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About School Counselor# Parenting - 为人父母
q*6
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Sorry can't type Chinese on this computer...
My son is at a public school Kindergarten. The teacher said he is lack of
social skill to make friends, but he does want to be part of the group
activity, so he end up sometimes hitting others, etc. to get attention. The
teacher proposed to have him attend school counselor class, once a week, 4
kids per class. Currently they have 2 classes for Kindergartener in that
school, one for girls class and one for boys class.
My husband is concerned to put him into the class with other problem kids
would make him even worse as we also don't know what kind of problem other
kids have. I feel obligated to give the teacher a response back. To further
schedule a session with counselor to learn more about the class but then end
up not attending would be politically incorrect with the school. I'm also
concerned if this would leave a record on his profile when transferring to
other schools, etc. Or if this would label him at school (teacher said it
wouldn't as other kids wouldn't know what classes he goes to) He is on the
edge I believe to either attend those classes or not.
Any parents have their kids went through this type of program at public
school can share experience? Or any other kids story you hear about?
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o*y
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没有经验。但也想一起讨论一下,如何帮(教)孩子交朋友?
我家儿子也是K,但也搞不清怎么交朋友。有时候他回来抱怨想跟别人玩,人家不理他
,他倒是不打人,最后就在旁边自己待着。好几次,看着他在after school program挺
孤单的。羡慕那种天生跟别人打得火热的人,想想自己也不是很会在那种场合下交朋友
的人,但感觉这种技能还是可以培养的。 大家有没有好的建议?
说到这,你儿子去上那个课也可能是个好事,你的担心(record, label)再问问学校
吧。
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P*s
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你可以找一些谈怎么交朋友的书,奏是picture book那种,然后边读边和你家孩子讨论
,看看他对故事里的情节是怎么理解的。这样你就知道他交友的障碍是什么:不会接近
人家?太picky了,总想人家随自己的意?等等。找到问题之后再讨论怎么解决,该怎
样不被拒绝地接近人家,遇到意见不一致的时候怎么样才能让大家继续玩下去。很多
picture book讲这方面的。

【在 o******y 的大作中提到】
: 没有经验。但也想一起讨论一下,如何帮(教)孩子交朋友?
: 我家儿子也是K,但也搞不清怎么交朋友。有时候他回来抱怨想跟别人玩,人家不理他
: ,他倒是不打人,最后就在旁边自己待着。好几次,看着他在after school program挺
: 孤单的。羡慕那种天生跟别人打得火热的人,想想自己也不是很会在那种场合下交朋友
: 的人,但感觉这种技能还是可以培养的。 大家有没有好的建议?
: 说到这,你儿子去上那个课也可能是个好事,你的担心(record, label)再问问学校
: 吧。

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q*6
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这种书我们家满屋子飞, 他理论都懂, 对正式接近人家很害羞是一原因, 很好强啥都要
人家听他的或他比人家好是另外一原因.好象治不了根,不过多读总好吧.
老师提出让他参加还不好回答, 我们也不知道是利大还是弊大.

【在 P***s 的大作中提到】
: 你可以找一些谈怎么交朋友的书,奏是picture book那种,然后边读边和你家孩子讨论
: ,看看他对故事里的情节是怎么理解的。这样你就知道他交友的障碍是什么:不会接近
: 人家?太picky了,总想人家随自己的意?等等。找到问题之后再讨论怎么解决,该怎
: 样不被拒绝地接近人家,遇到意见不一致的时候怎么样才能让大家继续玩下去。很多
: picture book讲这方面的。

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i*e
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找学校counselor谈
问具体这个活动是什么形式的,通过什么样的方式方法帮助孩子学习这些社交能力
委婉表达你和你lg的concern //或许谈话进行一阵子后都不需要表达了
可以跟 counselor沟通,告知他们看到的他的这些问题 (就是这个帖子里你说的),
询问一下你们在家里可以如何协助
据我对social study group的了解
是个孩子能得益的东西啊,可惜不是每个孩子都有机会去:)
书本上讲的,一定要有机会拿到生活中用,才能变成孩子自己的能力
我个人认为,这样的group就是个提供这么个机会 //且有专业人员在旁边指导

【在 q****6 的大作中提到】
: 这种书我们家满屋子飞, 他理论都懂, 对正式接近人家很害羞是一原因, 很好强啥都要
: 人家听他的或他比人家好是另外一原因.好象治不了根,不过多读总好吧.
: 老师提出让他参加还不好回答, 我们也不知道是利大还是弊大.

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z*9
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带点sticker去学校,课间分给大家玩,肯定会有一群小孩围过来

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【在 q****6 的大作中提到】
: Sorry can't type Chinese on this computer...
: My son is at a public school Kindergarten. The teacher said he is lack of
: social skill to make friends, but he does want to be part of the group
: activity, so he end up sometimes hitting others, etc. to get attention. The
: teacher proposed to have him attend school counselor class, once a week, 4
: kids per class. Currently they have 2 classes for Kindergartener in that
: school, one for girls class and one for boys class.
: My husband is concerned to put him into the class with other problem kids
: would make him even worse as we also don't know what kind of problem other
: kids have. I feel obligated to give the teacher a response back. To further

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