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有个同性向我告白，我要怎么办啊？

有个同性向我告白，我要怎么办啊？# LES - 同女之舞

T*s2016-01-07 08:01

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今天有个女的居然向我告白了，我也是女的啊，而且我是正常性取向的啊，我实在是没
有接触到这种情况啊，我到底该怎么办啊？谁能帮帮我啊？
这个女的是我同班同学，我们每天都要见面，我虽然已经委婉的拒绝了人家，但是她说
她喜欢我是她的事，不用管她，但是我以后要怎么面对她啊，平时跟她一起玩的时候，
觉得她挺好相处的，但是我从来都没有想过，她居然是个同性恋，而且现在为了保护她
的尊严，我没有跟任何人说过，这让我憋得好难受啊，又不知道要怎么做，又不敢跟别
人倾诉，真的感觉生活都被扰乱了。现在，见到她真的超级尴尬的，不知道该不该说话
，我现在只想离她远远的，我实在是接受不了同性恋的，但是毕竟要在一个班生活四年
，想想就觉得心好累啊，我到底要要维持好这种同学关系呢？不过，幸运的是，我们不
在同个宿舍，我一想到跟她住在一起的人，就觉得好恐怖啊，说不定，有一天她就爬上
了谁的床了呢。
如果是男的话，我还有一些经验，毕竟男的比较大度一些，但是对于这方面的事，我还
真的是有点措手不及了。我现在一直躲着她，她会不会很伤心啊，肯定伤心死了，你们
说同性恋的人是不是不容易放弃的啊，我要怎么做才能让她放弃，伤害度又是最小呢？

e*e2016-01-07 08:01

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seriously?! is this even a question?
she told you she likes you because that's how she felt, you already rejected
her because you are not into her, or any girls for that matter. things can'
t be simpler than that! if you don't feel like talking to her, then don't
talk to her. Or if you still like talking to her then talk to her. Likewise
for her.
what is it still troubling you? that she is gay or that a gay person liked
you?
I suggest you tell her that you are actually a homophobia as well, I believe
she knows what to do. just don't be the green tea bitch here, being:
1. a jerk that feels disgusted by gay people
2. the nice girl who pretends to care for her dignity and feelings

V*e2016-01-07 08:01

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Well said. I don't gay girls are that terrible.
Watch the movie "Carol".
It seems lz herself is terrified. But maybe she is just a robot on the board
. LOL

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can'
Likewise
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【在 e****e 的大作中提到】

: seriously?! is this even a question?
: she told you she likes you because that's how she felt, you already rejected
: her because you are not into her, or any girls for that matter. things can'
: t be simpler than that! if you don't feel like talking to her, then don't
: talk to her. Or if you still like talking to her then talk to her. Likewise
: for her.
: what is it still troubling you? that she is gay or that a gay person liked
: you?
: I suggest you tell her that you are actually a homophobia as well, I believe
: she knows what to do. just don't be the green tea bitch here, being: