就是去听讲座、参加文化活动什么的当dating。这个是不是有点太装了?
“Call it the courtship equivalent to the slow-food movement. Call it a
backlash against point and click matchmaking. Whichever, intellidating — an
unhurried, decidedly highbrow approach to mating — is catching on in
Boston, New York, Toronto and beyond ...
Intellidating is also a boon for the shy. In contrast to speed-dating, which
demands rigidly timed discussions about pretty much whatever pops to mind,
events such as lectures and viewings offer built-in conversational pegs.
And, as London relationship coach Michael Myerscough says, it takes the "
stress of performance" off of dating, since most intellidating unfolds over
many hours in a less love-me-now-or-leave-me environment than the bar scene
or a jittery fix-up dinner.”
—Dana Gornitzki, "Notes from the field: intellidating," The Globe and Mail,
October 28, 2006