孩子问“girls没有jj怎么尿尿”,可以很简洁地实话实说,“男孩是从JJ的开口那儿 尿尿;女孩没有JJ,可她们也有尿尿的开口在下面。" 7岁的娃,只是好奇,还真不需要解剖图。 书吗,大力推荐两本, A Chicken's Guide to Talking Turkey with Your Kids About Sex 很实际,又不是单纯地谈性,而是揭示出性教育背后和亲子关系有关的东西,帮助父母 思考。 The Spark of Life, the story of how living things come into the world, as told for boys and girls [You can find the free e-book on Google book.] 一本视角独特,写得很美的书。不算一般意义上的性教育书,可是我觉得既是很棒的关 于生殖遗传的科普读物,又是极好的性启蒙书。它以说故事的形式,借着一家四口孩子 和父母的对话,从植物花儿的雌蕊,雄蕊,子房,种子,说到昆虫里蝴蝶的雌雄交配, 卵子受精,产卵,再说到鱼,再说到鸟儿,最后说到哺乳动物的猫。很妙的是,英语里 ,OVARY 一词,可以用来指从植物到各种低高级动物的雌性性器官,作者用SEED 指雄 性的性细胞,又用 house of life 来泛指生物的性器官。 书的最后,在爸爸以猫为例讲完了哺乳动物的遗传生殖后,借孩子的口,说出了这样的 话: ”I understand now how human beings come into the world. The law is the same everywhere, isn't it?“ 然后,又借妈妈的口说:"Even children, ought to be trained so that they will make good parents. They ought to love and respect their bodies, keep them clean, and never do anything to defile them. They never ought to think evil or unclean thoughts, for such thoughts harm the body as well as the mind."