加$300求购Nexus 6# PDA - 掌中宝
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LD has a brother and a sister. They all have great income. Brother has two
apartments and is considering to buy another one. Sister has one apartment
and is considering to buy another one.
Parents in-law have a house in hometown. But they moved a few years ago to
the city where brother in-law and sister in-law live, in order to look after
their grandchildren. Bother in-law did not let his parents to live in his
empty apartment (he has two, one is empty), but asked them to rent an
apartment themselves (even if it was him who first asked parents to come to
look after his kid). In the end, sister in-law remodeled her garage into a
small living place for her parents. Parents in-law live in that place, to
send and pick up two grandchildren every day twice, and cook for them and
sister in-law's family.
We went home last year to find out that where parents in-law live is too
shabby, and suggested them to buy an apartment. An apartment costs about
400K RMB. As LD and I are still in training and we only have small savings,
we suggested them to sell their house in hometown (it can get about 200K RMB
) and we will pay the remaining for them to buy an apartment. But parents in
-law said the house is for their son. We then suggested them to buy a new
apartment, so that we can afford to pay down-payment and then pay mortgage.
A few days ago, father in-law called to tell us they liked a second-hand
apartment (it's actually a new one) and wanted to buy it. For a second hand
or old apartment, you need to pay all at once in the beginning, and we do
not have that much savings to pay that. So, father in law suggested us to
borrow some money from bother in-law and borrow some from sister in-law to
buy the apartment for them (of course, he offered to put the apartment under
our names), and we can pay back brother and sister in-law later.
LD felt very hurt. It is not just her parents, it is also her brother and
sister's parents. LD told father in-law that we don't care and don't want
the owner right of the apartment. We suggested brother in-law to pay 1/4,
sister in-law to pay 1/4, and we pay 1/2. Parents in-law can do whatever
they want and give the apartment to whoever they like. Not sure our
suggestion will be taken at this point...
It is ridiculous for many Chinese parents to care only about their sons,
even if their sons treat them like a shit. It is usually their daughters who
take care of them, but they want to leave everything to their sons. In
parents in-law's case, sister in-law actually takes good care of parents in
law.
apartments and is considering to buy another one. Sister has one apartment
and is considering to buy another one.
Parents in-law have a house in hometown. But they moved a few years ago to
the city where brother in-law and sister in-law live, in order to look after
their grandchildren. Bother in-law did not let his parents to live in his
empty apartment (he has two, one is empty), but asked them to rent an
apartment themselves (even if it was him who first asked parents to come to
look after his kid). In the end, sister in-law remodeled her garage into a
small living place for her parents. Parents in-law live in that place, to
send and pick up two grandchildren every day twice, and cook for them and
sister in-law's family.
We went home last year to find out that where parents in-law live is too
shabby, and suggested them to buy an apartment. An apartment costs about
400K RMB. As LD and I are still in training and we only have small savings,
we suggested them to sell their house in hometown (it can get about 200K RMB
) and we will pay the remaining for them to buy an apartment. But parents in
-law said the house is for their son. We then suggested them to buy a new
apartment, so that we can afford to pay down-payment and then pay mortgage.
A few days ago, father in-law called to tell us they liked a second-hand
apartment (it's actually a new one) and wanted to buy it. For a second hand
or old apartment, you need to pay all at once in the beginning, and we do
not have that much savings to pay that. So, father in law suggested us to
borrow some money from bother in-law and borrow some from sister in-law to
buy the apartment for them (of course, he offered to put the apartment under
our names), and we can pay back brother and sister in-law later.
LD felt very hurt. It is not just her parents, it is also her brother and
sister's parents. LD told father in-law that we don't care and don't want
the owner right of the apartment. We suggested brother in-law to pay 1/4,
sister in-law to pay 1/4, and we pay 1/2. Parents in-law can do whatever
they want and give the apartment to whoever they like. Not sure our
suggestion will be taken at this point...
It is ridiculous for many Chinese parents to care only about their sons,
even if their sons treat them like a shit. It is usually their daughters who
take care of them, but they want to leave everything to their sons. In
parents in-law's case, sister in-law actually takes good care of parents in
law.
