Social is not enough, you need be in american social way. I'm pretty
outgoing in China, but here, my co-workers always say: you are so quiet. I
don't think that is a good comment. I want to talk, but I'm not interested
and have no idea about the topics they like, such as house, dogs, their
personal life etc.
However, since I'm in business area and there is no way for me to out of
this area, I think I have to force myself to fit in those topics and live in
american way. I do not like that but I h