转 TBAN 里的一篇文章,RIP 小天使# NextGeneration - 我爱宝宝
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经常在The breastfeeding advocates network 里潜水，获益良多。今天有位网友分享
了她的经历，非常感人。 在这转摘
一下，bless the family, bless the little one in heaven. 作为新妈的我要更有耐
心，不抱怨我娃晚上闹腾。。。。
以下是转载全文
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Hi Gina, i would like to share with all parents but i'm afraid it will be
emotional for family members to read this. I have a 13m and 100% DL. My mum
bf, my sister bf, my brother's wife bf all his 3 sons.
Last weekend, my brother's family just had a long await 4th child. A baby
girl after a placenta rupture at 35 weeks, emergency c-sec baby lived 9
hours and left. We were all heartbroken. While baby were still struggling
with tubes too live, mum was heartbroken, eye swollen in ward without baby
beside her. Baby was also fighting in ICU, which i had to sneak in to see
and tebal muka let the nurse scold. We never heard baby cried, however we
have a picture oh her had her eyes half open. Baby was the heaviest but the
most pale and weakest in ICU. I assume she left in her parents arms, which i
am not there to witness. Before her proper ceremony ytd, i have choose some
new cloths from my LO presents for my brother to choose for the baby. We
prepared a pacifier, a teddy bear, a bottle heart-brokenly. All family
members gather from afar. I had the opportunity to greet the baby at the
mortuary with my mum. We cleaned her, wore the new clothes that her mum has
chosen, say prayers, light the candles and my mum carried her 8th grandchild
in her arms singing lullaby. We told her how much her mama and papa loved
her, and how much we loved her. She smiled while we changed her. I have
forgotten how much our tears flowed. I also told baby that mama have squeeze
some milk for her and she has the best from her parents. Her parents cont.
to sayang her physically till the last moment.
To all parents, do not complain when your little ones cry, attend to them,
love them, be patient and if allows, offer them the best food god has given.
Your child can't express what they need, hug them, love them and for baby
just let them suckle. 50% of the time they just need to to know you are
there. Give them the reassurance and let them know everything will be okay.
Forget about how long they suckled, how frequent they have ate the last feed
, just concentrate 100% on your child and you will have all the answers.
Every lil child are given by God, a true blessing. We have taken all we have
for granted, we overlooked what we have which are indeed the best of all.
There are no baby so suck the milk mama have, no baby to comfort mama and
vice versa, and when mama have squeeze the milk, there is no one there to
drink is the saddest thing of all. Let's cherish all our loves one, take
good care of them and love them.
了她的经历，非常感人。 在这转摘
一下，bless the family, bless the little one in heaven. 作为新妈的我要更有耐
心，不抱怨我娃晚上闹腾。。。。
以下是转载全文
========================================================
Hi Gina, i would like to share with all parents but i'm afraid it will be
emotional for family members to read this. I have a 13m and 100% DL. My mum
bf, my sister bf, my brother's wife bf all his 3 sons.
Last weekend, my brother's family just had a long await 4th child. A baby
girl after a placenta rupture at 35 weeks, emergency c-sec baby lived 9
hours and left. We were all heartbroken. While baby were still struggling
with tubes too live, mum was heartbroken, eye swollen in ward without baby
beside her. Baby was also fighting in ICU, which i had to sneak in to see
and tebal muka let the nurse scold. We never heard baby cried, however we
have a picture oh her had her eyes half open. Baby was the heaviest but the
most pale and weakest in ICU. I assume she left in her parents arms, which i
am not there to witness. Before her proper ceremony ytd, i have choose some
new cloths from my LO presents for my brother to choose for the baby. We
prepared a pacifier, a teddy bear, a bottle heart-brokenly. All family
members gather from afar. I had the opportunity to greet the baby at the
mortuary with my mum. We cleaned her, wore the new clothes that her mum has
chosen, say prayers, light the candles and my mum carried her 8th grandchild
in her arms singing lullaby. We told her how much her mama and papa loved
her, and how much we loved her. She smiled while we changed her. I have
forgotten how much our tears flowed. I also told baby that mama have squeeze
some milk for her and she has the best from her parents. Her parents cont.
to sayang her physically till the last moment.
To all parents, do not complain when your little ones cry, attend to them,
love them, be patient and if allows, offer them the best food god has given.
Your child can't express what they need, hug them, love them and for baby
just let them suckle. 50% of the time they just need to to know you are
there. Give them the reassurance and let them know everything will be okay.
Forget about how long they suckled, how frequent they have ate the last feed
, just concentrate 100% on your child and you will have all the answers.
Every lil child are given by God, a true blessing. We have taken all we have
for granted, we overlooked what we have which are indeed the best of all.
There are no baby so suck the milk mama have, no baby to comfort mama and
vice versa, and when mama have squeeze the milk, there is no one there to
drink is the saddest thing of all. Let's cherish all our loves one, take
good care of them and love them.