It is a very difficult choice, even it is not for your parents, just for yourself. You are happy now to give up all you have in your career for your family, you may not think this way in the future. There will be problems in life and family in the future. If family is your only focus, you will feel lost at some point in the future. If you just care about being happy now, do what you feel right for yourself, but prepare it in your mind
Hehe, not only the pretty girl's logic is different than us, but their parents have different logic than our parents. My mom loves my LG alot, she is very happy her below average looking daughter find a good LG. But my two aunts, both of them have good looking daughters and son, they are not satisified with the son in law or future daughter in law, they think their stunning children should have find someone over the top.
【在 a***8 的大作中提到】 : Hehe, not only the pretty girl's logic is different than us, but their : parents have different logic than our parents. My mom loves my LG alot, she : is very happy her below average looking daughter find a good LG. : But my two aunts, both of them have good looking daughters and son, they are : not satisified with the son in law or future daughter in law, they think : their stunning children should have find someone over the top.
我是女的, 我觉得任何一个人, 不论男女, 还是在外面有份工作的好, 不仅仅是钱的问 题, 还有和社会融合, 自己有一个accomplishment. 一个bonus是如果你的spouse有一 天变心的, 你不用为生活着急, 但是那只是一个bonus,并不是工作的主要原因. Of course if you already have enough money to live for the rest of your life you don't have to care about the bonus.