chinese people really don't focus on personal emotions, and many people live according to social norms and expectations, therefore wives and husbands are more of social roles rather than emotional ties between two people.
【在 k***n 的大作中提到】 : chinese people really don't focus on personal emotions, and many people live : according to social norms and expectations, therefore wives and husbands : are more of social roles rather than emotional ties between two people.