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kindgarten要求孩子上response to intervention,挺难过的

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t*t2011-10-06 07:10

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我儿子上六个礼拜的kindgarten被老师建议去response to intervention.很担心小孩
被贴标，被人歧视。有经验的朋友介绍一下。
小朋友上课不太听指挥，不知道是听不懂还是不愿follow instruction.sometimes he
will play independently and won't cooperate with others. Right now he can
count to 20 and write 39 of 52 capital and low cases letters and know 26
letters sounds. But his teacher said he can't write idea by pictures. It
means he needs to draw a picture and write two or three words to say what he
draw. These words are not required to be spelled in right way but just
phonics. But my son just started to learn letter sound six weeks and might
have no idea to how to spell words out. I don't know how to explain to his
teacher and even is suspicious if all other kids did what she required.
My son is happy everyday and he wants to go to school everyone. He wants to
play with our neighbor children everyday. Autism is definitely ruled out. To
my son, I just think he is kind of person that easily give up and like
saying I don't know. For example, he can count to 20. But his teacher let
him count blocks and sometimes he said I can't.
Friends, please give me some suggestions. I want to know more about thie
response to intervention program. Any ideas I'll appreciate from my heart.
He is my first baby. I just wish my son is happy and healty. Thanks a lot.
One reason I worry is that I have a co-worker, his son has 多动症, and they 心疼 a lot, because other kids laugh at him and don't play nicely with him. If my son gets into the program, the kids may isolate him and play him, sign.

B*12011-10-06 07:10

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kindERgarTen
Not childs. children.
As to your question, it is not a bad thing to let a child undergo early invention. Extra training for a child is usually beneficial to his or her development.

P*s2011-10-06 07:10

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会不会做题和能不能做对不是问题，愿不愿意听指挥比较重要。

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: 我儿子上六个礼拜的kindgarten被老师建议去response to intervention.很担心小孩
: 被贴标，被人歧视。有经验的朋友介绍一下。
: 小朋友上课不太听指挥，不知道是听不懂还是不愿follow instruction.sometimes he
: will play independently and won't cooperate with others. Right now he can
: count to 20 and write 39 of 52 capital and low cases letters and know 26
: letters sounds. But his teacher said he can't write idea by pictures. It
: means he needs to draw a picture and write two or three words to say what he
: draw. These words are not required to be spelled in right way but just
: phonics. But my son just started to learn letter sound six weeks and might
: have no idea to how to spell words out. I don't know how to explain to his

j*e2011-10-06 07:10

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if you have time, early intervention is really good for your boy.

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r*f2011-10-06 07:10

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nod nod, it doesn't harm to get an evaluation first.

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: 会不会做题和能不能做对不是问题，愿不愿意听指挥比较重要。
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: he
: he

t*t2011-10-06 07:10

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Thanks a lot everyone.
Sorry I didn't say it clearly. My son can follow other people's orders
without any problem. His English is weak, and may don't understand what the
teacher is saying. Then he will give up, just choose to stay on his seat.
However, I do think in some areas, he is a little slower than othe kids at
his age. For example, both Chinese and English are not good enough. He can
say sentences, describe what he did in school everyday, but not as fluently
as others.
What I really concerned is about this program, will this make him get
labeled, nad later get isolated. so I try to know more about this program.
We already will pay more attention and study with him more everyday after
school.

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: 会不会做题和能不能做对不是问题，愿不愿意听指挥比较重要。
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: he
: he

P*s2011-10-06 07:10

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你可以先去测试一下，到底差距又多大。如果你觉得就是语言上的问题，然后自己又能
使劲儿弥补，那就不进人家的program。如果掂量着自己搞不定，就看看人家program是
怎么搞的。

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fluently

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: Thanks a lot everyone.
: Sorry I didn't say it clearly. My son can follow other people's orders
: without any problem. His English is weak, and may don't understand what the
: teacher is saying. Then he will give up, just choose to stay on his seat.
: However, I do think in some areas, he is a little slower than othe kids at
: his age. For example, both Chinese and English are not good enough. He can
: say sentences, describe what he did in school everyday, but not as fluently
: as others.
: What I really concerned is about this program, will this make him get
: labeled, nad later get isolated. so I try to know more about this program.

j*e2011-10-06 07:10

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I heard all good things about this program. they come to your home playing
with your kid a few hours one on one or two on one. lots of language
stimulations. but not everyone will be accepted into the program after
lengthy applications and tests.

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fluently

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t*t2011-10-06 07:10

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Thanks a lot everyone.
One reason I worry is that I have a co-worker, his son has 多动症, and they
心疼 a lot, because other kids laugh at him and don't play nicely with him.
If my son gets into the program, the kids may isolate him and play him, sign.

【在 j***e 的大作中提到】

: I heard all good things about this program. they come to your home playing
: with your kid a few hours one on one or two on one. lots of language
: stimulations. but not everyone will be accepted into the program after
: lengthy applications and tests.
:
: the
: fluently

P*s2011-10-06 07:10

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这个你有误解吧。不是因为进了program别的孩子孤立你，是你的落后的行为举止让别
的孩子不愿意跟你玩儿。人家都讨论的热火朝天，你结结巴巴说不出话来，人家自然就
不和你说那么多了。

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sign.

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: Thanks a lot everyone.
: One reason I worry is that I have a co-worker, his son has 多动症, and they
: 心疼 a lot, because other kids laugh at him and don't play nicely with him.
: If my son gets into the program, the kids may isolate him and play him, sign.

L*w2011-10-06 07:10

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孩子多大了？
六岁？

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sign.

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t*t2011-10-06 07:10

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5 and a half. Actually my son went to Montessori before K. His teachers
there never said anything he is not normal. I do think he is a little slower
in both chinese and english though.

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: 孩子多大了？
: 六岁？
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: sign.

L*w2011-10-06 07:10

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蒙校上多久了？蒙校是做生意的，应该会避免赶你孩子走。
英语应该不是问题吧.

slower

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: 5 and a half. Actually my son went to Montessori before K. His teachers
: there never said anything he is not normal. I do think he is a little slower
: in both chinese and english though.

r*f2011-10-06 07:10

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pat pat，某些方面老师应该比家长更早看到问题的。

slower

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: 5 and a half. Actually my son went to Montessori before K. His teachers
: there never said anything he is not normal. I do think he is a little slower
: in both chinese and english though.

n*h2011-10-06 07:10

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蒙校和公立学校的教育理念不同. 蒙校是每个孩子按照自己的进度学习, 各干各的. 公
立的学校要求孩子按照同样的进度学习, 进度可能会有差别, 但是孩子听老师的指令和
规矩是非常重要的. 我周围从蒙校转到公立, 然后有问题的, 有好几个.主要就是在不
听老师的指令, 喜欢自己干自己的. 本来吗, 蒙校就是孩子自己干自己的.
现在问题的重点不是你孩子会多少东西的问题, 而是你孩子不能听老师的指令, 这是公
立学校的大忌. 在美国学校, 学校好不好没关系, 你是不是智力落后都没有关系, 但是
你不听老师的指令, 是大麻烦.
至于英语不好, 是不是不听指令的理由. 如果你孩子是三,四岁, 可能老师会接受. 但
是上了小学, 老师不会接受. 我孩子班上有那种外国来的孩子, 一句英文都不会, 但是
还是能听老师的指令. 这些孩子虽然英语不好, 但是知道上学该干啥, 一样可以听指令
, 老师讲的听不懂, 看其他孩子干啥, 也能明白啊.

slower

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: 5 and a half. Actually my son went to Montessori before K. His teachers
: there never said anything he is not normal. I do think he is a little slower
: in both chinese and english though.

n*h2011-10-06 07:10

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是这样的. 比如,我孩子班上有个孩子, 个子小,涂颜色的时候经常涂到外面去, 就被别
人笑话. 那个孩子也没有进特殊的program.

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: 这个你有误解吧。不是因为进了program别的孩子孤立你，是你的落后的行为举止让别
: 的孩子不愿意跟你玩儿。人家都讨论的热火朝天，你结结巴巴说不出话来，人家自然就
: 不和你说那么多了。
:
: they
: .
: sign.

i*e2011-10-06 07:10

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去看看，听听专家们怎么说，没什么坏处
你信的过这里的朋友，看过之后，如果心里还是没底，再上来讨主意好了
如果孩子还没有参加team sports
赶紧找一个孩子喜欢的仍进去锻炼一下

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f*x2011-10-06 07:10

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U worry too much.