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要个推荐信咋的这么难# Immigration - 落地生根
c*i
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(1) Gerald Nissenbaum, Husband has good case for custody of girls. Boston
Herald, Jan 30, 2011.
http://bostonherald.com/entertainment
/lifestyle/view.bg?articleid=1312995
My comment: The attorney replies, "If you wait more than six months, you
lose that advantage." He said that before but never pointed out the
authority. (After all, this column aims at general population, not law
students.) Presumably it is based on state law, specifically.
Massachusetts General Law, Chapter 209B (Massachusetts Child Custody
Jurisdiction Act), section 2 (jurisdiction), subsection (1)(ii) :
http://www.malegislature.gov/Laws/
GeneralLaws/PartII/TitleIII/Chapter209B/Section2
"(1) the commonwealth (i) is the home state of the child on the commencement
of the custody proceeding, or (ii) had been the child’s home state within
six months before the date of the commencement of the proceeding and the
child is absent from the commonwealth because of his or her removal or
retention by a person claiming his or her custody or for other reasons, and
a parent or person acting as parent continues to reside in the commonwealth
(2) Gennie Chen, James Stewart. New York Times, Jan 30, 2011.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/30/fashion/weddings
/30CHEN.html?scp=1&sq=Gennie%20Chen&st=cse
Note: Bestway Plastics Company, at Dongguan, is a subsidiary of Bestway
International Holdings Ltd 百威国际.
http://www.etnet.com.hk/www/sc/stocks/realtime
/quote_ci_structure_eng_s.php?code=718
(3) Lisa Bienstock and Gregory Zilin. New York Times, Jan 30, 2011.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/30/fashion/weddings
/30bienstock.html?scp=1&sq=gregory%20zilin&st=cse
(The woman, a dentist, saw a cavity in a tooth of her man in the first date)
(4) Susan Saulny, Black? White? Asian? More Young Americans Choose All of
the Above. New York Times, Jan 30, 2011.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/30/us/30mixed.html?scp=1&sq=skym
My comment:
(a) The NYT report refers to a seven-month-old report.
Jeffrey S. Passel, Wendy Wang and Paul Taylor, Marrying Out; One-in-Seven
New U.S. Marriages is Interracial or Interethnic. Pew Research Center, June
4, 2010.
http://pewresearch.org/pubs/1616
/american-marriage-interracial-interethnic
Thus paragraph 6 of the NYT report is correct when it says, "One in seven
new marriage is between spouses of different races or ethnicities, according
to" the Pew study. And so the opening sentence of remarks to the
illustration ("Nearly 9 percent of all marriages in the United States in
2009 were interracial or interethnic") is wrong. Not 9%, 14%.
Also in the illustration, the second part headlined Regional differences for
both genders, talks about "Of every 1,000 married people in each group."
This time, both men and women of that group are lumped together. For example
, 94 out of 1,000 married whites in the US west marry out.
Note "out" can mean a different ethnicity, not just race, in the Pew study,
which has two categories for Hispanics: Hispanic whites and Hispanic blacks.
Of course, there are a lot in between.
(b) There is no need to read the rest of the NYT report.
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m*o
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PL都准备好了,就等推荐信就可以送出去了。不知道怎么就这么难,都是找cite自己文
章的人,多数还是不愿意写。本想找老板帮忙,没想到老板真是二。。。具体不方便多
说,sign!上来发发牢骚...
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S*1
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All I learned from this post is that choi has a lot of comments
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j*3
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理解。很多人愿意帮忙,可是看到我发过去的draft又没回应了。bless!
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m*o
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兄弟推荐信这事儿磨了多久了?我都1个月了,才要到1封,会议上认识的人,另一封也是
draft过去了没回音.
之前申请NIW的时候也是drama
没cite过文章的教授大家都是咋联系的?怎么知道要选谁?那个应该更不会签吧。。。

【在 j*******3 的大作中提到】
: 理解。很多人愿意帮忙,可是看到我发过去的draft又没回应了。bless!
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l*e
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平时和老板们会上套关系往往这个时候最能显现出来了,等俩个礼拜以上,再发信问问
,如果实在没回音就move on 吧,好些老板还是很nice 的,试其他老板。
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L*p
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jianchi A!~~~~
I suffered 3 months to get all the letters.
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g*i
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Bless,
in general, people try to collect RL first and then draft the PL, that make
things easier.
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m*o
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是的,我是LD帮忙准备PL我准备RL的,结果就是PL都已经准备好了,RL还没有准备好。
。。。

make

【在 g*****i 的大作中提到】
: Bless,
: in general, people try to collect RL first and then draft the PL, that make
: things easier.

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w*5
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先写信问对方愿不愿意写推荐信,如果同意,再把草稿发过去,同时告诉对方这封信只
用于绿卡申请,不会用于其它。另外告诉他们绿卡申请的推荐信与一般的不同,律师要
求用夸张的语气写,对方如果不满意,可以修改。最好找圈内的人写,无论有没有引用
过你的文章。好多引用过的人也不愿写,熟悉的人最好。
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m*o
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谢谢详细的答复,我今天早上把骚扰过但是没有回复我的人,又发了一次,已经写的很中
肯了,希望有人会回吧,我再找找其他没有cite过得人,sigh~

【在 w*******5 的大作中提到】
: 先写信问对方愿不愿意写推荐信,如果同意,再把草稿发过去,同时告诉对方这封信只
: 用于绿卡申请,不会用于其它。另外告诉他们绿卡申请的推荐信与一般的不同,律师要
: 求用夸张的语气写,对方如果不满意,可以修改。最好找圈内的人写,无论有没有引用
: 过你的文章。好多引用过的人也不愿写,熟悉的人最好。

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r*n
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有一点深有体会,就像ls一个同学说的,写信一定要提及说这个信will ONLY be used
for 绿卡申请。我也是个看到有些模板学来的,后来发现好像这个还是很重要
尝试过不同的语气征求推荐人的同意,我觉得自己这里能想到并注意的地方有几点:
第一,一定要说明没见过本人,但是因为推荐人的名气,所以知道他才找他,避免有些
人觉得你很唐突找他。
第二,一定要“不卑不亢”,我有几封被拒的,好像自己说得这个事好像要人家帮一个
很大的忙,所以太过了,可能导致推荐人担心,就不愿意写了。
第三,简明扼要比较好,但是关键地方都提到就好了。
当然,最后推荐人是否热心,以及是否认识我们的老板等因素都起很大作用,找不到就
继续找,不断在引你文章的人里挖掘,或者不断调整策略,总会拿到的。

【在 m****o 的大作中提到】
: 谢谢详细的答复,我今天早上把骚扰过但是没有回复我的人,又发了一次,已经写的很中
: 肯了,希望有人会回吧,我再找找其他没有cite过得人,sigh~

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