I don' agree with LZ at all. If there is marriage, that means love and
loyalty. If you don' love him, don' marry him. If you want to betray him,
pease divorce first.
Marriage is not just a game. She should respect her husband if she really
loves him.
She did all these things. Betray him both physically and mentally. There is
no excuse, and don' deserve forgiveness.
Love is mutual. No matter how deep the love is at the beginning, It can
certainly fade away if you don' t protect and culture it whole heartedly.
Yao is just very self-centered and selfish person, also spoiled. She took
her husband' kindness for granted, and do whatever she likes again and again
. How selfish and spoiled she is.
Also, if she did all these things and yet still feel her husband should
forgive her, I can just say how naive she is.
But even they divorce, she shouldn't let her team to publicly say bad things
to her ex, maybe she was also angry that he liked Tang, and she wanted
revenge. So, she can betray, but he can not. Why didn't she try to forgive
him? Compared to Lin, she is not that good "family educated".
I never liked her. She is not good looking at all. The acting skill is also
just so so. I don' see any charm. She was just different from other actress
at that time, and people felt fresh. Now with all these new stars, I don'
see any special attraction from her.
I respect Tang, during all these time, she never publicly say anything. No
matter what bad words and misunderstanding to her. She is a nice girl who
truly loves Lin, and deserve happiness.