我觉得全职妈妈更不容易# NextGeneration - 我爱宝宝
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我一人带娃，现在快一岁了。先生一到两个月飞来看我们几天。我白天上班，小孩去
daycare。我是医生，现在我没有夜班，没有周末oncall去医院，daycare只有周一到周
五。没有别人在周围可以帮忙。我平常工作很忙，nonstop appointments in clinic。
但是比起周末我一人带娃，工作其实更轻松。work is predictable and task
oriented, you are trained to do it, it is not 24/7. it is easier to be a
good engineer/doctor/chief, than be a good parent. being a parent is a
different game. children have different personalities/reaction/behavior.
being a full time parent is physically demanding - child needs constant
attention unless during sleep (if in crib), mentally demanding - needs love/
patience especially when you are tired and psychological isolation staying
home with children with decreased social contact, and sometimes not being
appreciated.
for me being a parent is more fulfilling than staying in career. after we
sort out the current obligation, i plan to be a stay home mom. it will be
the most difficult job for me.
daycare。我是医生，现在我没有夜班，没有周末oncall去医院，daycare只有周一到周
五。没有别人在周围可以帮忙。我平常工作很忙，nonstop appointments in clinic。
但是比起周末我一人带娃，工作其实更轻松。work is predictable and task
oriented, you are trained to do it, it is not 24/7. it is easier to be a
good engineer/doctor/chief, than be a good parent. being a parent is a
different game. children have different personalities/reaction/behavior.
being a full time parent is physically demanding - child needs constant
attention unless during sleep (if in crib), mentally demanding - needs love/
patience especially when you are tired and psychological isolation staying
home with children with decreased social contact, and sometimes not being
appreciated.
for me being a parent is more fulfilling than staying in career. after we
sort out the current obligation, i plan to be a stay home mom. it will be
the most difficult job for me.