C*g
2 楼
b*o
6 楼
我头几天还可以,再后来就黔驴技穷不知道怎么混时间了!
l*7
18 楼
为什么要陪玩?自己想玩什么就玩什么呗。
我家哥哥5岁,圣诞节得了个变形金刚的拼的,类似lego。第一天拼成飞机,搞了一天
才基本搞好,有些还是第二天早上弄的。第二天拆了拼成机器人,又是一天。第三天把
其他的变形金刚拿出来组队。反正一天都搞这些了,不会烦大人。
妹妹呢,满地爬,到处翻东西,撕书。自己玩的也很开心。
我家哥哥5岁,圣诞节得了个变形金刚的拼的,类似lego。第一天拼成飞机,搞了一天
才基本搞好,有些还是第二天早上弄的。第二天拆了拼成机器人,又是一天。第三天把
其他的变形金刚拿出来组队。反正一天都搞这些了,不会烦大人。
妹妹呢,满地爬,到处翻东西,撕书。自己玩的也很开心。
w*t
25 楼
不能超过5天啊
我家已经放假12天了。。。。。。。。。。。。熬啊
我家已经放假12天了。。。。。。。。。。。。熬啊
z*8
28 楼
要不,带娃去游泳吧,如果娃喜欢水的话,玩1-2个小时后回来就累死了,自己就睡了
。
。
V*a
32 楼
哈哈,正常正常
V*8
33 楼
啦啦啦啦啦啦,幼儿园假期天天照常营业不放假的飘过。
s*2
34 楼
娃放假一周多,能玩的都玩了,今天时间过得尤其慢慢慢。。。
m*r
35 楼
“后妈“来排队。。。
我家俩娃,基本在家超过3天,我就差不多崩溃,要不断带出去“溜“才好点儿。
我家俩娃,基本在家超过3天,我就差不多崩溃,要不断带出去“溜“才好点儿。
P*m
36 楼
hat's why I started my son on play violin when I got laid off. He was 4
years old. It drove me crazy to hear the request "mommy, play with me" for
thousands of times each day.
I was not musical and can not read sheet music when we started. But it is
more fun than Lego and train table. He made up rules that totally "unfair"
when playing his toys. Since violin teacher is the adult authority, he
assumed I am the authority to "play" violin automatically.
We rented two violins for both him and me. Practice violin 2 hours a day.
One hour after breakfast, one hour right before daddy come home. While we
are playing, lift up feet like flamingo, dance around couch like monkey.
That is Suzuki method, if you can do all those without breaking the music
you are playing, you mastered that piece. His daddy laughed at us all the
time when we are doing this at home. But he feels he played with mommy and I
feel I am at least learning something.
His music theory lesson also teach both of us a lot of things. For example,
he is able to play "twinkle, twinkle" on the keyboard. The teacher taped
down two keys so they can not make sound and tell all students go home and
make up a new song. After two weeks of trying, both my son and I couldn't
make a song on the broken keyboard. Then the kiddie version of composition
lesson started. He suddenly come ahead of me. I never composed anything
before I starts work again. My son made up hist first song titled "wiggle
wiggle worm" out of the "broken" keyboard and his daddy framed the music
composition paper as my present the day we celebrated my new job offer.
Now I took a job with a lot of demand, my husband had to take over some of
the "fun". I have so many good memories of the 1.5 year home with my son. It
opens a door to me that I never know existed.
My philosophy is to be as curious as the child is. But don't play with stuff
like Legos and trains that totally unfair. (Save those for play date.) Try
different things and find one you both will like and stick to it for a
little while. The younger the kid is, the easier for them to follow and play
alone.
years old. It drove me crazy to hear the request "mommy, play with me" for
thousands of times each day.
I was not musical and can not read sheet music when we started. But it is
more fun than Lego and train table. He made up rules that totally "unfair"
when playing his toys. Since violin teacher is the adult authority, he
assumed I am the authority to "play" violin automatically.
We rented two violins for both him and me. Practice violin 2 hours a day.
One hour after breakfast, one hour right before daddy come home. While we
are playing, lift up feet like flamingo, dance around couch like monkey.
That is Suzuki method, if you can do all those without breaking the music
you are playing, you mastered that piece. His daddy laughed at us all the
time when we are doing this at home. But he feels he played with mommy and I
feel I am at least learning something.
His music theory lesson also teach both of us a lot of things. For example,
he is able to play "twinkle, twinkle" on the keyboard. The teacher taped
down two keys so they can not make sound and tell all students go home and
make up a new song. After two weeks of trying, both my son and I couldn't
make a song on the broken keyboard. Then the kiddie version of composition
lesson started. He suddenly come ahead of me. I never composed anything
before I starts work again. My son made up hist first song titled "wiggle
wiggle worm" out of the "broken" keyboard and his daddy framed the music
composition paper as my present the day we celebrated my new job offer.
Now I took a job with a lot of demand, my husband had to take over some of
the "fun". I have so many good memories of the 1.5 year home with my son. It
opens a door to me that I never know existed.
My philosophy is to be as curious as the child is. But don't play with stuff
like Legos and trains that totally unfair. (Save those for play date.) Try
different things and find one you both will like and stick to it for a
little while. The younger the kid is, the easier for them to follow and play
alone.
t*g
37 楼
Nice post. I sent my kids to many programs for the same reason. Keep them
busy, I'll have fun! But you have to wait them old enough to be able to
learn. LZ's kids are probably too young.
【在 P*******m 的大作中提到】
: hat's why I started my son on play violin when I got laid off. He was 4
: years old. It drove me crazy to hear the request "mommy, play with me" for
: thousands of times each day.
: I was not musical and can not read sheet music when we started. But it is
: more fun than Lego and train table. He made up rules that totally "unfair"
: when playing his toys. Since violin teacher is the adult authority, he
: assumed I am the authority to "play" violin automatically.
: We rented two violins for both him and me. Practice violin 2 hours a day.
: One hour after breakfast, one hour right before daddy come home. While we
: are playing, lift up feet like flamingo, dance around couch like monkey.
busy, I'll have fun! But you have to wait them old enough to be able to
learn. LZ's kids are probably too young.
【在 P*******m 的大作中提到】
: hat's why I started my son on play violin when I got laid off. He was 4
: years old. It drove me crazy to hear the request "mommy, play with me" for
: thousands of times each day.
: I was not musical and can not read sheet music when we started. But it is
: more fun than Lego and train table. He made up rules that totally "unfair"
: when playing his toys. Since violin teacher is the adult authority, he
: assumed I am the authority to "play" violin automatically.
: We rented two violins for both him and me. Practice violin 2 hours a day.
: One hour after breakfast, one hour right before daddy come home. While we
: are playing, lift up feet like flamingo, dance around couch like monkey.
P*m
38 楼
Our school does not teach kids piano till they passed 7 years old birthday.
But violin can start at 3.5 year old. If you read Suzuki's "Nurtured by Love
", that is the age he take his student.
We are sticking to violin also because it works for both of us now. I worked
in IT and a lot of work has to be done after stock market is closed. My
husband cannot cook. So they have to wait for me to come home cook dinner.
Without the violin lesson and violin practice, my husband will keep on give
him munchies after bring him back from school and he will not eat much
dinner that I cooked. He said he need to find some activities to do with my
son instead of eating and playing Legos. He find violin just like I did when
I am home.
But violin can start at 3.5 year old. If you read Suzuki's "Nurtured by Love
", that is the age he take his student.
We are sticking to violin also because it works for both of us now. I worked
in IT and a lot of work has to be done after stock market is closed. My
husband cannot cook. So they have to wait for me to come home cook dinner.
Without the violin lesson and violin practice, my husband will keep on give
him munchies after bring him back from school and he will not eat much
dinner that I cooked. He said he need to find some activities to do with my
son instead of eating and playing Legos. He find violin just like I did when
I am home.
M*e
40 楼
I have to say your son is very talented in music. No matter how fun the
Suzuki method is, it is truly amazing that a 4-yr old can practice violin
for two hours per day. He is indeed a future musician.
【在 P*******m 的大作中提到】
: hat's why I started my son on play violin when I got laid off. He was 4
: years old. It drove me crazy to hear the request "mommy, play with me" for
: thousands of times each day.
: I was not musical and can not read sheet music when we started. But it is
: more fun than Lego and train table. He made up rules that totally "unfair"
: when playing his toys. Since violin teacher is the adult authority, he
: assumed I am the authority to "play" violin automatically.
: We rented two violins for both him and me. Practice violin 2 hours a day.
: One hour after breakfast, one hour right before daddy come home. While we
: are playing, lift up feet like flamingo, dance around couch like monkey.
Suzuki method is, it is truly amazing that a 4-yr old can practice violin
for two hours per day. He is indeed a future musician.
【在 P*******m 的大作中提到】
: hat's why I started my son on play violin when I got laid off. He was 4
: years old. It drove me crazy to hear the request "mommy, play with me" for
: thousands of times each day.
: I was not musical and can not read sheet music when we started. But it is
: more fun than Lego and train table. He made up rules that totally "unfair"
: when playing his toys. Since violin teacher is the adult authority, he
: assumed I am the authority to "play" violin automatically.
: We rented two violins for both him and me. Practice violin 2 hours a day.
: One hour after breakfast, one hour right before daddy come home. While we
: are playing, lift up feet like flamingo, dance around couch like monkey.
P*m
42 楼
Talented is a big hat for 5 year old (almost 6 now). I think it is too early
to tell. He is only good at the stuff I do with him. Hope one day he can
start to find things that is fun by himself.
My point is 1 hour undivided attention from mommy is so great that my son
will walk away and disappear in his toys and not to bother me until he is
hungry or sleepy.
It is almost like you pay your debt forward and you get paid back in the
next 2-3 hours of complete quiet time.
It does not apply to all kids. It works very well with my son since he is
two years old. I told it to my friend, worked for her daughter as well.
Another friend claim it does not work at all.
You can try it if you have a 2-3 year old. Turn off you phone, don't talk to
anyone except the toddler. Give him/her undivided attention for one hour.
Then walk away, see what happens. It is usually most successful after
breakfast or after a nap and snack. When they slept, ate and then given
mother love. They are very happy to cruise their play room on their own.
Learning violin is just a bonus. I got about 2-3 hours every morning and
another 1-2 hours every afternoon completely to myself. My son get three
hours of undivided attention from mommy. I told my husband and all relatives
not to call me or expect response from me during this time. (one hour
violin after breakfast, one hour Montessori lesson after lunch, one hour
violin right before daddy come home and perform for daddy "on stage").
【在 M******e 的大作中提到】
: I have to say your son is very talented in music. No matter how fun the
: Suzuki method is, it is truly amazing that a 4-yr old can practice violin
: for two hours per day. He is indeed a future musician.
to tell. He is only good at the stuff I do with him. Hope one day he can
start to find things that is fun by himself.
My point is 1 hour undivided attention from mommy is so great that my son
will walk away and disappear in his toys and not to bother me until he is
hungry or sleepy.
It is almost like you pay your debt forward and you get paid back in the
next 2-3 hours of complete quiet time.
It does not apply to all kids. It works very well with my son since he is
two years old. I told it to my friend, worked for her daughter as well.
Another friend claim it does not work at all.
You can try it if you have a 2-3 year old. Turn off you phone, don't talk to
anyone except the toddler. Give him/her undivided attention for one hour.
Then walk away, see what happens. It is usually most successful after
breakfast or after a nap and snack. When they slept, ate and then given
mother love. They are very happy to cruise their play room on their own.
Learning violin is just a bonus. I got about 2-3 hours every morning and
another 1-2 hours every afternoon completely to myself. My son get three
hours of undivided attention from mommy. I told my husband and all relatives
not to call me or expect response from me during this time. (one hour
violin after breakfast, one hour Montessori lesson after lunch, one hour
violin right before daddy come home and perform for daddy "on stage").
【在 M******e 的大作中提到】
: I have to say your son is very talented in music. No matter how fun the
: Suzuki method is, it is truly amazing that a 4-yr old can practice violin
: for two hours per day. He is indeed a future musician.
d*y
43 楼
我也很怕陪孩子玩,还好我们家俩娃大部分的时候可以自己玩,最多让我陪他们下个棋
啥的
啥的
f*n
44 楼
我娃学校啊,放6周的假啊,见过这么能放的么……
这头两周因为圣诞活动多,时间也还算好打发;第三周带娃出门旅行,也就过了;这眼
看着其他孩子都开学了,我还要继续熬10多天啊~
苍天啊~大地啊~
这头两周因为圣诞活动多,时间也还算好打发;第三周带娃出门旅行,也就过了;这眼
看着其他孩子都开学了,我还要继续熬10多天啊~
苍天啊~大地啊~
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