, It's OK if you still have those kind of feelings, but, it is not good if you don't have a good control of these feelings. feeling is one thing, action is another. some of the feelings has to do with lack of compassion and kindness, and strong attachments of self. To solve the problem you need to see through and gain higher wisdom. feeling is not bad, immorality is bad. ,
l*u
25 楼
同意 稍微更正 你说的这个是个正觉的阶段 - 不是最终
【在 l**a 的大作中提到】 : , : It's OK if you still have those kind of feelings, : but, it is not good if you don't have a good control of these feelings. : feeling is one thing, action is another. : some of the feelings has to do with lack of compassion and kindness, : and strong attachments of self. : To solve the problem you need to see through and gain higher wisdom. : feeling is not bad, immorality is bad. : ,
l*a
26 楼
why agree? I am only talking about myself, it has nothing to do with distinguished mind. Jealousy is very bad, as long as I am still jealous, I move nowhere. Jealousy has to do with womanhood and past karma. I guess for me. I am still working on it, I have a very good friend, she is very good in cultivation. She is an outstanding woman. Have to say, she had been in china and in prison for a year, we shared about the feeling of jealous once, how she got rid of her deep feeling of that in cultivation. Jealousy is not a simple issue, in our cultivation, there are a lot of things has to do with jealousy, for example, you don't want people criticize you, it is also a form of jealousy.