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有人用过工商银行的网上银行系统转账到美的么？# Money - 海外理财

s*02014-03-25 07:03

1 楼

今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
“It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

l*e2014-03-25 07:03

2 楼

用过的或者知道的麻烦说说，不知道工行的网上银行系统是否好用？用来转账方便不？
遇到过什么问题没？

t*i2014-03-25 07:03

3 楼

just ask

b*e2014-03-25 07:03

4 楼

转过BOA和Chase
还算方便吧
就是两个都收incoming wire fee，求没有这个fee的checking account

【在 l******e 的大作中提到】

: 用过的或者知道的麻烦说说，不知道工行的网上银行系统是否好用？用来转账方便不？
: 遇到过什么问题没？

m*92014-03-25 07:03

5 楼

貌似主要是这女的自作多情，你想问就问问吧，建议你老公不要理她。

b*e2014-03-25 07:03

6 楼

BOA收款特别快，工作日第二天就看到在账户了
还会发纸质邮件告知你这笔transaction的具体内容

不？

【在 b******e 的大作中提到】

: 转过BOA和Chase
: 还算方便吧
: 就是两个都收incoming wire fee，求没有这个fee的checking account

e*s2014-03-25 07:03

7 楼

你lg回复了么？
没有就等着看他怎么回复
如果一直不回复那就算了
以后再多留一个心眼

yourself.
porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart
was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever
enough, talented enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your
friend. And that morning... you were probably drunk, but I was
overwhelmed. My only clear thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable
and 2. there is no one else like you in the world.
you to disappear from my life. I would love to catch

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

m*i2014-03-25 07:03

8 楼

总共的手续费是多少？美国这边收15刀，工行那边呢？另外工行是直接转人民币还是转
汇？

L*i2014-03-25 07:03

9 楼

如果内容属实劈腿for sure阿
要注意不一定会回email，也要查通话记录

r*32014-03-25 07:03

10 楼

招行之前有人推荐过

g*e2014-03-25 07:03

11 楼

那女的做了什么并不重要，重要的是你LG做了啥。
所以下来的事情是弄清楚你LG对这信的反应。

x*a2014-03-25 07:03

12 楼

BSO post? prove you are clever enough, talented enough, thin enough to have
your husband

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
you in the world.
to disappear

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

s*02014-03-25 07:03

13 楼

I want to ask my LG, the problem is how should I bring this up? Should I
tell him that I read his email?

【在 m********9 的大作中提到】

: 貌似主要是这女的自作多情，你想问就问问吧，建议你老公不要理她。

s*02014-03-25 07:03

14 楼

I haven't seen the reply yet. but I will pay attention.

【在 e******s 的大作中提到】

: 你lg回复了么？
: 没有就等着看他怎么回复
: 如果一直不回复那就算了
: 以后再多留一个心眼
:
: yourself.
: porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart
: was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever
: enough, talented enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your
: friend. And that morning... you were probably drunk, but I was

s*02014-03-25 07:03

15 楼

No it is not BSO. I am just a regular person. I think this woman doesn't
feel confident.

have
breaking
like

【在 x*****a 的大作中提到】

: BSO post? prove you are clever enough, talented enough, thin enough to have
: your husband
:
: yourself.
: and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
: . I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
: enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
: morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
: thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
: you in the world.

s*02014-03-25 07:03

16 楼

why 劈腿 for sure?

【在 L**i 的大作中提到】

: 如果内容属实劈腿for sure阿
: 要注意不一定会回email，也要查通话记录

m*a2014-03-25 07:03

17 楼

Overwhelm is a big word. Where did u learn it?

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost
kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I
wasn't clever enough, talented enough,
or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that morning...
you were probably drunk, but I was
overwhelmed. My only clear thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2.
there is no one else like you in the
world.
to disappear from my life. I would love to
catch up on

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

s*02014-03-25 07:03

18 楼

It was not me, it was from the email.

2.

【在 m****a 的大作中提到】

: Overwhelm is a big word. Where did u learn it?
:
: yourself.
: and you held me for a long time. We almost
: kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I
: wasn't clever enough, talented enough,
: or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that morning...
: you were probably drunk, but I was
: overwhelmed. My only clear thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2.
: there is no one else like you in the

h*n2014-03-25 07:03

19 楼

同感，BSO

have
breaking
like

【在 x*****a 的大作中提到】

: BSO post? prove you are clever enough, talented enough, thin enough to have
: your husband
:
: yourself.
: and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
: . I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
: enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
: morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
: thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
: you in the world.

g*a2014-03-25 07:03

20 楼

劈腿也劈过了，然后各自心怀鬼胎，一年没有联系，现在女方想重温旧梦。

v*a2014-03-25 07:03

21 楼

暂时别摊牌,密切留意你老公的动向

s*02014-03-25 07:03

22 楼

My question is, how could you tell from the email that my LG 劈腿? I want to
my LG, but not sure.

【在 g********a 的大作中提到】

: 劈腿也劈过了，然后各自心怀鬼胎，一年没有联系，现在女方想重温旧梦。

p*n2014-03-25 07:03

23 楼

这个太明显了，应该是发生过了。。只不过楼主实在是不愿意接受这件事情
如果没有，只是女人一相情愿的话，老公就早就该删掉那封邮件。但他保留着，为什么
？想再续旧情，就这么简单

j*I2014-03-25 07:03

24 楼

酒后乱性,朋友也没法做就一年没联系....

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
you in the world.
to disappear from my life. I would love to catch up on everything you've
been u

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

m*62014-03-25 07:03

25 楼

我看:
-你门夫妻快40了吧?
-你劳工什么也没干.
-着女的是个不错的朋友.
-就当生活中多个涟沂吧.

yourself.
porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart
was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever
enough, talented enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your
friend. And that morning... you were probably drunk, but I was
overwhelmed. My only clear thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable
and 2. there is no one else like you in the world.
you to disappear from my life. I would love

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

j*I2014-03-25 07:03

26 楼

给已婚的楼主劳工发这样email,怎么看出来 : -着女的是个不错的朋友.?

【在 m******6 的大作中提到】

: 我看:
: -你门夫妻快40了吧?
: -你劳工什么也没干.
: -着女的是个不错的朋友.
: -就当生活中多个涟沂吧.
:
: yourself.
: porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart
: was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever
: enough, talented enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your

m*n2014-03-25 07:03

27 楼

1毛

s*02014-03-25 07:03

28 楼

我30岁才出头，结婚4年多了。LG大我5岁。
如果LG真的劈腿，那这个婚姻没法过下去了。我绝对不能容忍另一半不忠。可是我没有
真凭实据，想问LG，又不确定，不知道如何开口。

h*42014-03-25 07:03

29 楼

我感觉是那个女人暗恋你LG吧，应该没有发生什么大事，而且你LG对她也没意思，都不
联系她了。所以，你也不要想太多，好好过日子。以后不要让你Lg单独去CA就好了

b*y2014-03-25 07:03

30 楼

Nothing happened!

r*n2014-03-25 07:03

31 楼

sex不清楚，但是你老公肯定暧昧了，almost kissed, hold her in his arm!!!
反正你老公动过心思。

B*d2014-03-25 07:03

32 楼

keng~~~
不相信女人会这么写情书...明显男人yy时候的思维...:-P

c*12014-03-25 07:03

33 楼

对方和你男人很有默契，至少是红颜知己。
对方也是不错的人，很有内涵，多半是自己的男人不让自己快乐满足。
浪漫的小女人。
lz这样的大妈思维，是很难和浪漫小女人竞争的。对方比lz可爱的多了。
而且看的出，lz不怎么爱自己的lg，就想着要找到对方出轨的证据可以离婚。
离吧，让你老公寻找真正的幸福

l*82014-03-25 07:03

34 楼

完全是疯话～

【在 c**********1 的大作中提到】

: 对方和你男人很有默契，至少是红颜知己。
: 对方也是不错的人，很有内涵，多半是自己的男人不让自己快乐满足。
: 浪漫的小女人。
: lz这样的大妈思维，是很难和浪漫小女人竞争的。对方比lz可爱的多了。
: 而且看的出，lz不怎么爱自己的lg，就想着要找到对方出轨的证据可以离婚。
: 离吧，让你老公寻找真正的幸福

c*82014-03-25 07:03

35 楼

I don't think your husband did any thing wrong. Let's say even if he did,
would you divorce him? If not, pretend you did not see the e-mail. I think
your husband is smart enough to deal with the situation, he picked you after
all. Trust him and trust your own charm.

c*82014-03-25 07:03

36 楼

I don't think your husband did any thing wrong. Let's say even if he did,
would you divorce him? If not, pretend you did not see the e-mail. I think
your husband is smart enough to deal with the situation, he picked you after
all. Trust him and trust your own charm.

c*82014-03-25 07:03

37 楼

I don't think your husband did any thing wrong. Let's say even if he did,
would you divorce him? If not, pretend you did not see the e-mail. I think
your husband is smart enough to deal with the situation, he picked you after
all. Trust him and trust your own charm.

w*i2014-03-25 07:03

38 楼

如果是我, divorce for sure.
忠诚都不再，谈什么信任。楼上的只能说是……自欺欺人……
看着信的内容，你老公和这个女的都不只是一次酒后失态了……这比在外面找过一次小
姐严重多了……精神上都已经出轨了……说难听点，估计xx的时候都无数次幻想是这个
女的了。

s*02014-03-25 07:03

39 楼

agree. 我也是这么认为的。

【在 r*****n 的大作中提到】

: sex不清楚，但是你老公肯定暧昧了，almost kissed, hold her in his arm!!!
: 反正你老公动过心思。

s*02014-03-25 07:03

40 楼

我也不知道，现在非常的confuse。

after

【在 c****8 的大作中提到】

: I don't think your husband did any thing wrong. Let's say even if he did,
: would you divorce him? If not, pretend you did not see the e-mail. I think
: your husband is smart enough to deal with the situation, he picked you after
: all. Trust him and trust your own charm.

c*92014-03-25 07:03

41 楼

hey, your hubby is still with you, isn't he?
give him some privacy. if he wanted it to happen, you can't stop him.
better not ask him. and stop reading his emails!

c*x2014-03-25 07:03

42 楼

“无意”明明就是刻意嘛
让你lg知道了只会平添反感
就把当做一封陌生女人的来信好了，一笑而过。。。

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
you in the world.
to disappear from my life. I would love to catch up

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

c*e2014-03-25 07:03

43 楼

他们以前有没有过，很难说，但是绝对很暧昧 ( held her for a long time, ...
almost kissed)
你老公要是没动什么歪心思，现在应该不会去理会这个女的，一般老婆都很难容忍一
个图谋不轨的女人还来撩拨自己老公的。
只要你老公现在老实守着你，过去的就装做不知道好了。
小心你老公下次去加州。呵呵。

c*e2014-03-25 07:03

44 楼

我觉得LZ挺聪明的。八成写这信的能看到。

breaking
like

【在 c*****x 的大作中提到】

: “无意”明明就是刻意嘛
: 让你lg知道了只会平添反感
: 就把当做一封陌生女人的来信好了，一笑而过。。。
:
: yourself.
: and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
: . I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
: enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
: morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
: thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like

m*r2014-03-25 07:03

45 楼

这么厉害，还找了个老美

w*x2014-03-25 07:03

46 楼

显然你lg有过一次ONS。不过也许就那一次。。
这个女的很不是东西，还来勾引他。不过也许她根本不知道你老公已经有老婆了。
恩，我觉得夫妻之前最重要要坦白，好好跟你老公谈谈，心平气和的，把这个扣揭开了
就没事了

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
you in the wor

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

B*12014-03-25 07:03

47 楼

Let it go. There is no proof your LG slept with that woman or expressed his
feeling for her. If you still live with your LG under the same roof, you
are not in any immediate danger.
I hate to say this, but you are violating your LG's privacy. If you
trust him, stop spying on him. If you don't, then put everything on the
table and hear what he says.

A*l2014-03-25 07:03

48 楼

不知道回帖说ONS是怎么看出来的，反正我看是显然没有
信里都说了"almost kissed"，不就说连kiss都没有么。
而且明显是你老公喝醉了，抱了就抱了吧，没什么大不了的。
而且信里说over a year，就算发生了什么事情，也是一年前的事，这一年来什么事也
没有，不就正说明你老公对她没有兴趣么。
如果两个人感情好，不用放在心上。
如果感情不好，小心观察就好了。闹来闹去也没什么用。我真是很不理解那些建议
divorce的，闹够了，然后离婚，自己有什么好处？离婚之后就开心了么？
男人最烦女人没事就闹，本来没事也能闹出事来。互相沟通互相理解才是最好的办法。

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be
to disappear from my life.

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

a*e2014-03-25 07:03

49 楼

我觉得你老公和那个女人之间没什么。别多想了！

W*F2014-03-25 07:03

50 楼

你能够当没有看到这封email么?
如果回答能,那就继续过日子，当没发生这事一样.但是密切注视你LG的行为.
如果回答不能,那就明确的问他.先检讨自己，不小心看到了你的email.
(对呀,你为什么看你LG的信箱?你怎么知道密码?还有别的故事?)
你先承认自己看他的信箱不对，先道歉.
再问这个email是怎么回事? 看你LG怎么说.
你LG可能的5种回答:
1. 死不承认.没有的事,这个女人发神经.那你也就当她发神经好了，
别管是真神经还是假神经.
2. 承认当时酒精上头,小小的暧昧了一下.但是没有上床.过后也没有联系.请求原谅.
那就原谅好了.人一生总会有软弱的时候.
3. 指责你偷看他的邮件.也不承认有什么实质事件发生.但是人家的LP就是比你温柔,
比你更理解他爱他,让他很受用.但是你们多年夫妻，他心理还在考虑,这边也割舍不下，
那头也在心理记挂,自己内心也很痛苦挣扎. 这种状况下怎么做见仁见智.
4. 好了，我承认，我们就是上床了.但是一直是她主动.
这次又是她先来信,我还没回她.其实我对她只是逢场作戏，没有要离婚娶她的意思。
ft,这样的LG留着也真是难受,各取所需.
5.

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

x*g2014-03-25 07:03

51 楼

怎么没人说是坑？信里的英语漏洞百出，既不像情书，又不像一般的挑逗，或念情，不
是坑吗？

x*s2014-03-25 07:03

52 楼

没觉得你老公对这个女的有什么。就是看出这女的主动往上凑。先留个心眼儿观察着说
。

d*r2014-03-25 07:03

53 楼

给你个忠告, 在家庭的问题上永远不要听别人的建议, 尤其是女人的, 只会伤害你自己
. 别人说完了就没有他什么事了, 最后还的你自己去面对. 关键还是在你自己, 如果你
人为你LG值得你和他走一辈子, 就当什么也没有发生过, 更不要仔细去观察, 这样一来
只能让你自己草木皆兵. 对LG比以前还要好, 还要体贴, 更善解人意. 如果你已经对你
LG动摇了, 立即摊牌. 然后各走各的路. That's it.

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My o

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

w*n2014-03-25 07:03

54 楼

就这封信看来，这个女的相当喜欢你劳工，但不好说你劳工什么态度，先别一棒子打死

s*e2014-03-25 07:03

55 楼

我觉得没发生什么事情, 别多心了. 这个人就是一个花痴, 你LG应该没对她动过心.

r*m2014-03-25 07:03

56 楼

"And that morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. "
这段,省略号的部分...

to

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: My question is, how could you tell from the email that my LG 劈腿? I want to
: my LG, but not sure.

t*f2014-03-25 07:03

57 楼

没啥吧，应该是两人在外面吃饭，你老公送她回家，在前门HUG了一下，时间有点长，
这个女的就浮想联翩了

x*a2014-03-25 07:03

58 楼

hehe

【在 l******8 的大作中提到】

: 完全是疯话～

w*g2014-03-25 07:03

59 楼

多收集点证据再说吧
如果所有证据都说明问题再问不迟
免得回头一问打死不承认
再狠点的话如果不想继续了,先考虑转移财产,或者自己享受,然后再说

g*02014-03-25 07:03

60 楼

首先，你要问自己，如果这是真的，你会原谅老公吗，你还希望和老公在一起吗？
如果你爱老公，能原谅，离不开他，那这事也没必要那么较真，就算是真的，就算你说
破了，你伤心欲绝，可你还是希望跟他在一起，那还不如难得糊涂算了，就当没发生，
两个人在一起还开心些。

m*a2014-03-25 07:03

61 楼

Same feeling here.

【在 B*********d 的大作中提到】

: keng~~~
: 不相信女人会这么写情书...明显男人yy时候的思维...:-P

G*a2014-03-25 07:03

62 楼

情书啊。。。。
几乎都可以转笑话班了。。
不过你放心了，从这封信看出
（１）她身材不好＂not thin enough＂
（２）你劳工对她没兴趣＂u were drunk＂
（３）他们没kiss

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
you in the world.
to

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou

o*o2014-03-25 07:03

63 楼

你是LZ 的LG吧,哈哈哈
或者就是脑子进水了的一个鸵鸟.

【在 c********9 的大作中提到】

: hey, your hubby is still with you, isn't he?
: give him some privacy. if he wanted it to happen, you can't stop him.
: better not ask him. and stop reading his emails!

o*o2014-03-25 07:03

64 楼

这部分才是关键,其他的都是JJWW的话.
一个是省略号,一个是BUT , 转折..不过也有可能是你LG想借酒出轨,这个女的很吃惊并
且拒绝了,因为她后来又做了2点解释..

【在 r********m 的大作中提到】

: "And that morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. "
: 这段,省略号的部分...
:
: to

s*s2014-03-25 07:03

65 楼

觉得应该没有什么，即便有，也已经是过去了

b*g2014-03-25 07:03

66 楼

质问个屁呀，说明你老公人真的不错。

yourself.
and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking
. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enough, talented
enough, or thin enough to be anything other than your friend. And that
morning... you were probably drunk, but I was overwhelmed. My only clear
thoughts were that 1. you were unavailable and 2. there is no one else like
you in the world.
to disappear from my life. I would love to catch up on everything you've
been up t

【在 s*******0 的大作中提到】

: 今天无意中看到LG的一封邮件，是一个女的发来的，内容很暧昧，但是我怎么也猜不出
: 来究竟我LG和她之间有什么。我所知道的是这个女人是LG过去在加州的朋友，LG去年到
: 加州看望一个我们共同的朋友的时候，顺便也看望了这个女的。我当时没觉出来有什么
: 不正常，直到今天看见这封邮件。可是看了半天从邮件的内容也看不明白究竟他们之间
: 发生了什么，但是肯定有问题。
: 我把邮件copy了一下，仔细读了很多遍，贴上来请大家帮我分析揣摩揣摩：
: “It's been over a year and I miss you terribly. I wish you would clone yourself.
: Seriously, the last time I saw you, you were standing on my front porch and you held me for a long time. We almost kissed, and my heart was breaking. I had always admired you, but assumed I wasn't clever enou