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养育孩子是个幸福的过程,同时更是个艰辛的过程,除了要做好哺乳、换尿布、洗澡等
护理工作,还要面对孩子的哭吵、破坏进行教养工作。可能对我们这些边缘人士来说,
我们也只能奉劝新爸爸、新妈妈耐心点,这是为人父母的必经之路。
繁琐的护理工作已让妈妈们精疲力竭,如果宝宝再哭闹、任性,那么这时妈妈眼中的宝
宝将会由小天使变成小魔鬼,即使忍耐度再好的妈妈都会对宝宝发一通牢骚。或许,发
泄完之后,妈妈自己会好受些,并感觉这样做也没什么大不了的。可妈妈是否想过,挨
批后,宝宝的心里感受?专家告诫:妈妈生气可以体谅,但在牢骚出口前必须得三思。
一、否定宝宝人格
妈妈正忙家务活时,一旦宝宝还粘乎乎,许多妈妈都会不耐烦地说:“烦死了,自己去
玩。”可能妈妈自己没在意,可宝宝就会受到莫大的委屈而嚎啕大哭起来。
“你怎么这么笨,连这也不会。”妈妈往往以大孩子的标准来衡量宝宝的行为,自己觉
得很简单的东西宝宝应该也要会,否则就“笨”。
妈妈带着宝宝到亲戚或邻居家玩,宝宝不愿叫“阿姨”,妈妈就会责怪说:“你这孩子
怎么这么没用,叫一声阿姨都不会。”也有的妈妈会笑着对别人说:“你看,我的孩子
真是没用,不会叫人。”虽然是对别人说的,可是宝宝都听在耳中,记在心里。
Tips:如果宝宝有能力而没有做好,妈妈也须耐心指导,而不是责骂。
二、让宝宝怀疑妈妈对自己的爱
有时妈妈故意要宝宝手上的东西,可宝宝不愿意给,过一会儿宝宝要妈妈抱,妈妈就会
故作生气样说:“我才不要你呢。”如果经常这样,宝宝会很伤心的。
“再不好好吃饭,妈妈就不要你了,把你送给别人做儿子。”这类话会让宝宝怀疑妈妈
为什么不爱我。
宝宝被妈妈骂了几句,一气之下跑出家门,妈妈追到家门口,生气地对着宝宝喊:“你
给我回来,不回来是吧,那以后都不要回来了。”这类话听多了,宝宝心理会产生阴影
,以后可能真的要离家出走。
Tips:小小的惩罚有时能纠正宝宝的不良习惯或错误,但妈妈的惩罚不能让宝宝对自己
的爱产生怀疑,要知道惩罚的目的不是要让孩子伤心,而是要让宝宝清楚地知道他的行
为不对就可以了。
三、吓唬宝宝
“宝宝再不听话就叫医生来打针。”“快躲到妈妈这里来,医生打针来了。”无论是责
怪宝宝还是和宝宝玩,妈妈让宝宝听话的厉害办法就是医生打针,因为所有的宝宝都怕
打针时的疼痛。妈妈经常用这种方法教育宝宝,反而使他见到穿白大褂的人就害怕。
宝宝对老师很敬重,更不敢像对妈妈一样对老师撒娇。妈妈喜欢利用宝宝这一害怕心理
对宝宝施压,出口就是:“不好好看书,明天告诉你老师去,看他(她)到时候怎样惩罚
你。”
警察叔叔抓坏人,这是妈妈从小教给宝宝的概念。宝宝怕警察叔叔带走也就是怕自己是
个坏孩子。孩子一做错事就说“叫警察叔叔把你带走”,孩子会怀疑自己是个坏孩子,
在别人面前不敢抬头。
Tips:宝宝难免做错事情,及时帮他纠正错误是妈妈的责任和使命,如果孩子纠正了,
妈妈还应称赞他是个好孩子。
四、对孩子的要求超出了他的能力
“动作快一点,妈妈还要上班呢。”其实宝宝动作慢不是它的错,它不知道为什么要快
,也不知道怎样快,最关键的是平时妈妈的教导,怎样让宝宝有一个时间观念。
在宝宝眼里,他的作品可能已经做得最完美,可是在妈妈眼里,还是没有达到要求,所
以宝宝做什么事情都希望再做好一点,而没有顾及宝宝的心情。
宝宝不是天才,不是一生下来什么都会,成人会的东西宝宝不一定要会。不要妈妈觉得
很简单的事情,宝宝不会就说:“这么大了,连这个都不会。”说多了,宝宝会的事情
它也不敢做了。
Tips:妈妈用时间去了解宝宝的能力,让宝宝做之前,把事情与宝宝的能力进行对照,
如果宝宝能做而不做,妈妈应进行劝导;如果超出宝宝能力,就要量力而行,千万不要
勉强,小心适得其反。
五、拿孩子进行比较
妈妈总希望自己的宝宝比别人孩子强,所以遇到宝宝比别人差,经常对宝宝出气,“你
和别人一样大,为什么别人会,你怎么就不会,好好跟别人学学,不要老想着玩。”好
像自己的孩子比别人的强那是应该的,而比别人的孩子差那就绝对不行,其实,妈妈的
这种心态才真正要不得。
Tips:掌握孩子的个性与特点,并非别人会的东西,宝宝就一定要会。要善于发现孩子
的优点,并根据宝宝的特别培养它的能力。
六、按自己的意愿命令宝宝
“不准吃饭时说话。”“不准抱着玩具睡觉”……太多的“不准”容易限制宝宝个性的
发展。或许,许多妈妈会说,她们这样做是为了宝宝好。的确,哪有那么狠心的妈妈呢
?可妈妈们想过没有,对于同样的问题,如果换种解决方式,是不是可以达到更好的效
果。
“哭,还哭,不许哭。”“叫你不要玩电脑,还要玩,马上停止,睡觉去。”妈妈烦了
后,就希望宝宝立即能够达到自己的意愿,这时往往出言比较凶,有的妈妈甚至拼命用
手拉开宝宝的手。对宝宝来说,他从妈妈这里认识到什么是野蛮,并学会野蛮待人的方
式。
Tips:对于宝宝做得不尽如人意的地方,妈妈须控制自己的情绪,用良好的心态对待宝
宝;转移宝宝的视线或爱好;给宝宝一个调整时间。
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发信人: shmu (shmu), 信区: Postdoc
标 题: 查询豁免,签证,Infopass, 做SR, 找议员,催绿模板信
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Mar 5 11:54:13 2011, 美东)
1. About Chinese Embassy
Chinese Embassy inquire information:
驻美使馆教育处的办公地址:
2600 TILDEN ST. NW
WASHINGTON, DC 20008
驻美使馆教育处的通信地址:
EDUCATION AFFAIRS OFFICE OF CHINESE EMBASSY
3505 International Place, NW
WASHINGTON, DC 20008
(请在信封上用汉字注明具体收件人姓名,信中内容:如报道注册,J-1豁免,回国证
明等,护照/签证由Visa Office直接受理)
若本人到馆,请务必提前与管片负责人电话预约,可以乘红线地铁至Vanness UDC站下,
沿Connecticut Ave.(康街)往南步行一个街区即为TILDEN ST.,步行到2600大约20分
钟。
驻美使馆教育处的电子邮箱:(推荐方式) a***[email protected]
值班电话:(202)2430677
值班时间: 周二至周五 9:30AM--12:30AM, 2:00PM--4:00PM (美国东部时间)
驻美使馆教育处 公使衔参赞 方茂田
驻美使馆教育处 留学生事务联系人:(传真:202-2430631)
姓 名 值班时间 非值班时间电话 负责联系的州、华盛顿地区学校
信金花 (202)2431158 豁免事务 国家公派留学人员报到
刘翔 周五 (202)2431160 国家公派留学人员管理、《留学回国人员证明)办理(国家
公派留学人员)
位东 周四 (202)2431159 Virginia,West Virginia, Nebraska, Wyoming, North
Dakota, South Dakota
Georgetown Univ.
《留学回国人员证明》办理(自费留学人员)
周惠 周二 (202)2431166 Maryland, Delaware,Utah, Idaho, Montana,
Tennessee,Kentucky
George Washington Univ.,Catholic Univ, Howard Univ.,South Eastern Univ.,Univ
. of DC,其他DC人员,NIH(Bethesda)
黎冰 周三 (202)2431168 North Carolina, South Carolina
American Univ.
驻美使馆教育处 教育交流及汉语推广事务联系人:(传真:202-4952257)
刘 翔 202-4952258
刘翠航 202-4952260
刘 晓 202-4952259
驻美使馆教育处 办公室事务联系人:(传真:202-2430629)
黎 冰 202-2431168
赫英杰 202-2430679
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其它驻美领馆教育组连接
驻纽约总领馆教育组:
EDUCATION OFFICE
THE CONSULATE GENERAL OF THE PEOPLE'S REPUBLIC OF CHINA IN NEW YORK
520 12TH Avenue NEW YORK, NY 10036
http://www.nyconsulate.prchina.org/chn/jysw/default.htm
驻芝加哥总领馆教育组:
EDUCATION OFFICE
THE CONSULATE GENERAL OF THE PEOPLE'S REPUBLIC OF CHINA IN CHICAGO
3322 WEST PETERSON AVENUE CHICAGO, IL 60659
http://www.educhicago.org/
驻旧金山总领馆教育组:
EDUCATION OFFICE
THE CONSULATE GENERAL OF THE PEOPLE'S REPUBLIC OF CHINA IN SAN FRANCISCO
1450 LAGUNA STREET SAN FRANCISCO,CA 94115
http://www.chinaconsulatesf.org/chn/jy/default.htm
驻休斯敦总领馆教育组:
EDUCATION OFFICE
THE CONSULATE GENERAL OF THE PEOPLE'S REPUBLIC OF CHINA IN HOUSTON
811 HOLMAN STREET, HOUSTON, TX 77002
http://houston.china-consulate.org/chn/jy/
驻洛杉矶总领馆教育组:
EDUCATION OFFICE
THE CONSULATE GENERAL OF THE PEOPLE'S REPUBLIC OF CHINA IN LOS ANGELES
443 SHATTO PLACE LOS ANGELES, CA 90020
http://losangeles.china-consulate.org/chn/edu/default.htm
2. About DOS visa office, if you have any visa questions or J waiver
questions, call visa office.
DOS visa office inquire number is 1-202-663-1541, then dial 0, then wait.
This number is open for public every business day 8:30-16:30 US eastern time.
3. How to inquire your I-612 case number to USCIS Vermont Service Center (
VSC)
按照板上的电话,直接打8003755283,然后按1,2,6(lost reciept number),说明
我的情况,接线人说是不是military, 我说不是,I-612, 然后VSC,结果就转到
National custom service center, 直接问姓名,日期等,然后查询。结果没有,然后
就问infopass。
4. If you need Infopass, go to below website to make an appointment
http://infopass.uscis.gov/
Then bring your passport, all documents and appointment letter showing PIN
go to USCIS local office.
5. If your J waiver case experienced long term, you can call USCIS to do SR
USCIS SR Steps:
1. Call 1-800-375-5283
2. Press 1 for English
3. Press 2 for pending case
4. Press 1 for checking status of pending case
5. Input case # (WAC, LIN, SRC, etc)
6. Press 1 for confirmation
7. Press 3 to continue (report a problem)
8. Press 3 outside processing time + 1 did not hear response
9. You will be directed to Level 1 customer support – tell them your case
is outside of processing time and you want to file a Service Request, then
they will do it.
You will get a confirmation number after calling.
You will receive a response letter or email from USCIS VSC in 3 weeks (the
home address and email address as you provided on DS-3035 form).Probably
your case will be approved that time.
6. If SR is not working, you need to get help from Congressman or Senator's
office.
See below Infomation
通常大家所谓的找议员,个人理解是找美国联邦的参议员(Senators)和(或)众议员
(Representatives)。众所周知,即便是咱们这些在美国的外国人,有很多事情都可
以通过找议员而得到更快和更合理的解决。因此,大家应该充分利用这一有利的条件,
遇有相关事宜时可在适当的时候寻找他或她们帮助,以达到自己的目的。鉴于近日来不
时有朋友询问找议员的相关事宜,狐狸俺现将相关信息小结如下,以供大家参考!不妥
之处敬请知情者更正、补充(谢谢)。
一、寻找途径
狐狸认为寻找议员们的最佳途径是借助于网络,以下分别是寻找参议员和政议员的
连接,点击后你就可以轻易地找到你所想找的议员们及其他或她们各自的主页。在议员
们的个人主页上你可发现很多有用的信息,如联系方式与办法,他们能够协助解决的问
题及其解决这些问题所需要的信息与材料,还有该议员名下的办公室所在地及其各个办
公室的工作人员等。
1、找参议员请点击:
http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.
2、找政议员请点击:
http://www.house.gov/house/MemStateSearch.shtml
二、联系方式
你可以通过电话、电子邮件或是信函、传真等与议员办公室联系。如果你英语水平好的
话,狐狸建议你用电话联系,因为这是最快捷和最省事的联系方式,由于议员办公室的
工作人员都很友好,故你无需有任何担心。如若你的英语水平一般或是口语不佳,你可
用邮件或信函或传真等方式联系,这些方式通常较慢,由于各议员办公室平时需要处理
的信件颇多,故难免延误时间。当然,如若你的英语水平不佳,你也可以请同事或是朋
友帮助你联系。与议员办公室取得联系后,他的工作人员会根据你的具体要求告诉你下
一步如何办?如你是要求该议员帮助你查询绿卡审批情况,他们会告诉你先填妥相关表
格(类似于国内的授权书),然后再寄送或传真至他们的办公室,以便他们能够代表你
与移民打交道。
三、注意事项
1、通常应找你所在州的国会议员帮忙,而不是找你所在州的州议员或其它州的国
会议员帮助。这是因为州议员通常影响力有限,其它州的议员则无法代表你行事,毕竟
他们不能够代表你或者说你不在他的管辖范围内!
2、材料或相关表格一旦送出后,在适当的时候应该核实,即通过电话或是其它方
式确认该议员的办公室是否收到你的材料或其它?必要时宜补送!
3、求议员办事需要有耐心或是提前量,这是因为议员办公室大多较忙,加之政府
与政府部门打交道不可能没有延误,故大家一定要有耐心和提前量,以免失礼或误事!
4、寄送给议员办公室的相关信息必须准确无误,特别是A#和Receipt #,及姓
名与通信地址等。
5、在与议员办公室工作人员交往的过程中请注意礼节礼貌!
好了,狐狸暂时能想到的就是这么多,请大家补充、更正!
Below is a sample letter to congressman
Nov 28, 2006
Senator Edward M. Kennedy
Massachusetts Office
2400 JFK Building
Boston, MA 02203
Dear Senator Kennedy:
My name is XXX and my wife’s name is XXX. I am a research associate at XXX
University. I am writing to request your kind assistance in our Permanent
Residency (I-485) application with the US Citizenship and Immigration
Services (USCIS).
I filed “Immigrant Petition for Alien Worker” (I-140) in March 2004, which
was approved in April 2005, and I filed “Application to Register Permanent
Residence or Adjust Status” (I-485) for my wife and me in July 2004.
Recently I inquired USCIS at Vermont and was told that our applications are
still pending due to background check. The process has been over 2 years and
4 months in total and now everything else is ready except the FBI name
check. The delay will adversely affect US interest for the reasons of: 1. I
am actively involved in Harvard University’s biology research efforts, I am
unable to apply for several grants that require permanent resident status;
2. The delay might indirectly assist other real dangerous people since they
might take the advantage of lengthy delay to lawfully stay here.
Senator Kennedy, we are asking you for the following help:
1. Look into our cases at USCIS VSC, and have the immigration officers
confirm the security check requests have actually been sent to the proper
agencies and when;
2. Look into the corresponding agencies and have them to explain to you what
exactly bogged down our cases;
3. Urge the corresponding agencies to expedite (or rather, not to further
delay) finishing our security checks;
4. Urge the corresponding agencies to expedite sending the security check
results back to the USCIS VSC;
5. Urge the immigration officer at USCIS VSC to expedite adjudicating our
cases.
Below is our case information:
Name: XXX
SSN#: XXX
DOB: XXX
I-485 Receipt #: XXX
Alien #: XXX
Name: XXX
SSN#: XXX
DOB: XXX
I-485 Receipt #: XXX
Alien #: XXX
Thank you very much. We look forward to your help. Please contact me at XXX
or email me at XXX if you have any questions.
XXX XXX
Your address here ….
If Congressman or Senator's help is still not working, you need to write a
letter to White House Mrs. Obama's office to get help.
Below is a sample letter to Mrs. Obama
March 1, 2009
Dear Mrs. Obama,
First, I want to congratulate you and Mr. Obama for being the first African
American family to become the executive residents of the White House in the
history of the United States of America. President Obama’s success has
demonstrated to every immigrant in this land that America is a place where
all things are possible.
However, there are always roadblocks for us, immigrants to the U.S., to
achieve our American dreams. I’m writing to request your kind assistance
to expedite the adjudication of our green card applications, which have been
delayed for an unreasonably long period of time by the USCIS.
I came to US in 2001 from China to pursue my XX degree at XX University.
After graduation in 2003, I have been working as a XX at the US headquarter
of XX corp. in XX city.
My company, XX, initiated the green card petition for me in December 2004.
My wife and I submitted our I-485 applications on March 23rd, 2007 to
Nebraska Service Center, USCIS. Our green card applications are classified
as China Mainland-born EB-2, i.e. Employment-Based 2nd Preference, and have
a priority date of 12/20/2004.
Since we submitted our I-485 applications, there have been 10 occurrences
when visa were available for China Mainland-born EB-2 applicants with a
priority date of 12/20/2004 according to the visa bulletins published by U.S
Department of State. Here below is a summary of the historical visa
bulletin data gathered from the website of U.S. Department of State.
Months 2007 2008 2009
1 1-Jan-03 8-Jul-04
2 1-Jan-03 1-Jan-05
3 22-Apr-05 1-Dec-03
4 22-Apr-05 1-Dec-03
5 22-Apr-05 1-Jan-04
6 1-Jan-06 1-Apr-04
7 Current 1-Apr-04
8 Unavailable 1-Jun-06
9 1-Jan-06 1-Aug-06
10 1-Jan-06 1-Apr-04
11 1-Jan-06 1-Jun-04
12 1-Jan-03 1-Jun-04
For unknown reasons, our applications were left behind in these ten
occurrences (shaded dates on the table above except for the upcoming
February 2009 visa bulletin). During these periods, many China Mainland-
born EB-2 cases with priority date much later than ours were approved.
The latest published February 2009 visa bulletin shows that visas have
become available for China Mainland-born EB-2 applicants with priority date
of January 1st, 2005 or earlier. This means that our applications are
eligible for immediate adjudication. Under this circumstance, I sincerely
hope that you can urge USCIS to adjudicate our cases without any further
delays, so that we won’t be left behind for the eleventh time in the road.
The delay of green card approval has caused us a lot of inconvenience and
severely impacted our lives in a negative way. We have been tax payers for
seven years, and have worked hard every day to make our contributions to
this country. I sincerely hope that our green card application can be
treated fairly.
Thank you very much for your help.
Your Case #
Contact Information
Enclosed I-485 Receipt Notice etc.
7. I-797未受到或者遗失咋办?
如果你从USCIS website 得知你的J waiver case已经批准30天,未收到I-797,马上到
USCIS local office 去Infopass, 要求USCIS马上重新寄一份copy.如果过了一定时间
没有找USCIS 查询,只能file I-824, 并且支付$405.00, 要求USCIS重新寄一份copy,
这种情况属于本人丢失。如果你遗失I-797,只能file I-824, 并且支付$405.00, 要求
USCIS重新寄一份copy
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g*n
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错别字,人姓阎好伐
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u*a
5
坑。
别跳。
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e*r
6
赞热心人。贴子不错。不过这个置顶了有一阵子。

【在 s******r 的大作中提到】
: 发信人: shmu (shmu), 信区: Postdoc
: 标 题: 查询豁免,签证,Infopass, 做SR, 找议员,催绿模板信
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Mar 5 11:54:13 2011, 美东)
: 1. About Chinese Embassy
: Chinese Embassy inquire information:
: 驻美使馆教育处的办公地址:
: 2600 TILDEN ST. NW
: WASHINGTON, DC 20008
: 驻美使馆教育处的通信地址:
: EDUCATION AFFAIRS OFFICE OF CHINESE EMBASSY

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