why 麻烦了? I heard some assistant professors do not even have green card. They work crazy hours for years, but still can not get tenure. Their partner live miserable life all the way.... Also, almost no way for a faculty to relocate... Is this what u mean 麻烦了?
I know a male faculty in the similar situation, without green card, in a Midwest college town. All his life is working .... Heard from friends that he dates a pretty successful lady who is making 300K a year, but 8 yrs older than him. Different people do have different life :)
【在 f****9 的大作中提到】 : 拿了谈牛没有?没拿的话就麻烦了
r*Y
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big bless
M*t
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In the mid 30s, people still try to get green card and unsure about tenure.. ..they put all the energy and time on the work. Being their wife or husband, how to enjoy life, especially for a well established professional :) people have been thinking my friend married that lady either for her successful career or her citizenship .... that lady is tall and pretty, no problem to match my friend, but still 8 yrs older...:)
:why 麻烦了? :I heard some assistant professors do not even have green card. They work :crazy hours for years, but still can not get tenure. Their partner live :miserable life all the way.... :Also, almost no way for a faculty to relocate... :Is this what u mean 麻烦了?
【在 M********t 的大作中提到】 : In the mid 30s, people still try to get green card and unsure about tenure.. : ..they put all the energy and time on the work. Being their wife or husband, : how to enjoy life, especially for a well established professional :) : people have been thinking my friend married that lady either for her : successful career or her citizenship .... that lady is tall and pretty, no : problem to match my friend, but still 8 yrs older...:)
【在 a****3 的大作中提到】 : 是的。大部分国男国女AP的生活就是如此。我知道好多没拿到tenure的转行工业界或其 : 他行业的、这里也有美国人。做教授是需要付出很多的。 : : :why 麻烦了? : :I heard some assistant professors do not even have green card. They work : :crazy hours for years, but still can not get tenure. Their partner live : :miserable life all the way.... : :Also, almost no way for a faculty to relocate... : :Is this what u mean 麻烦了?