My first four months after delivery# NextGeneration - 我爱宝宝
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I cannot use Chinese right now, so I can only stick to English. My baby girl
was born the end of Aug, so it is almost 4 months since my delivery. Time
really flies, what amazing thing it is to have a little one to celebrate her
first Xmas after birth.
Let me talk about my current situation. My husband is living in US, just got
a job offer after graduation, I am not in US right now. So for the whole
pregnancy and these days, it is me and my parents taking care of the little
one.
My baby girl was born huge so I had a very difficult delivery, 4th degree
tear, the worst tear. I guess I had 20-30 stitches and needed to do some
repair surgery. I was asked to have blood transfusion but I refused two
times. It was really a very difficult time. I stayed in the hospital for 8
days. But I always think it is better me suffer than my little one. I cannot
bear my little baby suffer any pain. So I endured the unimaginable pain (I
had to sit on the "air bubble" for nearly two months. I cannot sit straight
on the chair due to my wounds.
I feel really grateful for my parents. They really helped me a lot taking
care of her. My parents suddenly became much older. Without them I dont
think I can take care my baby girl alone. It is also not easy to take care
of my baby girl without my husband. It is really not easy to live separate
with my husband. But things can work out. When I was pregnant, the US
economy was really in a bad shape and it was uncertain whether my husband
will stay in US or not. I decided not to come to US until he settles down.
And now I think it is a wise decision not to quit my job so soon though both
of my husband and me make certain sacrifices ourselves. I saw my husband
only once for the past one year.
So when I read the message on whether to accept the offer written by a mum,
I think I am in a similar situation. If I am asked whether I will accept the
offer, I will say "Yes". If I am given a job offer but not in the same city
, I think I will go there for one year. After giving birth to my baby girl,
I really felt the great responsibilities. This world offers more
opportunities to those who are able to afford good education, who have
worldwide vision. It is so important to WORK and have sense of financial
security.
Things will work out. That is really my conclusion. the pain I suffer sooths
out, the problems I face with taking care of baby also can work out step by
step. We need to have strong faith in ourselves to deal with difficult time
. Also I want to say big Thank you to my parents. I also want to say to my
husband we are a family, though we are living in two different places, we
have a common goal. We will live together soon.
was born the end of Aug, so it is almost 4 months since my delivery. Time
really flies, what amazing thing it is to have a little one to celebrate her
first Xmas after birth.
Let me talk about my current situation. My husband is living in US, just got
a job offer after graduation, I am not in US right now. So for the whole
pregnancy and these days, it is me and my parents taking care of the little
one.
My baby girl was born huge so I had a very difficult delivery, 4th degree
tear, the worst tear. I guess I had 20-30 stitches and needed to do some
repair surgery. I was asked to have blood transfusion but I refused two
times. It was really a very difficult time. I stayed in the hospital for 8
days. But I always think it is better me suffer than my little one. I cannot
bear my little baby suffer any pain. So I endured the unimaginable pain (I
had to sit on the "air bubble" for nearly two months. I cannot sit straight
on the chair due to my wounds.
I feel really grateful for my parents. They really helped me a lot taking
care of her. My parents suddenly became much older. Without them I dont
think I can take care my baby girl alone. It is also not easy to take care
of my baby girl without my husband. It is really not easy to live separate
with my husband. But things can work out. When I was pregnant, the US
economy was really in a bad shape and it was uncertain whether my husband
will stay in US or not. I decided not to come to US until he settles down.
And now I think it is a wise decision not to quit my job so soon though both
of my husband and me make certain sacrifices ourselves. I saw my husband
only once for the past one year.
So when I read the message on whether to accept the offer written by a mum,
I think I am in a similar situation. If I am asked whether I will accept the
offer, I will say "Yes". If I am given a job offer but not in the same city
, I think I will go there for one year. After giving birth to my baby girl,
I really felt the great responsibilities. This world offers more
opportunities to those who are able to afford good education, who have
worldwide vision. It is so important to WORK and have sense of financial
security.
Things will work out. That is really my conclusion. the pain I suffer sooths
out, the problems I face with taking care of baby also can work out step by
step. We need to have strong faith in ourselves to deal with difficult time
. Also I want to say big Thank you to my parents. I also want to say to my
husband we are a family, though we are living in two different places, we
have a common goal. We will live together soon.