Venus in Virgo people are not the flirtatious sort. Instead, their appeal
lies in their dedication, their willingness to work on the relationship, and
to make the relationship work in real terms. Unlike Venus in Leo, they won'
t try to impress you with grand gifts or promises. Their gifts are less
showy, but perhaps far more generous -- gifts of devotion and attention to
details about you.
Venus in Virgo men and women quietly (and often slowly) make their way into
your heart. They are quite sensitive in love -- even insecure -- and this
reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal. They prefer to play it
safe in their relationships, and they need to be confident that you like
them before they make a move. They are great listeners and they make it a
habit to observe and learn all of your ins and outs. Their love can be of
the Kindergarten variety -- they show they care by nagging or criticizing.
Remember, though, that they are not trying to hurt you when they are
pointing out the flaws in your thinking, plans, or even character. They
truly are trying to help! Venus in Virgo is attracted to nondescript people
who have largely gone unnoticed. Show-offs and know-it-alls turn them off.
Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the
little things they do -- and they do a lot. The problem is, they do these
things so quietly that you may not always notice or credit them for all
these kind gestures. They do need some space (after all, they're generally
quite busy making everything work), so give it to them. Be genuine, not
ostentatious. They are really not difficult to please after you have taken
care of these basic needs. Avoid pushing your friends or family on them too
fast -- remember they are a little shy. They aim to please, and are easily
intimidated by your experiences. Let them know how much you value them, and
they will reward you with devotion and a charming willingness to talk things
out.
Some Famous People with Venus in Virgo: J. C. Chasez (Mercury, Venus, and
Mars in Virgo), Vin Diesel, Sarah Ferguson, John Lennon, Heather Locklear,
Jennifer Lopez, Julia Roberts, Kevin Spacey (Venus and Mars in Virgo),
