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请教：一人带2的经验

请教：一人带2的经验# NextGeneration - 我爱宝宝

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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背景:
adjusted age:7months
都有reflux, dr brown bottle, 嗝很多，每吃1oz拍嗝，每次1-10分钟，所以每次喂奶
要1小时。放crib只能睡半小时，然后被嗝弄醒，所以经常抱睡。
能burp,但要抱着走burp才能出来。放highchair burp出不来还spitup. burp出不来就又哭
又跳
我remote work几个月，马上要隔天上班，LG也是，没人帮。所以每天一人管两。
想问问有没有好的经验带两。feed一个的时候另一个怎么办？哄一个睡觉时另一个怎么
办？有没有办法让宝宝不抱着走也能burp. 多谢。

c*e2011-08-05 07:08

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双宝的话，还是找个保姆帮忙吧。反正你们每天都有人在家
亲自看着，找保姆不用担心保姆不负责，应该还是很好找的

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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thanks. because they are premmies, they are vulnerable to diseases such
as rsv. so,
we are very picky about hygiene -- we take shower and change all
clothes
everytime we go out; we go shopping at 5am and we wash hands very often.
it
's hard to find a good nanny, so we decide to handle them by ourselves.

【在 c*******e 的大作中提到】

: 双宝的话，还是找个保姆帮忙吧。反正你们每天都有人在家
: 亲自看着，找保姆不用担心保姆不负责，应该还是很好找的

b*t2011-08-05 07:08

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要是身份没问题就辞一边吧，一年之后好带很多。

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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身份没问题,但我的工作比较flexible，大部分工作可以在家干，虽然压力大，常有
deadline，所以每天睡得少,burp抱睡时也工作. 上司也好，给了很多帮助，让我在家
工作了几个月，所以不会辞了，打算撑半年等他钔reflux好了就容易一些

【在 b********t 的大作中提到】

: 要是身份没问题就辞一边吧，一年之后好带很多。

b*t2011-08-05 07:08

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那就申几个月non paid leave吧，把自己累坏了不值得。

【在 c**********0 的大作中提到】

: 身份没问题,但我的工作比较flexible，大部分工作可以在家干，虽然压力大，常有
: deadline，所以每天睡得少,burp抱睡时也工作. 上司也好，给了很多帮助，让我在家
: 工作了几个月，所以不会辞了，打算撑半年等他钔reflux好了就容易一些

H*H2011-08-05 07:08

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还是觉得请保姆是解决之道。
他们现在健康状况怎样？已经7个月大了，如果没怎么生过病的话，不需要那么注重卫
生条件的。既然大人出门都要沐浴更衣，你是不是都没把他们带出门过啊？免疫力是接
触“脏东西”之后提高的，越是想给孩子维持一个无菌环境，越是会让他们脆弱。如果
实在不放心的话，跟儿医谈谈吧。

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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thanks. the problem is that i cannot stop working since several people's
careers depend on me... i will prioritize the tasks so that i can maintain
my health. i will stop pumping soon so that i will get 10 more hrs to work
every week. i hope to find a way to handle both ...

【在 b********t 的大作中提到】

: 那就申几个月non paid leave吧，把自己累坏了不值得。

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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so far, 没把他们带出门过except visiting ped. ped asks us to isolate them
in
the 1st year and flu season of 2nd year since their organ development
is
worse than full-term babies in the first 2 years.

【在 H*H 的大作中提到】

: 还是觉得请保姆是解决之道。
: 他们现在健康状况怎样？已经7个月大了，如果没怎么生过病的话，不需要那么注重卫
: 生条件的。既然大人出门都要沐浴更衣，你是不是都没把他们带出门过啊？免疫力是接
: 触“脏东西”之后提高的，越是想给孩子维持一个无菌环境，越是会让他们脆弱。如果
: 实在不放心的话，跟儿医谈谈吧。

s*e2011-08-05 07:08

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纯敬仰
加祝福

f*62011-08-05 07:08

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不懂，Bless

B*t2011-08-05 07:08

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我好像也看不出来lz有什么能帮忙的地方。就是个superwoman。只能敬仰了。其实住家
保姆找到卫生点儿的也是可能的。。只是似乎楼主已经打定注意要扛。所以我一头雾水
，不知道楼主到底想问什么问题。。。

c*e2011-08-05 07:08

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你找保姆的时候就可以提出关于卫生方面的要求以及体检。
可能比普通的难一点，但是总比不去找的好。完全自己撑
把大人身体撑坏了得不偿失

【在 c**********0 的大作中提到】

: so far, 没把他们带出门过except visiting ped. ped asks us to isolate them
: in
: the 1st year and flu season of 2nd year since their organ development
: is
: worse than full-term babies in the first 2 years.

s*s2011-08-05 07:08

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原来早产的宝宝这么长时间里都这么vulnerable啊。确实会很难带的。

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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the last para. gave my questions -- one mom in twinsmom club just
answered
those ques. basically, i want to know how to handle both together
without
making them cry/spit up too much. how to get their burps out without
keeping holding them and walking.

【在 B*******t 的大作中提到】

: 我好像也看不出来lz有什么能帮忙的地方。就是个superwoman。只能敬仰了。其实住家
: 保姆找到卫生点儿的也是可能的。。只是似乎楼主已经打定注意要扛。所以我一头雾水
: ，不知道楼主到底想问什么问题。。。

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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thanks. i will take sick leave for several days if needed ... still have
many sick leaves... so does my lg

【在 c*******e 的大作中提到】

: 你找保姆的时候就可以提出关于卫生方面的要求以及体检。
: 可能比普通的难一点，但是总比不去找的好。完全自己撑
: 把大人身体撑坏了得不偿失

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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they are 29 weekers... that's why

【在 s*********s 的大作中提到】

: 原来早产的宝宝这么长时间里都这么vulnerable啊。确实会很难带的。

m*a2011-08-05 07:08

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我想请教你一边工作一边一人带俩的经验..............

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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i have been handling one so far. my lg handles another. but each of us
will need to handle 2 together soon.. that's why i am asking for
suggestions...

【在 m****a 的大作中提到】

: 我想请教你一边工作一边一人带俩的经验..............

m*a2011-08-05 07:08

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it's incredible enough that you've been handling 1 preemie w/o help! i have
just 1 kid, and i have no idea where all my time went :( you're amazing!!
btw i know pple with premature twins and they have a nanny, maybe you can
ask your ped abt that?

【在 c**********0 的大作中提到】

: i have been handling one so far. my lg handles another. but each of us
: will need to handle 2 together soon.. that's why i am asking for
: suggestions...

c*02011-08-05 07:08

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thanks. its very hard -- i have not been out of house for many months except
taking them to see ped... our phone is always on "do not disturb. i sleep
for 4hrs every day (sometimes more when i am really tired) and work when
twins are sleeping. i attend meetings through skype. although i tried hard
to work, i was not able to work as much as i did before -- actually much
less. my lg handles shopping.

have

【在 m****a 的大作中提到】

: it's incredible enough that you've been handling 1 preemie w/o help! i have
: just 1 kid, and i have no idea where all my time went :( you're amazing!!
: btw i know pple with premature twins and they have a nanny, maybe you can
: ask your ped abt that?

c*s2011-08-05 07:08

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楼主夫妇真不容易, 祝福一下.

m*a2011-08-05 07:08

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抱抱mm,祝你的宝宝们身体越来越好！！！:)

except
sleep
hard

【在 c**********0 的大作中提到】

: thanks. its very hard -- i have not been out of house for many months except
: taking them to see ped... our phone is always on "do not disturb. i sleep
: for 4hrs every day (sometimes more when i am really tired) and work when
: twins are sleeping. i attend meetings through skype. although i tried hard
: to work, i was not able to work as much as i did before -- actually much
: less. my lg handles shopping.
:
: have