If his insurance is with you, you'd better go since they need to fill out your insurance information for the first visit. But I guess your husband can tell them your situation, and give your information by himself. Don't push yourself too hard. Yes, the PD would ask you about lactation, sleeping, poopoo things. Be prepared. If you husband is really handy, he can go by himself. If he doesn' t take care of the baby much, he can not answer those questions.