My experience: 1. The job offer is the key. Find a job ASAP. 2. When it is close to an offer, tell them (your next boss and the HR/ international office of your new place) you need a J-1 transfer from your current place. The new HR/international office will start the J-1 transfer for you. Basically they will make a request to your current HR/international office, then your current HR/international office will do the rest. 3.For my case, it took a week for J1 transfer. 4.Your current boss is not required for J-1 transfer. 5.Be cautious that your current boss may not be an ideal referee. He/she may say something negative or does not reply to the request. So prepare 3-4 RLs from others. 6. Bring a good reason like a bad relationship if you do not want your boss as a referee.
上个月有个白人大妈在路口手举牌子,上写single mother need to make ends meet god bless you。我在等红灯时给了她五美元。顺便问她有几个小孩要养活,她说四个 。这个月我又看见她,又给了她三美元,又问她有几个小孩。她说三个。我说你是骗子 ?上个月你还说四个呢。她面无表情的说:“Mary死了。”