English is the most simple language in the world, while the chinese is the
best, most fantastic,complicated one in the word..
Kids will definitely choose the easiest one to talk in daily life. So, it is
normal..DONT blame too much. They definitely would ask why chinese is so
important ? why do i have to learn and talk chinese ? whom am i gonna talk
with in chinese ? in their world, this "fantastic " language is just a tool.
How can they connect this tool with the mother language ? do they know the
meaning of motherland and mother language ?
IF we are in China, our kids are growing in China and they would NOT like to
speak English , how do you think ?
SO, as parents, dont push our children so much..they have their own way to
choose his/der life, where and how .. You cant decide his/her life,cause we
never know the future stuff,the same like never know whether or not CHINA
would be stronger and more developed than US in future 20 years.