很大的可能是因为你 care result,不那么 care process。 让娃干活,你得察娃观色,知道娃为啥肯干,娃啥时肯干,娃啥时 不肯干。如果娃不肯干,那需要当中加塞点啥,娃才肯干一点。 另外娃如果搞坏了,把家里地板弄脏了,自己会不会自己因此被 LP 臭骂一顿。娃这次搞脏的概率有多大,然后自己被 LP 臭骂 的概率又有多大,预估臭骂持续时间的 mean value 是多少, median value 是多少,是不是呈现正态分布趋势,最后怎么 收场,等等等等,大脑里在 0.0001 秒内计算完毕,然后迅速 发出指令。。。 作为码工不容易啊。。。spatial-temporal thinking 技术 不过硬的话,连娃都管不住。。。
We cannot just ask little kids do something for us every time. Even for little kids, they are not dumb. They can easily see through our attitudes. However, we can relatively easily lead little kids by role modelling. Role modelling not necessary means teach little kids throw toys into the bin. (That's pretty dumb, as little kids already watched adults doing that, either in daycare or at home). Role modelling does mean help our little kids when necessary, and play with our little kids, and above that, make our little kids understand helping each other is part of team work. As matter of fact, those little kids seems clearly know their advantage of being swift in maneuvering, and love to make mess ;-) ...
【在 t*******r 的大作中提到】 : We cannot just ask little kids do something for us : every time. Even for little kids, they are not dumb. : They can easily see through our attitudes. : However, we can relatively easily lead little kids : by role modelling. Role modelling not necessary : means teach little kids throw toys into the bin. : (That's pretty dumb, as little kids already watched : adults doing that, either in daycare or at home). : Role modelling does mean help our little kids when : necessary, and play with our little kids, and above