I do NOT agree with this "爸爸其实差不多得孩子一岁了才和孩子建立起真正的感情 ,前两年对孩子的影响小。" I think bonding is very important at the beginning . If the father visits very often, say weekly or bi-weekly, then it might still work.
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事实是,我们在孩子两岁前就是分居状态,每个月见上一次,孩子的成长完全没有影响 ;另一个朋友的孩子和爸爸一年只见一次,直到学前。孩子的品行被教育得很好,但是 稍许有些拘谨,和爸爸不在身边无关,主要在于他们家(他爸和他妈一样)家教太严, 严多于爱了。 [在 southtonorth (east to west) 的大作中提到:] :I do NOT agree with this "爸爸其实差不多得孩子一岁了才和孩子建立起真正 的感情,前两年对孩子的影响小。" I think bonding is very important at the beginning. If the father visits very often, say weekly or bi-weekly, then it might :still work. :...........