a*f
2 楼
I have done a lot of academic related things without asking for his approval
. I think he is really mad at me now and starting to torture me.
However, he wouldn't allow me to do anything except working in the lab. If I
make connections with other professionals in order to build my career, or I
apply for attending an academic symposium, etc, he would be mad because he
would think that's a waste of time. Even if I go to the conference that he
allows me to go, he only allows me to stay 2-3 days the
. I think he is really mad at me now and starting to torture me.
However, he wouldn't allow me to do anything except working in the lab. If I
make connections with other professionals in order to build my career, or I
apply for attending an academic symposium, etc, he would be mad because he
would think that's a waste of time. Even if I go to the conference that he
allows me to go, he only allows me to stay 2-3 days the
j*e
3 楼
现在国家实验室做博后，最近来了一个公司的offer，截然不同的两个方向。公司的职
位不是正式职工， 一年后有转正的机会。工资肯定是要比lab里高。
稳定性，应该都不好说。现在矛盾中，本想是做一两年博后在去找工作，也不知道现在
是不是机会。想听听大家有什么意见，谢谢！
位不是正式职工， 一年后有转正的机会。工资肯定是要比lab里高。
稳定性，应该都不好说。现在矛盾中，本想是做一两年博后在去找工作，也不知道现在
是不是机会。想听听大家有什么意见，谢谢！
k*1
4 楼
我是一名联合培养工科博士研究生，在美国将进行为期2年的访问研究，由于种种原因
，到学校4个多月后迟迟没法开展实验研究，心里甚是焦急，所以就联系了另一所大学
的教授，研究方向和我在国内的研究几乎相同，准备转学开展自己的课题，于是就和现
在的导师商量关于我转学的事宜，但他怎么也不肯放我转学，并威胁要么继续待在他课
题组，要么他就打电话立刻终止他的sponsor，迫使我一个月内必须离开美国，现在已
经谈了好几次都是没进展，把我弄得都要崩溃了，所以恳请大家帮忙，这种情况我可以
转学吗？一定需要现在的导师同意后，我才能转学吗？因为听一些朋友说，到时转学的
时候，对方学校需要目前导师的一个同意函，不知道是不是一定需要，希望了解的朋友
可以帮帮我，非常感谢大家！
，到学校4个多月后迟迟没法开展实验研究，心里甚是焦急，所以就联系了另一所大学
的教授，研究方向和我在国内的研究几乎相同，准备转学开展自己的课题，于是就和现
在的导师商量关于我转学的事宜，但他怎么也不肯放我转学，并威胁要么继续待在他课
题组，要么他就打电话立刻终止他的sponsor，迫使我一个月内必须离开美国，现在已
经谈了好几次都是没进展，把我弄得都要崩溃了，所以恳请大家帮忙，这种情况我可以
转学吗？一定需要现在的导师同意后，我才能转学吗？因为听一些朋友说，到时转学的
时候，对方学校需要目前导师的一个同意函，不知道是不是一定需要，希望了解的朋友
可以帮帮我，非常感谢大家！
p*j
5 楼
主要是试试这个廉价二手镜头。没有主题，走那拍那，回来发现ccd挺脏了。
比套头也贵不了多少，大家就随便拍转吧。
比套头也贵不了多少，大家就随便拍转吧。
l*n
6 楼
碰运气
【在 s********8 的大作中提到】
: 北京入境
: 管得严吗？
: 化妆品比如4个牌子每个1-2瓶给朋友，需要每个都上税吗？谢谢
: 有点不敢啊
【在 s********8 的大作中提到】
: 北京入境
: 管得严吗？
: 化妆品比如4个牌子每个1-2瓶给朋友，需要每个都上税吗？谢谢
: 有点不敢啊
x3
7 楼
It is definitely bad to do academic related things without boss's permission
. It could be very serious. My phd boss is also very sensitive to this kind
of issue. He has kicked out several students just because of these things.
Boss is always a boss, he is responsible and needs to have full control over
all the academic related things in the group.
Try to communicate with him thoroughly in this issue. Otherwise, you will
have no academic future.
approval
I
I
being
on
【在 a****f 的大作中提到】
: I have done a lot of academic related things without asking for his approval
: . I think he is really mad at me now and starting to torture me.
: However, he wouldn't allow me to do anything except working in the lab. If I
: make connections with other professionals in order to build my career, or I
: apply for attending an academic symposium, etc, he would be mad because he
: would think that's a waste of time. Even if I go to the conference that he
: allows me to go, he only allows me to stay 2-3 days the
. It could be very serious. My phd boss is also very sensitive to this kind
of issue. He has kicked out several students just because of these things.
Boss is always a boss, he is responsible and needs to have full control over
all the academic related things in the group.
Try to communicate with him thoroughly in this issue. Otherwise, you will
have no academic future.
approval
I
I
being
on
【在 a****f 的大作中提到】
: I have done a lot of academic related things without asking for his approval
: . I think he is really mad at me now and starting to torture me.
: However, he wouldn't allow me to do anything except working in the lab. If I
: make connections with other professionals in order to build my career, or I
: apply for attending an academic symposium, etc, he would be mad because he
: would think that's a waste of time. Even if I go to the conference that he
: allows me to go, he only allows me to stay 2-3 days the
l*z
8 楼
哪里的国家实验室?
如果想在学术界,还是国家实验室好,如果还赚钱,当然公司的.
如果想在学术界,还是国家实验室好,如果还赚钱,当然公司的.
z*i
9 楼
去问问学校的international office吧。好运。
o*6
10 楼
5和6是什么地方？
s*8
11 楼
北京入境
管得严吗？
化妆品比如4个牌子每个1-2瓶给朋友，需要每个都上税吗？谢谢
有点不敢啊
管得严吗？
化妆品比如4个牌子每个1-2瓶给朋友，需要每个都上税吗？谢谢
有点不敢啊
d*a
12 楼
academic related things可大可小。如果是和别的教授聊天之类，那是小事。
如果是投文章不告诉老板（挂他的名字更糟糕），那就是大事了。
开会花2-3天，从faculty角度来看很正常啊。有时候得上完课就直接开车去
机场，回来第二天一早就接着上课。Faculty对这种life一般都习惯了，如果
你觉得太stressful一定要让老板知道，否则他可能想不到。如果是想开会以
后再玩一下，多出的hotel stay得自己出钱（没法报帐的）。
"He never understands how hard it is for me to pick a cheap
flight and get around in the conference place by myself." 这个我不
太能理解。都是大人了，自己出差做presentation，有什么不行呢？这也是
一种training。这个我觉得是心理压力太大了。
如果是投文章不告诉老板（挂他的名字更糟糕），那就是大事了。
开会花2-3天，从faculty角度来看很正常啊。有时候得上完课就直接开车去
机场，回来第二天一早就接着上课。Faculty对这种life一般都习惯了，如果
你觉得太stressful一定要让老板知道，否则他可能想不到。如果是想开会以
后再玩一下，多出的hotel stay得自己出钱（没法报帐的）。
"He never understands how hard it is for me to pick a cheap
flight and get around in the conference place by myself." 这个我不
太能理解。都是大人了，自己出差做presentation，有什么不行呢？这也是
一种training。这个我觉得是心理压力太大了。
l*m
13 楼
If you want to go industry finally, you'd better take this offer.
If you want to stay in academia, ......
【在 j**********e 的大作中提到】
: 现在国家实验室做博后，最近来了一个公司的offer，截然不同的两个方向。公司的职
: 位不是正式职工， 一年后有转正的机会。工资肯定是要比lab里高。
: 稳定性，应该都不好说。现在矛盾中，本想是做一两年博后在去找工作，也不知道现在
: 是不是机会。想听听大家有什么意见，谢谢！
If you want to stay in academia, ......
【在 j**********e 的大作中提到】
: 现在国家实验室做博后，最近来了一个公司的offer，截然不同的两个方向。公司的职
: 位不是正式职工， 一年后有转正的机会。工资肯定是要比lab里高。
: 稳定性，应该都不好说。现在矛盾中，本想是做一两年博后在去找工作，也不知道现在
: 是不是机会。想听听大家有什么意见，谢谢！
j*c
14 楼
7是移轴拍的？
l*n
15 楼
碰运气
【在 s********8 的大作中提到】
: 北京入境
: 管得严吗？
: 化妆品比如4个牌子每个1-2瓶给朋友，需要每个都上税吗？谢谢
: 有点不敢啊
【在 s********8 的大作中提到】
: 北京入境
: 管得严吗？
: 化妆品比如4个牌子每个1-2瓶给朋友，需要每个都上税吗？谢谢
: 有点不敢啊
a*f
16 楼
Thank you for your advice. It's very helpful.
For the last one, I didn't mean it's difficult for me to book tickets or
get around in a new place. But when you have extreme budget limit, you
have to pick the cheapest flight( whose time might be horrible) and find
cheapest transportation in the conference city (which might be very
uncomfortable). These all make me stressed. You can imagine that it's
already a little harder in a strange place than in your hometown, not to
mention if you skimp on fo
【在 d***a 的大作中提到】
: academic related things可大可小。如果是和别的教授聊天之类，那是小事。
: 如果是投文章不告诉老板（挂他的名字更糟糕），那就是大事了。
: 开会花2-3天，从faculty角度来看很正常啊。有时候得上完课就直接开车去
: 机场，回来第二天一早就接着上课。Faculty对这种life一般都习惯了，如果
: 你觉得太stressful一定要让老板知道，否则他可能想不到。如果是想开会以
: 后再玩一下，多出的hotel stay得自己出钱（没法报帐的）。
: "He never understands how hard it is for me to pick a cheap
: flight and get around in the conference place by myself." 这个我不
: 太能理解。都是大人了，自己出差做presentation，有什么不行呢？这也是
: 一种training。这个我觉得是心理压力太大了。
For the last one, I didn't mean it's difficult for me to book tickets or
get around in a new place. But when you have extreme budget limit, you
have to pick the cheapest flight( whose time might be horrible) and find
cheapest transportation in the conference city (which might be very
uncomfortable). These all make me stressed. You can imagine that it's
already a little harder in a strange place than in your hometown, not to
mention if you skimp on fo
【在 d***a 的大作中提到】
: academic related things可大可小。如果是和别的教授聊天之类，那是小事。
: 如果是投文章不告诉老板（挂他的名字更糟糕），那就是大事了。
: 开会花2-3天，从faculty角度来看很正常啊。有时候得上完课就直接开车去
: 机场，回来第二天一早就接着上课。Faculty对这种life一般都习惯了，如果
: 你觉得太stressful一定要让老板知道，否则他可能想不到。如果是想开会以
: 后再玩一下，多出的hotel stay得自己出钱（没法报帐的）。
: "He never understands how hard it is for me to pick a cheap
: flight and get around in the conference place by myself." 这个我不
: 太能理解。都是大人了，自己出差做presentation，有什么不行呢？这也是
: 一种training。这个我觉得是心理压力太大了。
j*e
17 楼
中部的
最后总归要找工作的
【在 l*****z 的大作中提到】
: 哪里的国家实验室?
: 如果想在学术界,还是国家实验室好,如果还赚钱,当然公司的.
最后总归要找工作的
【在 l*****z 的大作中提到】
: 哪里的国家实验室?
: 如果想在学术界,还是国家实验室好,如果还赚钱,当然公司的.
m*k
18 楼
7完全都没有虚啊？
【在 j****c 的大作中提到】
: 7是移轴拍的？
s*n
19 楼
化妆品查得不是很严。查到了补税就好了。
帮人带要有这个觉悟。
我以前被开过，不多根本没管。
帮人带要有这个觉悟。
我以前被开过，不多根本没管。
a*f
20 楼
However, I'm still not clear what things need his approval and what not.
If he already allowed me to go to a conference, should I book the
tickets on my own decision or ask him about the dates? The problem is I
have to book the tickets early enough in order to get a low price, but
if I discuss the trip plan with him too early, he usually won't be
interested in thinking about that (he might say: wait a little bit). He
can book the last minute ticket for himself but I can't because of
limited budg
【在 x3 的大作中提到】
: It is definitely bad to do academic related things without boss's permission
: . It could be very serious. My phd boss is also very sensitive to this kind
: of issue. He has kicked out several students just because of these things.
: Boss is always a boss, he is responsible and needs to have full control over
: all the academic related things in the group.
: Try to communicate with him thoroughly in this issue. Otherwise, you will
: have no academic future.
:
: approval
: I
If he already allowed me to go to a conference, should I book the
tickets on my own decision or ask him about the dates? The problem is I
have to book the tickets early enough in order to get a low price, but
if I discuss the trip plan with him too early, he usually won't be
interested in thinking about that (he might say: wait a little bit). He
can book the last minute ticket for himself but I can't because of
limited budg
【在 x3 的大作中提到】
: It is definitely bad to do academic related things without boss's permission
: . It could be very serious. My phd boss is also very sensitive to this kind
: of issue. He has kicked out several students just because of these things.
: Boss is always a boss, he is responsible and needs to have full control over
: all the academic related things in the group.
: Try to communicate with him thoroughly in this issue. Otherwise, you will
: have no academic future.
:
: approval
: I
j*e
21 楼
点头ing
中肯的建议
谢谢
【在 l*m 的大作中提到】
: If you want to go industry finally, you'd better take this offer.
: If you want to stay in academia, ......
中肯的建议
谢谢
【在 l*m 的大作中提到】
: If you want to go industry finally, you'd better take this offer.
: If you want to stay in academia, ......
b*g
22 楼
一般不会查
要查的话目的也不是护肤品
要查的话目的也不是护肤品
c*a
23 楼
Yes, my bosses are like your boss.
I have very limited budget because my boss, i.e.,the funding agents, never
gives me enough money for my research. I have to book cheap tickets, cheap
hotel, even share a room with my colleague. BTW, in order save money, I have
to do all the bookings myself. If I ask others for help, I have to pay
twice of the money.
My other boss, i.e., my students, makes me mad too as they won't allow me to
cancel two classes. So I have to take 6 am flight to make 9 o'clock cl
I have very limited budget because my boss, i.e.,the funding agents, never
gives me enough money for my research. I have to book cheap tickets, cheap
hotel, even share a room with my colleague. BTW, in order save money, I have
to do all the bookings myself. If I ask others for help, I have to pay
twice of the money.
My other boss, i.e., my students, makes me mad too as they won't allow me to
cancel two classes. So I have to take 6 am flight to make 9 o'clock cl
d*a
24 楼
Don't discuss the trip plan in that way. Get an idea how long he wants you
to go, find a reasonable ticket, print out the itinerary and price, show
that to him, and ask if that's OK. The rule is to make things simple to your
boss. And find a price as low as you can but not to the point that you will
suffer.
【在 a****f 的大作中提到】
: However, I'm still not clear what things need his approval and what not.
: If he already allowed me to go to a conference, should I book the
: tickets on my own decision or ask him about the dates? The problem is I
: have to book the tickets early enough in order to get a low price, but
: if I discuss the trip plan with him too early, he usually won't be
: interested in thinking about that (he might say: wait a little bit). He
: can book the last minute ticket for himself but I can't because of
: limited budg
x3
25 楼
nod!
all i see is problems of communication, sometimes students should be tactic,
and try to find a good way to effectively communicate with their advisors
your
will
【在 d***a 的大作中提到】
:
: Don't discuss the trip plan in that way. Get an idea how long he wants you
: to go, find a reasonable ticket, print out the itinerary and price, show
: that to him, and ask if that's OK. The rule is to make things simple to your
: boss. And find a price as low as you can but not to the point that you will
: suffer.
all i see is problems of communication, sometimes students should be tactic,
and try to find a good way to effectively communicate with their advisors
your
will
【在 d***a 的大作中提到】
:
: Don't discuss the trip plan in that way. Get an idea how long he wants you
: to go, find a reasonable ticket, print out the itinerary and price, show
: that to him, and ask if that's OK. The rule is to make things simple to your
: boss. And find a price as low as you can but not to the point that you will
: suffer.
x*u
26 楼
try not to act like a baby
q*n
27 楼
He might just try to save more for research expensive. Most of your
complains are really nothing, compared to the pressure he has everyday. I
started understanding my advisor when I prepared for my faculty application.
Trust me, he works much harder than you.
approval
I
I
being
on
【在 a****f 的大作中提到】
: I have done a lot of academic related things without asking for his approval
: . I think he is really mad at me now and starting to torture me.
: However, he wouldn't allow me to do anything except working in the lab. If I
: make connections with other professionals in order to build my career, or I
: apply for attending an academic symposium, etc, he would be mad because he
: would think that's a waste of time. Even if I go to the conference that he
: allows me to go, he only allows me to stay 2-3 days the
complains are really nothing, compared to the pressure he has everyday. I
started understanding my advisor when I prepared for my faculty application.
Trust me, he works much harder than you.
approval
I
I
being
on
【在 a****f 的大作中提到】
: I have done a lot of academic related things without asking for his approval
: . I think he is really mad at me now and starting to torture me.
: However, he wouldn't allow me to do anything except working in the lab. If I
: make connections with other professionals in order to build my career, or I
: apply for attending an academic symposium, etc, he would be mad because he
: would think that's a waste of time. Even if I go to the conference that he
: allows me to go, he only allows me to stay 2-3 days the
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