35 男征女 ( 纽约 )# Piebridge - 鹊桥
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★性别:male
★出生年份:1979
★所在地(至少明确state):NYC
★职业情况(学生还是工作):Working
★简单的物理参数(身高/体重): 176cm/70kg
★当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/离异/丧偶): divorced
★联系方式(email/IM/站内): [email protected]
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ABC, but very conservative and traditional, can read/speak Chinese.
Ivy League undergrad and grad degrees. Successful (top 1%) and busy -
typical hedge fund hours.
My college sweet-heart, and mother of two (youngest is 3) left me for
someone “better”. I love the kids and visit on weekends, but I don’t know
what to do with my life.
1. Should I start a new family ?
Starting a family is very tiring (I had a less stressful job but came home
just in time to see kids to bed. The weekends are better). But getting
remarried and NOT having kids seems unfair to new wife.
2. Pre-nup ?
Last time I got married, I had $200 to my name. 13 years later, she left me
AND got a 7-figure payout. I need to protect myself next time. What if
nobody wants me with pre-nup ? Does that mean she love me or my bank account
?
3. Should I stay single, even though I want a stable relationship and normal
life? Even the most understanding girl would have issues when I visit kids
on the weekend. I feel ambivalent choosing my happiness over my kids’ …
Thoughts ? Thanks.
★出生年份:1979
★所在地(至少明确state):NYC
★职业情况(学生还是工作):Working
★简单的物理参数(身高/体重): 176cm/70kg
★当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/离异/丧偶): divorced
★联系方式(email/IM/站内): [email protected]
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/* ]]> */
ABC, but very conservative and traditional, can read/speak Chinese.
Ivy League undergrad and grad degrees. Successful (top 1%) and busy -
typical hedge fund hours.
My college sweet-heart, and mother of two (youngest is 3) left me for
someone “better”. I love the kids and visit on weekends, but I don’t know
what to do with my life.
1. Should I start a new family ?
Starting a family is very tiring (I had a less stressful job but came home
just in time to see kids to bed. The weekends are better). But getting
remarried and NOT having kids seems unfair to new wife.
2. Pre-nup ?
Last time I got married, I had $200 to my name. 13 years later, she left me
AND got a 7-figure payout. I need to protect myself next time. What if
nobody wants me with pre-nup ? Does that mean she love me or my bank account
?
3. Should I stay single, even though I want a stable relationship and normal
life? Even the most understanding girl would have issues when I visit kids
on the weekend. I feel ambivalent choosing my happiness over my kids’ …
Thoughts ? Thanks.
