It is just very interesting. I am learning whether I am a P or T, largely based on your discussions. I have rarely seriously thought about it. I just know that i like woman. In fact, I think I have fell for both very feminine type of women and quite boyish types. But I guess labeling yourself is easier in the dating market. A thought... is it easier or more difficult to find girlfriends if you DON'T label yourself?
我觉得不要被label框死就好,一个人有很多方面,征友的时候说的具体一点就好了。 讨论问题的时候,用代号比较方便吧,T可能指某类人,可能指某类行为。一个人可以 在某些方面很T,某些方面比较P。就好象,我们介绍一个人不能就光说他是男的,就完 了。描述拉拉的时候也是一样的,T/P只是一个最粗略的分类,需要不断增加细节,人 物形象才能丰满起来,毕竟我们有共性,但也是独特的个体。 我也曾经纠结过我是les,还是str8,还是bi,最后觉得不要label最好,喜欢谁就是什 么,但随着时间过去,慢慢了解自己,就觉得还是应该算bi,但和rightrat一样,对男 生会很picky。 不要强迫给自己一个标签,然后觉得,哦既然我贴了这个标签,就该怎么怎么做,那你 会很困惑的。了解自己先,follow your heart,one day you will figure out.If you don't ,that doesn't matter either, as long as you find the one you love, that's all you need.
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【在 s********n 的大作中提到】 : It is just very interesting. I am learning whether I am a P or T, largely : based on your discussions. I have rarely : seriously thought about it. I just know that i like woman. In fact, I think : I have fell for both very feminine type : of women and quite boyish types. But I guess labeling yourself is easier in : the dating market. : A thought... is it easier or more difficult to find girlfriends if you DON'T : label yourself?
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【在 e*******e 的大作中提到】 : 我觉得不要被label框死就好,一个人有很多方面,征友的时候说的具体一点就好了。 : 讨论问题的时候,用代号比较方便吧,T可能指某类人,可能指某类行为。一个人可以 : 在某些方面很T,某些方面比较P。就好象,我们介绍一个人不能就光说他是男的,就完 : 了。描述拉拉的时候也是一样的,T/P只是一个最粗略的分类,需要不断增加细节,人 : 物形象才能丰满起来,毕竟我们有共性,但也是独特的个体。 : 我也曾经纠结过我是les,还是str8,还是bi,最后觉得不要label最好,喜欢谁就是什 : 么,但随着时间过去,慢慢了解自己,就觉得还是应该算bi,但和rightrat一样,对男 : 生会很picky。 : 不要强迫给自己一个标签,然后觉得,哦既然我贴了这个标签,就该怎么怎么做,那你 : 会很困惑的。了解自己先,follow your heart,one day you will figure out.If