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Re: 一次在美下馆子的遭遇 (转载)

Re: 一次在美下馆子的遭遇 (转载)# Joke - 肚皮舞运动

n*t2010-12-14 08:12

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我的律师负责写所有的推荐信和petition letter.　他要求的各种材料已经交给他好久
了，还没有写完。我无数次表示我想早点把材料递上去，让他一写好就尽快交给我。仍
然是遥遥无期，大家都是怎么跟律师沟通的？
我自己也觉得不好意思再催他了，虽有时觉得交钱干活是天经地义，但怕没写好，到头
来吃亏的还是自己。感觉就像吃了哑巴亏，只能忍着。
上来抱怨一下，象大家讨教一下跟律师打交道的技巧？怎样催律师干活又不伤害其感情
？

d*f2010-12-14 08:12

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【以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区】
发信人: LR106 (LR106), 信区: WaterWorld
标题: Re: 一次在美下馆子的遭遇
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Dec 14 04:14:05 2010, 美东)
老头儿比较孤独寂寞想找人聊天不知道怎么搭讪人都很低贱的动物他二十年前性
能力尚存的时候不会鸟你的尽想着晚上怎么回去xx 眼睛盯着女服务生的pp性幻想
老了就只能管这种闲事让别人知道他还没死还存在着就是一种存在感心理分析
有意思吧？我在德国遇到的跟我搭讪的女性都是70多岁老了孤独了她们要是年
轻个20岁都不会鸟我然后就是被一些少女用脏话问候过人嘛都是势力而低贱的动
物

l*52010-12-14 08:12

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没什么不好意思的, 你出钱律师出力, 催就是了.

y*p2010-12-14 08:12

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看成崔律师了。

d*o2010-12-14 08:12

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这点刘律师不错，都是他催着俺们干活

s*o2010-12-14 08:12

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问问律师能不能多给100把你的case提成highest priority :)

d*02010-12-14 08:12

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I was also in the same boat. Following are what I did:
1. I told the lawyer to gave me whatever in his hand and then I would work
on the rest; he only needs to review and provide feedback (you can be polite
by saying: I think it will work better since I am the one who know my
research best);
2. Schedule a meeting (or conference call) with the lawyer for the first
review; then, you schedule the next meeting at the end of first meeting (DO
NOT FORGET); and repeat until you get everything done; do not ever let the
lawyer off the hook.
My lawyer did not object this arrangement since this way I actually saved
him a lot of time. He still got paid the same way.
As for "hurting their feelings", you must be kidding. From my experience, "
shame" is not something you should natually relate to lawyers. There is a
reason why lawyer is at the top of list of professions Americans distrust
most.
Technically, you need to be polite and professional; but mentally, you
should never feel sorry. You pay them.
Anyway, do not count on the lawyer for the PL. Advice on this board is much
more useful than that from the lawyer.

【在 n*********t 的大作中提到】

: 我的律师负责写所有的推荐信和petition letter.　他要求的各种材料已经交给他好久
: 了，还没有写完。我无数次表示我想早点把材料递上去，让他一写好就尽快交给我。仍
: 然是遥遥无期，大家都是怎么跟律师沟通的？
: 我自己也觉得不好意思再催他了，虽有时觉得交钱干活是天经地义，但怕没写好，到头
: 来吃亏的还是自己。感觉就像吃了哑巴亏，只能忍着。
: 上来抱怨一下，象大家讨教一下跟律师打交道的技巧？怎样催律师干活又不伤害其感情
: ？