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H*s2010-05-16 07:05

1 楼

I have been deep-diving and watering this forum for a long time starting
from it's born to today. There are two observations that should be admitted
by all of us, that first, less and less people are willing to speak here;
Second, we have less and less posts that have good quality, and we don't
even know who should be BZ for this forum even as we are speaking now...
Well... there is a reason for it.
So as a real lesbian who take that identity seriously(I am sure we are, even
sometimes we wish we

u*a2010-05-16 07:05

2 楼

All you said were definitely right, all you want was perfect,but it's only
happened in ideal world, can not be here.
It's hard to find rules verify every single waterer , you can not choose
people here, who is a real les or not..
It's a public broad, control yourself ,enjoy yourself that would be good
enough.
Also, you can apply BZ..that's might be give you a chance to do something..

admitted
even
booming

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

: I have been deep-diving and watering this forum for a long time starting
: from it's born to today. There are two observations that should be admitted
: by all of us, that first, less and less people are willing to speak here;
: Second, we have less and less posts that have good quality, and we don't
: even know who should be BZ for this forum even as we are speaking now...
: Well... there is a reason for it.
: So as a real lesbian who take that identity seriously(I am sure we are, even
: sometimes we wish we

c*e2010-05-16 07:05

3 楼

insightful thoughts

i*i2010-05-16 07:05

4 楼

我觉得你适合作版务，要不要去申请一个？

【在 c*****e 的大作中提到】

: insightful thoughts

g*a2010-05-16 07:05

5 楼

我是MAN

i*i2010-05-16 07:05

6 楼

are you sure?

【在 g*******a 的大作中提到】

: 我是MAN

m*22010-05-16 07:05

7 楼

No, I don't think what I want is "perfect scenario" as the case of "perfect
is impossible". I think it is definitely possible to try to follow that
principle, those principles are the least we can try to make this forum
booming. For example, we don't have to know who is real les or not, as
everyone including non lesbian is welcomed to post here as long as the post
is not malicious, not biased, not offensive to specific individual...which
can be easy identified by reading the post.
My point is

【在 u****a 的大作中提到】

: All you said were definitely right, all you want was perfect,but it's only
: happened in ideal world, can not be here.
: It's hard to find rules verify every single waterer , you can not choose
: people here, who is a real les or not..
: It's a public broad, control yourself ,enjoy yourself that would be good
: enough.
: Also, you can apply BZ..that's might be give you a chance to do something..
:
: admitted
: even

c*e2010-05-16 07:05

8 楼

我快回国了，可能3个月上不来。还是让版上稳定点好

【在 i*i 的大作中提到】

: 我觉得你适合作版务，要不要去申请一个？

g*12010-05-16 07:05

9 楼

3月后再申请吧

【在 c*****e 的大作中提到】

: 我快回国了，可能3个月上不来。还是让版上稳定点好

i*i2010-05-16 07:05

10 楼

那就做好准备接受下一任版务吧，LOL

【在 c*****e 的大作中提到】

: 我快回国了，可能3个月上不来。还是让版上稳定点好

b*42010-05-16 07:05

11 楼

5. This forum should absolutely forbid the stupid and biased straight
people, who know nothing about being gay and come here trying to convert us.
======> 内牛满面。。。。
我亲眼所见/亲耳所听过不同的anti-gay, Homophobic talk/speech.

g*12010-05-16 07:05

12 楼

good!
in addition to all you proposed, i also hope the bz to be "straight friendly
" and "bi friendly" too. stereotyping hurts both ways.

admitted
even
booming

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

g*12010-05-16 07:05

13 楼

可怜的。。不跟他们计较。话说很多这些也是来自于自我否定的gay。。

us.

【在 b******4 的大作中提到】

: 5. This forum should absolutely forbid the stupid and biased straight
: people, who know nothing about being gay and come here trying to convert us.
: ======> 内牛满面。。。。
: 我亲眼所见/亲耳所听过不同的anti-gay, Homophobic talk/speech.

H*s2010-05-16 07:05

14 楼

Yep, Agree!!

friendly

【在 g*******1 的大作中提到】

: good!
: in addition to all you proposed, i also hope the bz to be "straight friendly
: " and "bi friendly" too. stereotyping hurts both ways.
:
: admitted
: even
: booming

u*a2010-05-16 07:05

15 楼

Do you remember when we signed an account here at very beginning we were asked to read and agree
something? almost like "be nice" blablabla~~ Everyone has an account
here all agree those policies. but totally forget when watering..
I understand your post and I do agree with you..
I just think it's hard to do any change here...
Same here,wish we can have a wonderful BZ and thank you...

perfect
post

【在 m********2 的大作中提到】

: No, I don't think what I want is "perfect scenario" as the case of "perfect
: is impossible". I think it is definitely possible to try to follow that
: principle, those principles are the least we can try to make this forum
: booming. For example, we don't have to know who is real les or not, as
: everyone including non lesbian is welcomed to post here as long as the post
: is not malicious, not biased, not offensive to specific individual...which
: can be easy identified by reading the post.
: My point is

c*e2010-05-16 07:05

16 楼

谢谢好意，但我还是认为良材善用，能者居之，版上有人比我更适合。

【在 i*i 的大作中提到】

: 那就做好准备接受下一任版务吧，LOL

T*e2010-05-16 07:05

17 楼

1-4都非常同意
5和你自己说的言论自由相矛盾了

admitted
even
booming
mean
easy
us.

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

e*e2010-05-16 07:05

18 楼

为什么非需要一个版主呀？
可不可以申请一个类似dreamer的帐号，然后大家轮流做版主，每期一个月或者3个月。
LBD --- lesbian bbs death...

H*s2010-05-16 07:05

19 楼

Please explain it in detail? How?

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: 1-4都非常同意
: 5和你自己说的言论自由相矛盾了
:
: admitted
: even
: booming
: mean
: easy
: us.

i*i2010-05-16 07:05

20 楼

白菜要不要来申个板斧？:)

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: 1-4都非常同意
: 5和你自己说的言论自由相矛盾了
:
: admitted
: even
: booming
: mean
: easy
: us.

j*32010-05-16 07:05

21 楼

up

admitted
even
booming

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

p*b2010-05-16 07:05

22 楼

呵呵，我支持你，继续。
以前没见过你发帖子啊？
TERM下看英文，果然不是很晕了。

admitted
even
booming

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

p*b2010-05-16 07:05

23 楼

哎呦，难得这么长篇大论啊。

【在 u****a 的大作中提到】

T*e2010-05-16 07:05

24 楼

呵呵，多谢邀请
我前天条件不足，还是算了吧

【在 i*i 的大作中提到】

: 白菜要不要来申个板斧？:)

T*e2010-05-16 07:05

25 楼

sorry，我下午犯困，没看清楚2
现在看清了，没矛盾
不过我收回支持了

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

: Please explain it in detail? How?

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

26 楼

好白菜，表小心眼啊
其实我是支持有一个直男或者gay男的板斧的，领导层具有多样性，才能保证看问题的
客观性。想要不成为摊死水，就要有外界的输入与沟通。本来人就没什么不同，就不要
把自己禁锢起来。

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: 呵呵，多谢邀请
: 我前天条件不足，还是算了吧

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

27 楼

呵呵楼主的意思是 les间吵架吵翻天了都是阶级内部矛盾，是可以商讨调和得；但要
是有直人前来挑衅，那就是企图挖社会主义墙角跟，是不可以原谅的，应该被驱逐出境
的。

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: sorry，我下午犯困，没看清楚2
: 现在看清了，没矛盾
: 不过我收回支持了

T*e2010-05-16 07:05

28 楼

我不支持自己，哈哈

【在 a*******a 的大作中提到】

: 好白菜，表小心眼啊
: 其实我是支持有一个直男或者gay男的板斧的，领导层具有多样性，才能保证看问题的
: 客观性。想要不成为摊死水，就要有外界的输入与沟通。本来人就没什么不同，就不要
: 把自己禁锢起来。

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

29 楼

切没收你的暂住证！

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: 我不支持自己，哈哈

g*12010-05-16 07:05

30 楼

缴暂住费比较实在

【在 a*******a 的大作中提到】

: 切没收你的暂住证！

T*e2010-05-16 07:05

31 楼

“les间吵架属于阶级内部矛盾”
agree
不过，这次的事情，恰好主要原因就是所谓的阶级内部矛盾引起的，而不是“因为有直
人来挑衅”
要是真因为直人挑衅，les们反倒会放弃内部矛盾，更加团结对外不是？所以允许直人
们上来挑衅，有助于版面安定团结

【在 a*******a 的大作中提到】

: 呵呵楼主的意思是 les间吵架吵翻天了都是阶级内部矛盾，是可以商讨调和得；但要
: 是有直人前来挑衅，那就是企图挖社会主义墙角跟，是不可以原谅的，应该被驱逐出境
: 的。

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

32 楼

恩发一个帖子给版面上缴0.2WB..

【在 g*******1 的大作中提到】

: 缴暂住费比较实在

T*e2010-05-16 07:05

33 楼

//ymdtbpk

有直
直人

【在 a*******a 的大作中提到】

: 恩发一个帖子给版面上缴0.2WB..

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

34 楼

有些人，对外是一员猛将，对内也是一把尖刀。要注意把内部矛盾转移出去，才能最好
的发挥作用。

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: “les间吵架属于阶级内部矛盾”
: agree
: 不过，这次的事情，恰好主要原因就是所谓的阶级内部矛盾引起的，而不是“因为有直
: 人来挑衅”
: 要是真因为直人挑衅，les们反倒会放弃内部矛盾，更加团结对外不是？所以允许直人
: 们上来挑衅，有助于版面安定团结

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

35 楼

我依然觉得增加gay/les community的见光度很重要。当有一天大众意识到爱同性和爱
异性就是和左撇子，右撇子一样正常，我们才能迎接更多的祝福和幸福。接受的第一步
是了解，如果大家总是把这个版面当成某个私密的角落，就不要抱怨阳光晒不透了。坦
荡的姿态，总是能赢得更多的尊重。我们既要有信心面对别人的猎奇和质疑，也要有肚
量接纳不同的观点。这些观点，可以是直或者弯，全弯或者某种程度上的弯。追求纯粹
，并不意味着迷信绝对。我从不觉得一个人可以把自己有限的经验，强加给无限的生活
。直人也好，弯人也罢，外界的压力或者内在的分化，我们可以有个人的好恶，但永远
无权干涉别人的选择。
真正的平等，不是把弱势群体拔高到某一个高度，而是让每一个声音都可以得到尊重和
表达。

【在 a*******a 的大作中提到】

: 有些人，对外是一员猛将，对内也是一把尖刀。要注意把内部矛盾转移出去，才能最好
: 的发挥作用。

H*s2010-05-16 07:05

36 楼

Well....are you a male or female?

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: sorry，我下午犯困，没看清楚2
: 现在看清了，没矛盾
: 不过我收回支持了

g*12010-05-16 07:05

37 楼

a vegetable...

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

: Well....are you a male or female?

H*s2010-05-16 07:05

38 楼

i*i2010-05-16 07:05

39 楼

能不能zkss what happened to your hormone?

【在 H*********s 的大作中提到】

c*e2010-05-16 07:05

40 楼

Agreed,and the other thing is that I think in theory "les only" may be
interesting but in reality it wouldn't work out cuz too much estrogen would
drive women insane. And I don't believe in segregation, it tends to lead to
not so good things. besides the people who want to "wipe gays out of the
planet" are the ones that we need to work on to change. So isolation means
that change is less likely to occur. ppl need boundaries between them and
the rest of the world. However, boundaries don't keep

【在 a*******a 的大作中提到】

: 我依然觉得增加gay/les community的见光度很重要。当有一天大众意识到爱同性和爱
: 异性就是和左撇子，右撇子一样正常，我们才能迎接更多的祝福和幸福。接受的第一步
: 是了解，如果大家总是把这个版面当成某个私密的角落，就不要抱怨阳光晒不透了。坦
: 荡的姿态，总是能赢得更多的尊重。我们既要有信心面对别人的猎奇和质疑，也要有肚
: 量接纳不同的观点。这些观点，可以是直或者弯，全弯或者某种程度上的弯。追求纯粹
: ，并不意味着迷信绝对。我从不觉得一个人可以把自己有限的经验，强加给无限的生活
: 。直人也好，弯人也罢，外界的压力或者内在的分化，我们可以有个人的好恶，但永远
: 无权干涉别人的选择。
: 真正的平等，不是把弱势群体拔高到某一个高度，而是让每一个声音都可以得到尊重和
: 表达。

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

41 楼

However, boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in.

T*e2010-05-16 07:05

42 楼

还是你知道真相

【在 g*******1 的大作中提到】

: a vegetable...

a*a2010-05-16 07:05

43 楼

你知道的太多了。

【在 T*********e 的大作中提到】

: 还是你知道真相

T*e2010-05-16 07:05