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我应当怎么处理....# Parenting - 为人父母

t*g2013-03-15 07:03

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儿子上K。在教室里，他的cube和一个女孩的正好在corner,比较窄。据儿子讲不管是否
他先到cube那，那个女孩都会说she got there first.然后squeeze him, bump him.
开始几次儿子讲了后我没在意，以为就是kids issue,很快会过去，只是告诉儿子
ignore her, 或者就让女孩先去。可是情况好像没有改善：一天我们开车出门drive的
路线正好和儿子的校车一样，快经过学校的时候，儿子突然说：everyday when the
school bus gets closer to school, i feel more disappointed! 我很吃惊问为什么
，儿子说因为那个女孩really bothers him everyday!
儿子家长会时我专门跟老师讲了这件事，老师说她会watch out.
今天儿子回来说那个女孩hit了他，我让他给我看一下被hit的地方，儿子说没有红也没
有破,但是他觉得hurt了。
我想给老师再写封信，家长会后情况没有改进,不知是不是因为Cube 所在的位置不是老
师能随时看到的地方，必须专门走到cube区才会看到cube 前发生的事情。
大家帮忙提点建议，我应该怎么做，写信的话怎么措辞比较好？谢谢！
另：儿子性格比较温和，不会是挑起事端的人

N*62013-03-15 07:03

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maybe tell him next time the girl hits him tell the teacher right away. I am
guessing it maybe a problem of communication. Your son is not as talkative
as the girl yet and so hard for him to talk back. Poor little guy.

h*e2013-03-15 07:03

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Dear Mrs. xx:
I am sorry to bother you, but I have to raise your attention again to the
incidence we discussed on our last meeting. The situation of my son sharing
the same cube with xxx has not improved after our meeting. On the contrary,
it is getting worse. Recently my son has shown reluctance to go to school in
the morning because he is being bothered everyday by xxx. Today, he was
even hit by xxx. This makes us very worried. We, as the parents, definitely
hope our child can enjoy school life and have fun with his friends. We hope
with your and other teachers’ help, there will be some solution to this
issue. Is changing cube a possibility?
Thank you very much for your attention to this issue. We look forward to
your reply.
要我大概就会这么写，仅做参考，哪谁帮查查有无语病错别字。
再无效找校长。

【在 t********g 的大作中提到】

: 儿子上K。在教室里，他的cube和一个女孩的正好在corner,比较窄。据儿子讲不管是否
: 他先到cube那，那个女孩都会说she got there first.然后squeeze him, bump him.
: 开始几次儿子讲了后我没在意，以为就是kids issue,很快会过去，只是告诉儿子
: ignore her, 或者就让女孩先去。可是情况好像没有改善：一天我们开车出门drive的
: 路线正好和儿子的校车一样，快经过学校的时候，儿子突然说：everyday when the
: school bus gets closer to school, i feel more disappointed! 我很吃惊问为什么
: ，儿子说因为那个女孩really bothers him everyday!
: 儿子家长会时我专门跟老师讲了这件事，老师说她会watch out.
: 今天儿子回来说那个女孩hit了他，我让他给我看一下被hit的地方，儿子说没有红也没
: 有破,但是他觉得hurt了。