-05 07:06

33 楼

hahahahahaha
祝你幸运lz。只是苦了无辜的孩子

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: Police just got her out of my house.I can take my kids back to China now.
: Most of the women are stupid enough.

s*k2011-06-05 07:06

34 楼

re

啊！

【在 l******a 的大作中提到】

: 反正我觉得这个爸爸没担当的，日子过不下去就想拍拍屁股走了，丢3个娃给crazy的老
: 婆和社会？自己的娃都不要了，想让人领养，呸，我b4!养不起就不要生！都什么人啊！

t*n2011-06-05 07:06

35 楼

bless

now.

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: Police just got her out of my house.I can take my kids back to China now.
: Most of the women are stupid enough.

c*y2011-06-05 07:06

36 楼

你太太现在需要的可能是真正的治疗，或许她不是疯而是真的有病，精神上或身体上甚
至大脑上的疾病呢？几年的夫妻情，你于情于法都有责任和义务去帮助她。“富裕或贫
穷，疾病或健康”这是婚誓呢，更何况还给你生了三个娃。我是女人，那不是一个人可
以轻易承受的。至于你妈妈对她的评价和你现在的评价我觉得肯定都不客观，你等气消
了，冷静下来，和她平静地谈，该分该合，孩子如何处理，要考虑什么是对孩子们最好
的打算，而不是你！！
不是我看扁你，这么没担当的男人，又优柔寡断还连累这么多孩子，你回国也没人
敢再嫁你！如果你欺骗，被人家看穿那天你更惨。人在做，天在看。善待你媳妇，说不
定孩子的抚养权就该归你，如果你媳妇的身体和精神状况镇的不适合做他们的监护人的
话。千万不要让孩子恨他们自己的亲妈妈，千万千万！

even

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: I do not know if she was crazy at that time not, but surely none of her
: family members liked or loved her. And she never cared about anybody. Her
: brother had several diseases and her bother-in-law died from caner. She even
: never talked with them, when I called them. She never did anything when I
: has kidney stones for several times.
: She vebally abused my mom in front of him.
: People knowing her never thought she should marry me including her father.

i*k2011-06-05 07:06

37 楼

How tragic! 祝福你、你妻子和你们的三个孩子!

F*P2011-06-05 07:06

38 楼

不是坑就是垃圾
你老婆打你怎么警察送她去ER?你老婆都试图杀你了你怎么还又跟她生了两个娃？你老
婆虐待孩子你还敢把孩子留给她？

g*e2011-06-05 07:06

39 楼

走您.

【在 d****i 的大作中提到】

: 一个彻底的悲剧。
: 04年当陈丹雷杀他老公的时候，她趁偶午睡时用带钉的木板击打偶得脑袋。此后一直
: 对偶暴力，对老大也一直暴力，害得小孩经常旷课。
: 今天把小孩们得护照回国证给了她们，交代偶走了后她们应该怎么做。
: 很后悔04年没叫警察把她关到监狱去。

N*72011-06-05 07:06

40 楼

看了几遍还是没看懂LZ的文章. 还有为什么会提陈丹蕾? 是我语文不行还是LZ的文章有
问题, 而且前面才提陈丹蕾, 后面豆号呢紧接着就是她, 她是谁, 是陈丹蕾吗? 不懂.
还有很多总之我就是看不懂这么短短的一段话. 佩服大家都看懂了.