学会打嘴仗 建设和谐家庭# Family - 我爱我家
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大多数人认为吵架会破坏家庭关系啦,最后会离婚啦。其实,吵一吵,没那么严重,至
少还是一种家庭成员沟通,比把问题藏起来,装作若无其事的样子,要好得多。当然,
大闹一番,想争个输赢无助问题解决。
昨天,看见一篇文章,谈了怎么打嘴仗的问题,讲得实在是好。就是将吵架应该值得用
心的几个地方,无非是争辩的方式,时间,地点,态度,口气, 掌握好了,那就是夫
妻和睦,家庭和谐。
不打不相识,不吵不和谐。
不要讥讽,不要冷漠,就好。几个注意,在下面了。全文也贴了。
I Scream, You Scream, We All Scream
• DO IT: The problem will not go away if you don't talk about it.
• COOL OFF: Pick a time when you can return to the argument with less
emotion—ideally, within 24 hours and in person.
• DON'T ASSUME: You probably don't
少还是一种家庭成员沟通,比把问题藏起来,装作若无其事的样子,要好得多。当然,
大闹一番,想争个输赢无助问题解决。
昨天,看见一篇文章,谈了怎么打嘴仗的问题,讲得实在是好。就是将吵架应该值得用
心的几个地方,无非是争辩的方式,时间,地点,态度,口气, 掌握好了,那就是夫
妻和睦,家庭和谐。
不打不相识,不吵不和谐。
不要讥讽,不要冷漠,就好。几个注意,在下面了。全文也贴了。
I Scream, You Scream, We All Scream
• DO IT: The problem will not go away if you don't talk about it.
• COOL OFF: Pick a time when you can return to the argument with less
emotion—ideally, within 24 hours and in person.
• DON'T ASSUME: You probably don't