这两天WSJ有篇评论美国teens的衣着的文章很火# Fashion - 美丽时尚
g*g
1 楼
LD的ink卡
自己没有ink or sapphire
那么只能LD转给我-但自己没有上述两卡，不能1:1换里程，也是白费
反过来把我freedom的点给转过去，无法操作
是这样吧？
自己没有ink or sapphire
那么只能LD转给我-但自己没有上述两卡，不能1:1换里程，也是白费
反过来把我freedom的点给转过去，无法操作
是这样吧？
j*0
2 楼
就是那种超市很普通的，试吃用的MINI小塑料匙，一次性的，找了好久没找到地儿买。
谁知道的给提供点信息。
谁知道的给提供点信息。
f*t
3 楼
【 以下文字转载自 Fitness 讨论区 】
发信人: vankie (似水流年|上网就是为了淡B), 信区: Fitness
标 题: very nice lol
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 10 13:35:23 2010, 美东)
发信人: vankie (似水流年|上网就是为了淡B), 信区: Fitness
标 题: very nice lol
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 10 13:35:23 2010, 美东)
P*l
4 楼
美国主流阶层确实很保守，还用了prostitutes这个词，呵呵
“Why do so many of us not only permit our teenage daughters to dress like t
his—like prostitutes, if we're being honest with ourselves—but pay for the
m to do it with our AmEx cards?”
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870389970457620458
ml?mod=WSJ_hp_mostpop_read#articleTabs%3Darticle
Why Do We Let Them Dress Like That?
In the pale-turquoise ladies' room, they congregate in front of the mirror,
re-applying mascara and lip gloss, brushing their hair, straightening panty
hose and gossiping: This one is "skanky," that one is "really cute," and so
forth. Dressed in minidresses, perilously high heels, and glittery, dangling
earrings, their eyes heavily shadowed in black-pearl and jade, they look li
ke a flock of tropical birds. A few minutes later, they return to the dance
floor, where they shake everything they've got under the party lights.
But for the most part, there isn't all that much to shake. This particular g
roup of party-goers consists of 12- and 13-year-old girls. Along with their
male counterparts, they are celebrating the bat mitzvah of a classmate in a
cushy East Coast suburb.
In a few years, their attention will turn to the annual ritual of shopping f
or a prom dress, and by then their fashion tastes will have advanced still m
ore. Having done this now for two years with my own daughter, I continue to
be amazed by the plunging necklines, built-in push-up bras, spangles, feathe
rs, slits and peek-a-boos. And try finding a pair of sufficiently "prommish"
shoes designed with less than a 2-inch heel.
All of which brings me to a question: Why do so many of us not only permit o
ur teenage daughters to dress like this—like prostitutes, if we're being ho
nest with ourselves—but pay for them to do it with our AmEx cards?
I posed this question to a friend whose teenage daughter goes to an all-girl
s private school in New York. "It isn't that different from when we were kid
s," she said. "The girls in the sexy clothes are the fast girls. They'll hav
e Facebook pictures of themselves opening a bottle of Champagne, like Paris
Hilton. And sometimes the moms and dads are out there contributing to it, sh
opping with them, throwing them parties at clubs. It's almost like they're s
aying, 'Look how hot my daughter is.'" But why? "I think it's a bonding thin
g," she said. "It starts with the mommy-daughter manicure and goes on from t
here."
I have a different theory. It has to do with how conflicted my own generatio
n of women is about our own past, when many of us behaved in ways that we no
w regret. A woman I know, with two mature daughters, said, "If I could do it
again, I wouldn't even have slept with my own husband before marriage. Sex
is the most powerful thing there is, and our generation, what did we know?"
We are the first moms in history to have grown up with widely available birt
h control, the first who didn't have to worry about getting knocked up. We w
ere also the first not only to be free of old-fashioned fears about our repu
tations but actually pressured by our peers and the wider culture to find ou
r true womanhood in the bedroom. Not all of us are former good-time girls no
w drowning in regret—I know women of my generation who waited until marriag
e—but that's certainly the norm among my peers.
So here we are, the feminist and postfeminist and postpill generation. We so
mehow survived our own teen and college years (except for those who didn't),
and now, with the exception of some Mormons, evangelicals and Orthodox Jews
, scads of us don't know how to teach our own sons and daughters not to give
away their bodies so readily. We're embarrassed, and we don't want to be, G
od forbid, hypocrites.
Still, in my own circle of girlfriends, the desire to push back is strong. I
don't know one of them who doesn't have feelings of lingering discomfort re
garding her own sexual past. And not one woman I've ever asked about the sub
ject has said that she wishes she'd "experimented" more.
As for the girls themselves, if you ask them why they dress the way they do,
they'll say (roughly) the same things I said to my mother: "What's the big
deal?" "But it's the style." "Could you be any more out of it?" What teenage
girl doesn't want to be attractive, sought-after and popular?
And what mom doesn't want to help that cause? In my own case, when I see my
daughter in drop-dead gorgeous mode, I experience something akin to a thrill
—especially since I myself am somewhat past the age to turn heads.
In recent years, of course, promiscuity has hit new heights (it always does!
), with "sexting" among preteens, "hooking up" among teens and college stude
nts, and a constant stream of semi-pornography from just about every media o
utlet. Varied sexual experiences—the more the better—are the current socia
l norm.
I wouldn't want us to return to the age of the corset or even of the double
standard, because a double standard that lets the promiscuous male off the h
ook while condemning his female counterpart is both stupid and destructive.
If you're the campus mattress, chances are that you need therapy more than y
ou need condemnation.
But it's easy for parents to slip into denial. We wouldn't dream of dropping
our daughters off at college and saying: "Study hard and floss every night,
honey—and for heaven's sake, get laid!" But that's essentially what we're
saying by allowing them to dress the way they do while they're still living
under our own roofs.
—Jennifer Moses is the author of "Bagels and Grits: A Jew on the Bayou" and
"Food and Whine: Confessions of a New Millennium Mom."
“Why do so many of us not only permit our teenage daughters to dress like t
his—like prostitutes, if we're being honest with ourselves—but pay for the
m to do it with our AmEx cards?”
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870389970457620458
ml?mod=WSJ_hp_mostpop_read#articleTabs%3Darticle
Why Do We Let Them Dress Like That?
In the pale-turquoise ladies' room, they congregate in front of the mirror,
re-applying mascara and lip gloss, brushing their hair, straightening panty
hose and gossiping: This one is "skanky," that one is "really cute," and so
forth. Dressed in minidresses, perilously high heels, and glittery, dangling
earrings, their eyes heavily shadowed in black-pearl and jade, they look li
ke a flock of tropical birds. A few minutes later, they return to the dance
floor, where they shake everything they've got under the party lights.
But for the most part, there isn't all that much to shake. This particular g
roup of party-goers consists of 12- and 13-year-old girls. Along with their
male counterparts, they are celebrating the bat mitzvah of a classmate in a
cushy East Coast suburb.
In a few years, their attention will turn to the annual ritual of shopping f
or a prom dress, and by then their fashion tastes will have advanced still m
ore. Having done this now for two years with my own daughter, I continue to
be amazed by the plunging necklines, built-in push-up bras, spangles, feathe
rs, slits and peek-a-boos. And try finding a pair of sufficiently "prommish"
shoes designed with less than a 2-inch heel.
All of which brings me to a question: Why do so many of us not only permit o
ur teenage daughters to dress like this—like prostitutes, if we're being ho
nest with ourselves—but pay for them to do it with our AmEx cards?
I posed this question to a friend whose teenage daughter goes to an all-girl
s private school in New York. "It isn't that different from when we were kid
s," she said. "The girls in the sexy clothes are the fast girls. They'll hav
e Facebook pictures of themselves opening a bottle of Champagne, like Paris
Hilton. And sometimes the moms and dads are out there contributing to it, sh
opping with them, throwing them parties at clubs. It's almost like they're s
aying, 'Look how hot my daughter is.'" But why? "I think it's a bonding thin
g," she said. "It starts with the mommy-daughter manicure and goes on from t
here."
I have a different theory. It has to do with how conflicted my own generatio
n of women is about our own past, when many of us behaved in ways that we no
w regret. A woman I know, with two mature daughters, said, "If I could do it
again, I wouldn't even have slept with my own husband before marriage. Sex
is the most powerful thing there is, and our generation, what did we know?"
We are the first moms in history to have grown up with widely available birt
h control, the first who didn't have to worry about getting knocked up. We w
ere also the first not only to be free of old-fashioned fears about our repu
tations but actually pressured by our peers and the wider culture to find ou
r true womanhood in the bedroom. Not all of us are former good-time girls no
w drowning in regret—I know women of my generation who waited until marriag
e—but that's certainly the norm among my peers.
So here we are, the feminist and postfeminist and postpill generation. We so
mehow survived our own teen and college years (except for those who didn't),
and now, with the exception of some Mormons, evangelicals and Orthodox Jews
, scads of us don't know how to teach our own sons and daughters not to give
away their bodies so readily. We're embarrassed, and we don't want to be, G
od forbid, hypocrites.
Still, in my own circle of girlfriends, the desire to push back is strong. I
don't know one of them who doesn't have feelings of lingering discomfort re
garding her own sexual past. And not one woman I've ever asked about the sub
ject has said that she wishes she'd "experimented" more.
As for the girls themselves, if you ask them why they dress the way they do,
they'll say (roughly) the same things I said to my mother: "What's the big
deal?" "But it's the style." "Could you be any more out of it?" What teenage
girl doesn't want to be attractive, sought-after and popular?
And what mom doesn't want to help that cause? In my own case, when I see my
daughter in drop-dead gorgeous mode, I experience something akin to a thrill
—especially since I myself am somewhat past the age to turn heads.
In recent years, of course, promiscuity has hit new heights (it always does!
), with "sexting" among preteens, "hooking up" among teens and college stude
nts, and a constant stream of semi-pornography from just about every media o
utlet. Varied sexual experiences—the more the better—are the current socia
l norm.
I wouldn't want us to return to the age of the corset or even of the double
standard, because a double standard that lets the promiscuous male off the h
ook while condemning his female counterpart is both stupid and destructive.
If you're the campus mattress, chances are that you need therapy more than y
ou need condemnation.
But it's easy for parents to slip into denial. We wouldn't dream of dropping
our daughters off at college and saying: "Study hard and floss every night,
honey—and for heaven's sake, get laid!" But that's essentially what we're
saying by allowing them to dress the way they do while they're still living
under our own roofs.
—Jennifer Moses is the author of "Bagels and Grits: A Jew on the Bayou" and
"Food and Whine: Confessions of a New Millennium Mom."
r*l
5 楼
chase的卡互相转点任何卡都可以啊。只有往航空公司、酒店转才需要。ink/sapphire
等卡。
【在 g******g 的大作中提到】
: LD的ink卡
: 自己没有ink or sapphire
: 那么只能LD转给我-但自己没有上述两卡，不能1:1换里程，也是白费
: 反过来把我freedom的点给转过去，无法操作
: 是这样吧？
等卡。
【在 g******g 的大作中提到】
: LD的ink卡
: 自己没有ink or sapphire
: 那么只能LD转给我-但自己没有上述两卡，不能1:1换里程，也是白费
: 反过来把我freedom的点给转过去，无法操作
: 是这样吧？
j*u
6 楼
不知道啊。。呵呵，那个不是太小了？
sam's有吗？
你要买这个用途？
【在 j**********0 的大作中提到】
: 就是那种超市很普通的，试吃用的MINI小塑料匙，一次性的，找了好久没找到地儿买。
: 谁知道的给提供点信息。
sam's有吗？
你要买这个用途？
【在 j**********0 的大作中提到】
: 就是那种超市很普通的，试吃用的MINI小塑料匙，一次性的，找了好久没找到地儿买。
: 谁知道的给提供点信息。
c*7
7 楼
don't get it, what's the funny part?
b*c
8 楼
不是。进出自由
【在 g******g 的大作中提到】
: LD的ink卡
: 自己没有ink or sapphire
: 那么只能LD转给我-但自己没有上述两卡，不能1:1换里程，也是白费
: 反过来把我freedom的点给转过去，无法操作
: 是这样吧？
【在 g******g 的大作中提到】
: LD的ink卡
: 自己没有ink or sapphire
: 那么只能LD转给我-但自己没有上述两卡，不能1:1换里程，也是白费
: 反过来把我freedom的点给转过去，无法操作
: 是这样吧？
j*0
9 楼
今天在超市里研究了一下，感觉挺好的，正好用来吃吃酸奶啥的，以后娃吃辅食也不错。
【在 j******u 的大作中提到】
: 不知道啊。。呵呵，那个不是太小了？
: sam's有吗？
: 你要买这个用途？
【在 j******u 的大作中提到】
: 不知道啊。。呵呵，那个不是太小了？
: sam's有吗？
: 你要买这个用途？
y*i
10 楼
lz 你out了。
p*r
11 楼
所以你的问题是：如果自己只有freedom没有CSR/CSP/ink系列，还能不能把自己
freedom账下的点数转到配偶的UR账号（假设配偶是有CSR CSP或者ink的）？
freedom账下的点数转到配偶的UR账号（假设配偶是有CSR CSP或者ink的）？
j*u
12 楼
恩，我吃酸奶直接就是大调羹
不然吃了不爽
呵呵
你当时木有问问超市试吃的啊。。
错。
【在 j**********0 的大作中提到】
: 今天在超市里研究了一下，感觉挺好的，正好用来吃吃酸奶啥的，以后娃吃辅食也不错。
不然吃了不爽
呵呵
你当时木有问问超市试吃的啊。。
错。
【在 j**********0 的大作中提到】
: 今天在超市里研究了一下，感觉挺好的，正好用来吃吃酸奶啥的，以后娃吃辅食也不错。
m*0
13 楼
肌肉还是脂肪？
【在 f*******t 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Fitness 讨论区 】
: 发信人: vankie (似水流年|上网就是为了淡B), 信区: Fitness
: 标 题: very nice lol
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 10 13:35:23 2010, 美东)
【在 f*******t 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Fitness 讨论区 】
: 发信人: vankie (似水流年|上网就是为了淡B), 信区: Fitness
: 标 题: very nice lol
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 10 13:35:23 2010, 美东)
j*u
14 楼
答案是什么？
【在 p*********r 的大作中提到】
: 所以你的问题是：如果自己只有freedom没有CSR/CSP/ink系列，还能不能把自己
: freedom账下的点数转到配偶的UR账号（假设配偶是有CSR CSP或者ink的）？
【在 p*********r 的大作中提到】
: 所以你的问题是：如果自己只有freedom没有CSR/CSP/ink系列，还能不能把自己
: freedom账下的点数转到配偶的UR账号（假设配偶是有CSR CSP或者ink的）？
j*0
15 楼
没好意思问，估计问了也不可能向他们配货部门买吧。。
----------------
找到了，叫TASTING MINI SPOONS
【在 j******u 的大作中提到】
: 恩，我吃酸奶直接就是大调羹
: 不然吃了不爽
: 呵呵
: 你当时木有问问超市试吃的啊。。
:
: 错。
----------------
找到了，叫TASTING MINI SPOONS
【在 j******u 的大作中提到】
: 恩，我吃酸奶直接就是大调羹
: 不然吃了不爽
: 呵呵
: 你当时木有问问超市试吃的啊。。
:
: 错。
p*r
16 楼
并不知道……我之前问过一样的问题，但是没有人回复。。。。。
【在 j**u 的大作中提到】
: 答案是什么？
r*l
17 楼
2楼3楼不是都回答了吗？怎么叫“没有人回复”？
【在 p*********r 的大作中提到】
:
: 并不知道……我之前问过一样的问题，但是没有人回复。。。。。
【在 p*********r 的大作中提到】
:
: 并不知道……我之前问过一样的问题，但是没有人回复。。。。。
l*8
18 楼
转UA的性价比最高吧
s*n
19 楼
楼上都没说重点，每个卡只能有一个转入卡。
n*c
20 楼
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Money/32876675.html
可以互转啊
【在 s******n 的大作中提到】
: 楼上都没说重点，每个卡只能有一个转入卡。
可以互转啊
【在 s******n 的大作中提到】
: 楼上都没说重点，每个卡只能有一个转入卡。
s*d
21 楼
不是，随便转。。。
但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
【在 s******n 的大作中提到】
: 楼上都没说重点，每个卡只能有一个转入卡。
但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
【在 s******n 的大作中提到】
: 楼上都没说重点，每个卡只能有一个转入卡。
C*e
22 楼
如果经常换，是不是会被chase关卡
【在 s**********d 的大作中提到】
: 不是，随便转。。。
: 但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
【在 s**********d 的大作中提到】
: 不是，随便转。。。
: 但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
s*n
23 楼
看不懂你想说什么。。。
: 不是，随便转。。。
: 但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
【在 s**********d 的大作中提到】
: 不是，随便转。。。
: 但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
: 不是，随便转。。。
: 但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
【在 s**********d 的大作中提到】
: 不是，随便转。。。
: 但不同名字的收点的卡只能存一个，要转别的需要去掉现在的另加。
s*n
24 楼
单一限制只是对接收方的。很操蛋，但是Chase就是这么搞得。
g*g
25 楼
呵呵
还是偶自己回答吧
答案是可以
combine points其实每个卡都有
不限卡种
但1:1转到其他航空公司是ink/sapphire的专利
【在 p*********r 的大作中提到】
:
: 并不知道……我之前问过一样的问题，但是没有人回复。。。。。
还是偶自己回答吧
答案是可以
combine points其实每个卡都有
不限卡种
但1:1转到其他航空公司是ink/sapphire的专利
【在 p*********r 的大作中提到】
:
: 并不知道……我之前问过一样的问题，但是没有人回复。。。。。
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