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s*n2010-03-26 07:03

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Any experience of this?
Normally there are two views: 1. come out to parents and be honest. Because
finally, you want to have a family. You d love to share the happiness and
you needs support. 2. never come out. Lie to the end because they will never
accept. And this will make them even more worried.
Any thoughts?

L*k2010-03-26 07:03

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春节前出的日子还在过

Because
never

【在 s********n 的大作中提到】

: Any experience of this?
: Normally there are two views: 1. come out to parents and be honest. Because
: finally, you want to have a family. You d love to share the happiness and
: you needs support. 2. never come out. Lie to the end because they will never
: accept. And this will make them even more worried.
: Any thoughts?

y*o2010-03-26 07:03

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出了，父母都知道，比较包容。遇见了感情问题，还可以和他们商讨，比较幸运。

L*k2010-03-26 07:03

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真好！
啥时候我也等到这一天啊

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: 出了，父母都知道，比较包容。遇见了感情问题，还可以和他们商讨，比较幸运。

c*e2010-03-26 07:03

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well, everyone's situation is different. Given that all I can tell you is,
you know your situation the best and I would hope you would know your own
self the best. Given that info, take some time to really think through your
situation. That's the thing about life, when it comes to other people, it's
tough to gauge the outcome.
So where does this leave me? Because I care about my parents, I don't want
them to bare too much pressure. and I care about being authentic so much.
Now I don't necessaril

s*n2010-03-26 07:03

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Thanks for sharing experience. People are different. For me, being able to
communicate sincerely with my parents are important. But of course, you have
to consider how they feel, too. It is tough but life will be OK.

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【在 c*****e 的大作中提到】

: well, everyone's situation is different. Given that all I can tell you is,
: you know your situation the best and I would hope you would know your own
: self the best. Given that info, take some time to really think through your
: situation. That's the thing about life, when it comes to other people, it's
: tough to gauge the outcome.
: So where does this leave me? Because I care about my parents, I don't want
: them to bare too much pressure. and I care about being authentic so much.
: Now I don't necessaril

l*n2010-03-26 07:03

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in my family it's 'don't ask don't tell'.. works for me.

w*z2010-03-26 07:03

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今天早上在痛苦中醒来，做梦梦见和我妈come out了，然后两人拥抱痛哭，就醒了。

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: in my family it's 'don't ask don't tell'.. works for me.

z*i2010-03-26 07:03

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ft

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: 今天早上在痛苦中醒来，做梦梦见和我妈come out了，然后两人拥抱痛哭，就醒了。

g*y2010-03-26 07:03

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我也做过类似的梦。。。。。。

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: 今天早上在痛苦中醒来，做梦梦见和我妈come out了，然后两人拥抱痛哭，就醒了。

g*y2010-03-26 07:03

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顶这句~~ 每个人不同，每个人的父母也不同，父母的承受能力只有你自己知道，毕竟
说出的话，泼出去的水。。。。。。

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c*e2010-03-26 07:03

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我认识一个人睡觉说梦话把自己out了，让她父母听到了。而且梦话中和父母还有问有
答的。第二天早上全家都知道了，她自己还不知道从哪泄露的消息。

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: 今天早上在痛苦中醒来，做梦梦见和我妈come out了，然后两人拥抱痛哭，就醒了。

l*s2010-03-26 07:03

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OMG hahhaha it just made me LOL....sorry if that was't supposed to be funny

c*e2010-03-26 07:03

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She's not only one I know who can carry on a convo while still technically
asleep. But yeah she definitely got my vote for awesome sleep talker. ^_^

funny

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: OMG hahhaha it just made me LOL....sorry if that was't supposed to be funny

s*n2010-03-26 07:03

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我已经没机会和我妈out, 她带着美好的愿望离开了，其实也不错。

have

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: Thanks for sharing experience. People are different. For me, being able to
: communicate sincerely with my parents are important. But of course, you have
: to consider how they feel, too. It is tough but life will be OK.
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