我这几天在读两本书。我觉得可能对你有帮助。我家7岁男孩在学校很好，但是在家里
很难管理。我们要学着理解孩子为什么那样。我试着应用书上的原则和方法，觉得有一
定的效果。
Two books I borrowed from local library.
Setting Limits with Your Strong-Willed Child (Eliminating Conflict by
Establishing CLEAR, Firm, and Respectful Boundaries)
BACK talk-4 Steps to Ending Rude Behavior in you Kids
It is too slow to type Chinese. I will just write in English.
I have read other parenting books as well and many posts on this board. I
think the most important thing to remember is that every child is different
and it is up the parent to find the most effective way to parent them. The
common message I got from these books is that we need to understand our
children's temperament which affects their behavior. For easy-going
compliant children, parenting is easy. But for strong-willed children, the
way we carry our our parenting is very important. Just like the books write,
we need to give them clear firm and respectful boundaries and enforce a
logical consequence immediately each time they misbehave or break the rules.
I would also recommend another book, which was my first parenting book.
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It taught me of the basic goal of parenting and being a well rounded person.
We need to keep in mind, our goal of parenting is to help our children to
be a responsible and respectful adult. A few struggles or sad days in young
ages will help them thrive as an adult with successful family life and
career.
These and many other books are available from your local library and Amazon.
I bought books at first but started borrowing from library.
