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正在读 Parent Effectiveness Training (PET)。 这本书列出了12种communication
roadblocks。 作者认为当孩子表达出某种想法或感情时, 家长的如下反应不利于跟孩
子交流。
1. Ordering, directing, commanding
2. Warning, admonishing, threatening
3. Exhorting, moralizing, preaching
4. Advising, giving solutions or suggestions
5. Lecturing, teaching,giving logical argument
6. Judging, criticizing, disagreeing, blaming
7. Praising, agreeing
8. Name-calling, ridiculing, shaming
9. Interpreting, analyzing, diagnosing
10. Reassuring, sympathizing, consoling, supporting
11. Probing, questioning, interrogating
12. Withdrawing, distracting, humoring, diverting.
这 4, 5, 9, 10,11 还真是常犯而不自知的错误。 我知道自己interpersonal
skills 差, 原想这玩意天生的,算了。 可发现要想跟娃斗智斗勇, 还是不得不一把
年纪从头学说话。sigh...
roadblocks。 作者认为当孩子表达出某种想法或感情时, 家长的如下反应不利于跟孩
子交流。
1. Ordering, directing, commanding
2. Warning, admonishing, threatening
3. Exhorting, moralizing, preaching
4. Advising, giving solutions or suggestions
5. Lecturing, teaching,giving logical argument
6. Judging, criticizing, disagreeing, blaming
7. Praising, agreeing
8. Name-calling, ridiculing, shaming
9. Interpreting, analyzing, diagnosing
10. Reassuring, sympathizing, consoling, supporting
11. Probing, questioning, interrogating
12. Withdrawing, distracting, humoring, diverting.
这 4, 5, 9, 10,11 还真是常犯而不自知的错误。 我知道自己interpersonal
skills 差, 原想这玩意天生的,算了。 可发现要想跟娃斗智斗勇, 还是不得不一把
年纪从头学说话。sigh...