对很多人来说, 结婚了就是不一样, 因为it's official. 这很容易理解, 结婚了就在 法律上有保障了. Yes you can get a divorce but that takes work. For many people it means more to be married to someone than just being girlfriend/ boyfriend.
yeah, that's true. but that has nothing to do with lz's disappointment with marriage. in that sense, breaking up with a long time bf/gf is more disappointed than divorcing a short marriage. marriage is a legal way to protect the one who sacrifice his- or herself more to the family. in that sense, it works pretty well, and nothing to be disappointed of.
【在 I********e 的大作中提到】 : 对很多人来说, 结婚了就是不一样, 因为it's official. 这很容易理解, 结婚了就在 : 法律上有保障了. Yes you can get a divorce but that takes work. For many : people it means more to be married to someone than just being girlfriend/ : boyfriend.
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with Indeed. Personally I don't see the magic of that piece of paper and don't understand why so many people try so hard to get married. The most important thing is to have someone you can depend on for emotional support and you grow old with. Having that piece of paper doesn't magically guarantee you that.
【在 S***e 的大作中提到】 : yeah, that's true. but that has nothing to do with lz's disappointment with : marriage. in that sense, breaking up with a long time bf/gf is more : disappointed than divorcing a short marriage. : marriage is a legal way to protect the one who sacrifice his- or herself : more to the family. in that sense, it works pretty well, and nothing to be : disappointed of.