I don't know your answers, but to marry for this reason is not a good reason
, both for you and for her, although I totally understand your point of view
, which is pragmatic. I just hope that you can jump out of this loop and see
that there are lots of other options.
If she leaves you because you do not initiate this marriage procedure, then
probably she's with you for a reason other than love. On the other hand, if
you two can develop your relationship further even if she's in China, then
you can always let her come through marriage later. I hope that she chooses
to marry you because she's happy, rather than avoiding some temporary
worries, as well.
F1 can apply for OPT to find a job, as long as the non-employment days
accumulate to be less than 90 days in a year (the original OPT without
extension) or in 29 months (with OPT extension if in science/engineering
major). If she finds a job that sponsors her H1, she may have the cap-gap
extension if there's a gap between her OPT expiration date and 10/1 H1
effective date.
>>本来没打算这么早结婚的,还不是很了解对方,但是还是想"冒个险"先把证领了,
替对方申请签证,这样对方在身份上也没啥压力,毕竟工作不好找,对方毕业了估计不
会很快找到工作。我也担心对方在没身份的情况下选择回国的可能性多了点,不想失去
对方。