How about you pitch to me first to explain why the kid shall take the suffering to practice piano? What is the pro and con for the kid to take those sufferings? How did your daughter perceive this trade off?
【在 L********r 的大作中提到】 : How about you pitch to me first to explain why the kid shall take the : suffering to practice piano? What is the pro and con for the kid to take : those sufferings? How did your daughter perceive this trade off?
hahaha, I like your answer :) Based on your answer, the problem is solved for those puzzled moms. If the child has no interest in practicing piano, it simply means he/she has no interest in music. So moms, please stop wasting your time to push a kid who has no interest in music to practice piano.
【在 L********r 的大作中提到】 : hahaha, I like your answer :) Based on your answer, the problem is solved : for those puzzled moms. If the child has no interest in practicing piano, it : simply means he/she has no interest in music. So moms, please stop wasting : your time to push a kid who has no interest in music to practice piano.
Please clarify the logic of your statement, "hoho, 你先去问问有几个对音乐有兴趣的小孩对钢琴无感再来发感想。" and then connect that logic consequence with your next statement "不弹琴就等于对音乐不感兴趣了?" Wow, now I see the power of belief. You can simply take arguments from conflicting sides and merge them all to the final sales pitch--"Your child should and will have an interest in practicing piano. If he does not love it , it is just temporary. You can find out the reasons and solve it, and make him love practicing piano again!" Wow, simply unbelievable powerful logic.
【在 L********r 的大作中提到】 : Please clarify the logic of your statement, : "hoho, 你先去问问有几个对音乐有兴趣的小孩对钢琴无感再来发感想。" : and then connect that logic consequence with your next statement : "不弹琴就等于对音乐不感兴趣了?" : Wow, now I see the power of belief. You can simply take arguments from : conflicting sides and merge them all to the final sales pitch--"Your child : should and will have an interest in practicing piano. If he does not love it : , it is just temporary. You can find out the reasons and solve it, and make : him love practicing piano again!" Wow, simply unbelievable powerful logic.
能让娃学习坚持一件事情也不错啊。 我家娃上的第一个课外班是武术课,4岁开始的,刚上课的时候每次都哭,不过那个学 校的rule number 1就是"try you best, never give up",每次上课老师都会要孩子们 背这条,我也和娃反复强调,告诉他妈妈只是让他来和小朋友have fun,不过一有困难就 放弃不是男子汉的做法,后来他坚持下来了。 我觉得这个启蒙课对我娃影响挺大的,他现在做什么事情都会说“I'll try my best, enjor xxxx and never give up."我和娃爸基本不管他,但是他上什么钢琴课,游泳足 球啥的,都高高兴兴的去,认认真真的学和练习。世界上那么多天才,有几个人光靠天 赋就能成功呢,总是要付出很多才能收获的。
理解你是肺腑之言,但是I respectfully disagree。 完全靠兴趣很难,但是possible。 I am a living example. I only do things I like, and I earned a comfortable living. 并且,我还在做自认为能达到某种高度的事情。 但是,我同意,这并不容易。 我只是想说, 不是“不可能”的。 Standard disclaimer: 我也就是说说。 灌水嘛, 无所谓。 爱信不信。
【在 G**T 的大作中提到】 : : 理解你是肺腑之言,但是I respectfully disagree。 : 完全靠兴趣很难,但是possible。 : I am a living example. I only do things I like, and I earned a comfortable : living. : 并且,我还在做自认为能达到某种高度的事情。 : 但是,我同意,这并不容易。 我只是想说, 不是“不可能”的。 : Standard disclaimer: 我也就是说说。 灌水嘛, 无所谓。 爱信不信。