Think of something else to motivate her. Find a fun job. People, especially when they are young, do not usually care about money that much as those mid- age parents.
【在 c***y 的大作中提到】 : Think of something else to motivate her. Find a fun job. People, especially : when they are young, do not usually care about money that much as those mid- : age parents.
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Yes, of course! For the college freshmen/sophomore looking for internship, you put your summer job before freshmen year in your resume even it's an irrelevant job. It can show a student being responsible and dependable to hold a job. It's not a must, but it does help one stand out from the crowd. And those internships in turn would help one to build his/her resume for full-time jobs upon graduation. Any experience is better than nothing. Search online for the college students' resumes for internship to see how they make a one-page resume.
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【在 i******e 的大作中提到】 : Yes, of course! : For the college freshmen/sophomore looking for internship, you put your : summer job before freshmen year in your resume even it's an irrelevant job. It can show a student being responsible and dependable to : hold a job. It's not a must, but it does help one stand out from the crowd. : And those internships in turn would help one to build his/her resume for : full-time jobs upon graduation. : Any experience is better than nothing. Search online for the college : students' resumes for internship to see how they make a one-page resume.
【在 l*****r 的大作中提到】 : 赞计划人生。 : 不过人生这么长,这么每一分每一秒都在为了将来而奋斗,累不累啊。高中毕业的暑假 : ,你就让人家小姑娘轻松一会,过几天猪吃猪睡的日子不行吗? : : . It can show a student being responsible and dependable to : .
【在 l*****r 的大作中提到】 : 赞计划人生。 : 不过人生这么长,这么每一分每一秒都在为了将来而奋斗,累不累啊。高中毕业的暑假 : ,你就让人家小姑娘轻松一会,过几天猪吃猪睡的日子不行吗? : : . It can show a student being responsible and dependable to : .
谢谢。想来大概是她个性吧。 我昨天晚饭时,还跟LG,女儿聊起你的贴子。LG,女儿第一反应都是,刚念完紧张的四 年高中,又没有金钱的压力,大部分小孩都会犯懒,什么都不想做。我提到我也可能会 猪吃猪睡三个月(惭愧!)再问女儿她去年怎么想的,她的原话是,"Every person is different. I can be like that for a few weeks,but not for three months . I cannot stand doing nothing for that long. 她又补充,"If I think the stuff I'm doing has an impact to my future, I'm more motivated. If it has nothing to do with my future, I might think why bother." 我想这也应了你朋友 提到的,"孩子若不想工作, 催也没用。" 女儿从小就单纯,内向。大概我危机意识严重吧,(老公认为我过度悲观),我很怕她以 后竞争力不够,一直灌输女儿打工对她是一种锻炼,能学到很多如何处理问题, 接人待 物的能力,这大概也是写在resume上会有帮助的原因吧。加上她的一些同学也打工,她 认为这是很自然的事, 也就有动力了.